Why do Younger Somali Guys have no Game?

Game is utter xaar. It's easy to tell who is and isn't interested from split-second reactions and the cadence of their voices.

Ignore the OP. Your mental health will thank you. I know young women. They will humble you real fast.
 
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Kisame

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You are exaggerating. Plenty of Somali men have no problems finding Somali women partners. If you are talking about dating ajnabis then who cares? Unless it impacts marriage/birth rates among diaspora Somalis then its no issue

I'm not exaggerating. We dead ass got a bunch of somali men that don't know how to talk to women. The main ones that have no problems finding women are the ones that dated the western way with ajnabis and xalimos.
 
Oh you should have seen some of my Asian friends, they are awful in comparison. From experience, a Farax might be clueless or tongue-tied in wooing a Xalima, but has no qualms in furthering his target farther afield into the quarry for a succulent prey. But then again, a feebly-formed Farax from the hood might be of a varying pedigree. Just a thought.
 
I think there are many reasons for young men of all ethnic groups no longer approaching young women anymore.

Some of it is chemical and some is social. The testosterone levels of men has been free falling in the last 100 years especially in western countries. Did you know that it was recently discovered that plastic water bottles contain 100x more nano particles of plastic than previously thought?

That's estrogen mimicking endocrine disrupting particles within the plastic and sadly has completely contaminated the municipal water supply (which contains forever chemicals and female hormones in urine from women taking the morning after pill). This has led to modern men having almost 55% less sperm and much lower levels of testosterone than men of the not so distant past since measurement of these parameters started.

Also the government no longer prioritises new house builds for families. Meaning that socially having a family is indirectly frowned upon and can be seen by the attitude of most people.

Hence we have a society of hormonally compromised men and women indoctrinated with values contrary to family building, living in an economic apocalypse.

This might be part of the reason why men have stopped showing interest in women.
 
Yea I've encountered a lot of miskeen niggas that don't date women.
Yes there’s a lot of those. Even for a good looking natural outgoing guy it’s hard. If he makes no effort to approach women he will get close to zero dating opportunities. Just imagine the Miskeen shy guy.
 
Yea I've encountered a lot of miskeen niggas that don't date women.
And you know these niggas will be seething if they see Somali girls matching up on ajnabis, Somali men they consider ciyaalsuuq, or migrant Somalis. It's tragic because they aren't doing anything 'wrong' by drinking the Kool aid that their marriage path will be similar to their parents and that they just need to sit tight and get a job, but the world is shifting. Some Xalimos will OFC want things beyond a nigga with a check and poor sociability, which is the path MANY young Somali niggas are on (each of you here probably got 5 inna adheers that fit this bill)
 

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Somalis live segregated from cadaans and others in Minnesooda where you live. This means there is no ajnabi gabdho to practice with for young faaraxs there :manny:

Just my 2 cents.
 

Kisame

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Yes there’s a lot of those. Even for a good looking natural outgoing guy it’s hard. If he makes no effort to approach women he will get close to zero dating opportunities. Just imagine the Miskeen shy guy.

In our community these niggas were convinced that they should only focus on school and deen.

They rarely interact with the opposite gender outside of work and school.

I blame their parents honestly. They socially handicapped these niggas.
 
4/5 times that I get hit on by a Somali guy, it’s a Somali guy in his late 20s and 30s. I get these men are more desperate but these young faraxs have no social skills. It took one guy my age 3 years to ask me out. Like what do you mean you liked me since high school? We are about to graduate college!
:mjlol:
I know I’m generalizing but this shit is all too common. My friends and cousins have the same experiences.
:heh:
Idk about that if I like her I’d tell her personally. You’re lucky that miskeen wasn’t me shoulda left you speechless with my radiant masculine Absame face before I even ask u out in school. Btw what does qeel bax mean??
:ohhh:
 

Kisame

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Somalis live segregated from cadaans and others in Minnesooda where you live. This means there is no ajnabi gabdho to practice with for young faaraxs there :manny:

Just my 2 cents.

Y'all don't go to school with madow women or cadaan women?

Don't y'all usually just date each other though.
 

Yami

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4/5 times that I get hit on by a Somali guy, it’s a Somali guy in his late 20s and 30s. I get these men are more desperate but these young faraxs have no social skills. It took one guy my age 3 years to ask me out. Like what do you mean you liked me since high school? We are about to graduate college!
:mjlol:
I know I’m generalizing but this shit is all too common. My friends and cousins have the same experiences.
:heh:
It’s a bigger issue then just young Somali men this is effecting everyone. Because a lot of shorties (mostly cadaan blue haired girls) started complaining on the bird app that chatting up girls in person is creepy asf. Some have even gone as far as saying that sliding in DMs in weird :damn: So a lotta Gen z niggas didn’t bother besides dating apps or asking out mutual friends.


Look at the amount of likes this shit got for example πŸ’€
 

Mudug_gyal

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"Why’re you advocating for free mixing u piece of shit.

this is not cool."

Because it's necessary here in the west. Women have become westernized.

Plus somalis don't have an arraigned marriage system as part of our culture. We aren't like asians who set men up with wives as soon as they finish university.

Young somali men have to learn to date and talk to women if they want to find a partner.
Most Somalis end up marrying other Somalis including those that date other races, so Western standards and customs don't really apply.
 

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