Why do Younger Somali Guys have no Game?

[Kisame]

And you know these niggas will be seething if they see Somali girls matching up on ajnabis, Somali men they consider ciyaalsuuq, or migrant Somalis. It's tragic because they aren't doing anything 'wrong' by drinking the Kool aid that their marriage path will be similar to their parents and that they just need to sit tight and get a job, but the world is shifting. Some Xalimos will OFC want things beyond a nigga with a check and poor sociability, which is the path MANY young Somali niggas are on (each of you here probably got 5 inna adheers that fit this bill)

"And you know these niggas will be seething if they see Somali girls matching up on ajnabis, Somali men they consider ciyaalsuuq, or migrant Somalis."

They absolutely seethe. They expect these chicks to remain single while these niggas are in school trying to get their shit together.

They avoid somali women until they are like 25+ and financially stable. What's even more hilarious is that the somali niggas and ajnabis these women date while they are young aren't even financially stable niggas. Just mostly broke 20 year olds.


"It's tragic because they aren't doing anything 'wrong' by drinking the Kool aid that their marriage path will be similar to their parents and that they just need to sit tight and get a job, but the world is shifting"

A decent amount of these niggas probably got parents that weren't even arraigned married

Either their parents or their local imam told them dating was haram just so they could focus on school. They took that advice seriously and avoided women.

 

[Kisame]

This is a dumb mindset to have. Woman are woman at the end of the day whether Somali or Ajnabi. If you struggle with one chances are you will struggle with the other unless some Somali woman just settles for you so you can provide for her. Dudes need to learn how to date/court woman early on in life to avoid this

Niggas with no dating experience and a good job get finessed by the first good looking xalimo that flirts with them.

They are looking to settle and know miskeen niggas exist.

 

[JustSomeGuy]

"And you know these niggas will be seething if they see Somali girls matching up on ajnabis, Somali men they consider ciyaalsuuq, or migrant Somalis."

They absolutely seethe. They expect these chicks to remain single while these niggas are in school trying to get their shit together.

They avoid somali women until they are like 25+ and financially stable. What's even more hilarious is that the somali niggas and ajnabis these women date while they are young aren't even financially stable niggas. Just mostly broke 20 year olds.


"It's tragic because they aren't doing anything 'wrong' by drinking the Kool aid that their marriage path will be similar to their parents and that they just need to sit tight and get a job, but the world is shifting"

A decent amount of these niggas probably got parents that weren't even arraigned married

Either their parents or their local imam told them dating was haram just so they could focus on school. They took that advice seriously and avoided women.

Both the parents and the imam are right though.

And are you advocating for interracial marriage? One of the worst abominations imagineable?

lol niggas downvoted me for speaking the truth @Burner123 I see you

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

"And you know these niggas will be seething if they see Somali girls matching up on ajnabis, Somali men they consider ciyaalsuuq, or migrant Somalis."

They absolutely seethe. They expect these chicks to remain single while these niggas are in school trying to get their shit together.

They avoid somali women until they are like 25+ and financially stable. What's even more hilarious is that the somali niggas and ajnabis these women date while they are young aren't even financially stable niggas. Just mostly broke 20 year olds.


"It's tragic because they aren't doing anything 'wrong' by drinking the Kool aid that their marriage path will be similar to their parents and that they just need to sit tight and get a job, but the world is shifting"

A decent amount of these niggas probably got parents that weren't even arraigned married

Either their parents or their local imam told them dating was haram just so they could focus on school. They took that advice seriously and avoided women.

Wallahi real shit I bet you their dads and uncles didn’t avoid women back in Somalia growing up

A lot of guys here don’t get girls it obvious by the way they behave you can’t take their opinions on these topics seriously their setting the young boys up for failure

 

[Kisame]

Most Somalis end up marrying other Somalis including those that date other races, so Western standards and customs don't really apply.

Most of those niggas dated the xalimos they were with prior to getting married to them. Western standards played a role in how they courted the chick.

Both the parents and the imam are right though.

And are you advocating for interracial marriage? One of the worst abominations imagineable?

Where TF was I advocating for interracial marriage in that post.


I just said those miskeen niggas seethe whenever they see xalimos they don't even talk to dating non somalis.

Most of those xalimos wouldnt even consider dating ajnabis if somalis niggas were trying to date them. If somali niggas aren't talking to them than they will start giving ajnabis a chance.

 

[Not_a_Somalilander]

That's estrogen mimicking endocrine disrupting particles within the plastic and sadly has completely contaminated the municipal water supply (which contains forever chemicals and female hormones in urine from women taking the morning after pill). This has led to modern men having almost 55% less sperm and much lower levels of testosterone than men of the not so distant past since measurement of these parameters started.

This is the main reason. Testosterone in all humans, regardless of sex, is associated with increased sexual desire and hypersexuality. Both sexes have lower desire, and men are now less attractive. This, along with cultural changes, such as an increased focus on academics, lowered focus on creating a family, a general removal of the "taboo aspect" of sexuality, along with societal factors such as -shaming and socioeconomic ones like a economic crisis cause this to happen.

 

[JustSomeGuy]

Most of those niggas dated the xalimos they were with prior to getting married to them. Western standards played a role in how they courted the chick.



Where TF was I advocating for interracial marriage in that post.


I just said those miskeen niggas seethe whenever they see xalimos they don't even talk to dating non somalis.

Most of those xalimos wouldnt even consider dating ajnabis if somalis niggas were trying to date them. If somali niggas aren't talking to them than they will start giving ajnabis a chance.

And how do you know that exactly? For all we know Xalimo just isn't interested in her own kind and is most likely a Kaafir anyway

 

[Not_a_Somalilander]

Both the parents and the imam are right though.

And are you advocating for interracial marriage? One of the worst abominations imagineable?

Why is it so bad?

 

[Burner123]

Niggas with no dating experience and a good job get finessed by the first good looking xalimo that flirts with them.

They are looking to settle and know miskeen niggas exist.

Wallahi the sad part is you can’t reason with some of these socially stunted niggas. They genuinely think they’re doing things the right way despite their limited or non-existent results with woman. Example @JustSomeGuy I can already tell this guy gets no gabdho and is probably doomed to settle with some mid xalimo in the future who’s with him so he can provide a lifestyle for her

 

[JustSomeGuy]

Wallahi the sad part is you can’t reason with some of these socially stunted niggas. They genuinely think they’re doing things the right way despite their limited or non-existent results with woman. Example @JustSomeGuy I can already tell this guy gets no gabdho and is probably doomed to settle with some mid xalimo in the future who’s with him so he can provide a lifestyle for her

What makes you say that? I'm probably younger than most of you old people. Are you some sort of Kaafir?

 

[ATLbound]

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I dont agree at all. Based on what Ive seen

 

[Kisame]

Wallahi real shit I bet you their dads and uncles didn’t avoid women back in Somalia growing up

A lot of guys here don’t get girls it obvious by the way they behave you can’t take their opinions on these topics seriously their setting the young boys up for failure

"A lot of guys here don’t get girls it obvious by the way they behave you can’t take their opinions on these topics seriously their setting the young boys up for failure "

It's a damn shame. These young niggas got hoed.

i really hope next gen somali fathers in the diaspora won't be as strict with their kids. We really don't need another generation of miskeen niggas in the west. Too many of them just end up as incels.

We need the new somali fathers from now on to allow their son's to date and to also build their confidence by putting them in sports and other extra curricular activities.

 

[JustSomeGuy]

"A lot of guys here don’t get girls it obvious by the way they behave you can’t take their opinions on these topics seriously their setting the young boys up for failure "

It's a damn shame. These young niggas got hoed.

i really hope next gen somali fathers in the diaspora won't be as strict with their kids. We really don't need another generation of miskeen niggas in the west. Too many of them just end up as incels.

We need the new somali fathers from now on to allow their son's to date and to also build their confidence by putting them in sports and other extra curricular activities.

I kind of agree with the extra curricular activities but still disagree with your first point.

 

[Kisame]

Wallahi the sad part is you can’t reason with some of these socially stunted niggas. They genuinely think they’re doing things the right way despite their limited or non-existent results with woman. Example @JustSomeGuy I can already tell this guy gets no gabdho and is probably doomed to settle with some mid xalimo in the future who’s with him so he can provide a lifestyle for her

Know a few irl that have wanted to become passport bros for the longest time cause they are disgusted by westernized xalimos. They have no experience dating any women but are willing to marry a random chick from back home cause they believe she will be more "miskeen".

Meanwhile chicks back home have experience dating local Farahs.

These niggas are absolutely fucked

 

[JustSomeGuy]

Know a few irl that have wanted to become passport bros for the longest time cause they are disgusted by westernized xalimos. They have no experience dating any women but are willing to marry a random chick from back home cause they believe she will be more "miskeen".

Meanwhile chicks back home have experience dating local Farahs.

These niggas are absolutely fucked

Passport bros are a cancer on this earth, all they do is exploit women from 3rd world shitholes. Why would anyone admit that they can't get a date? Its embarrassing & exploitative.

 

[World]

Wallahi the sad part is you can’t reason with some of these socially stunted niggas. They genuinely think they’re doing things the right way despite their limited or non-existent results with woman. Example @JustSomeGuy I can already tell this guy gets no gabdho and is probably doomed to settle with some mid xalimo in the future who’s with him so he can provide a lifestyle for her

LOOOL based on this post he made on this thread, ur probably right

And how do you know that exactly? For all we know Xalimo just isn't interested in her own kind and is most likely a Kaafir anyway

Hes probably a Farax version of this guy

 

[JustSomeGuy]

LOOOL based on this post he made on this thread, ur probably right


Hes probably a Farax version of this guy

Didn't that guy end up dying in Syria?

 

[Kisame]

And how do you know that exactly? For all we know Xalimo just isn't interested in her own kind and is most likely a Kaafir anyway

The kaafir dating scene is horrible in the somali community because most can't find each other. Most would be willing to be in a relationship with a somali ex muslim.

The somali divestors in interracial relationships are outnumbered by the somali women in IR relationships that don't hate somali men.

 

[JustSomeGuy]

The kaafir dating scene is horrible in the somali community because most can't find each other. Most would be willing to be in a relationship with a somali ex muslim.

The somali divestors in interracial relationships are outnumbered by the somali women in IR relationships that don't hate somali men.

Of course divestors are outnumbered, they date out because they're bitter & somehow deluded themselves into thinking that their own women will be begging them to take them back like some kind of incel fantasy lol

 

[therealdrsomali]

This is pretty much all immigrant communities not just somalis. I think its a cultural thing. Pretty much the only cultures that allow for and promote having game and flirting is white europeans, spanish people and african americans. It's no surprise Somalis or muslims in generals dont have game when they think they will burn in hell for flirting or whatever. East asians while not religious got their own version of ceeb culture on steroids, that's why they study/work all day long and then play anime girl video games in their free time to avoid the trauma of getting rejected (that's also why their birth rate has been dropping like crazy the past decade)

However in my opinion i think western culture went too far with hedonistic hookup culture becoming adopted as the norm so game or not the scene is not good anymore here either