Why is it a bad Idea to bring spouse back to America ?

[Kalsoon]

I remember you made a few posts on seeking marriage before. Happy that you have found someone and you will get your wish soon. Did you do istikhaarah?

 

[Hmohamed54]

I remember you made a few posts on seeking marriage before. Happy that you have found someone and you will get your wish soon. Did you do istikhaarah?

Yeah I made a lot of dua and asked Allah for guidance. Akso asked for forgiveness and paid charity.

 

[Osama-bin Al-ballin]

It's not really true that the West corrupts women back home, especially now that we have things like WhatsApp and TikTok. Even my grandma is all over it and keeps me in the loop about what's going on, which is pretty hilarious to me. If my grandma is interlinked with U.S shitshows, who to say a Halimo back home isn't. Unrelated but my grandma is a Trump supporter now, which is uber cool, power of technology .

 

[Dualke]

Yeah I made a lot of dua and asked Allah for guidance. Akso asked for forgiveness and paid charity.

When did you get married?

 

[Basra]

I understand if that girl is completely out of your league or tax bracket but to say every girl is a gold digger back home is crazy to me ? I’m most likely bringing my wife Back here to lige with me and raise our family then move back for retirement inshaAllah.

She will ask for divorce as soon as she gets a green card.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

She will ask for divorce as soon as she gets a green card. View attachment 268045

the amount of uncles I know that brought a young women here and they all divorced them the second they settled in for a Youngblood. Also quite a few diaspora faraxs got their girl clarted in Somalia and Kenya by their secret local boyfriend whilst their husband was slaving away in the west to send money back to her. Tough times

Tbh it’s his cousin so I doubt it. It’s usually sus city girls who do such a thing

 

[Hmohamed54]

When did you get married?

Not yet but I’m close to it.

 

[Hmohamed54]

Tbh it’s his cousin so I doubt it. It’s usually sus city girls who do such a thing

Plus I’m not marrying a hot chick. She’s normal looking, but with a beautiful soul and personality. Those guys who get married then get divorced are losers and have nothing to offer and they marry the hot girl everyone wants.

 

[Hmohamed54]

She will ask for divorce as soon as she gets a green card. View attachment 268045

Lets not come to such conclusions. I don’t like painting people with one brush.

 

[Kane]

Im confused. Im not going back home for marriage because I can’t pull but just for me options. If you can’t get a girl here your not getting a wife there, end of story. I don’t have any issues with money or anything if thats what you mean.

I wish you the best insha Allah