Most unpleasant things in our community are symptoms of living through civil war this for example its origin is the children internalising messed up value systems where they want to stand out by any means necessary, that has origin in being a minority even in areas with large minorities like london and so they lack the proper community to instill proper values into these children. Its worse even because a lot of our parents are not the ideal parents due to war trauma and stuck in social housing and poor income, and even if parents are ideal or the children are cooped up at home most of the time doesnt guarantee in any way that the children will be better adjusted, as i would know i was once a maskiin boy delving into humiliation rituals without knowing any better. All i will say about that time is i was lucky to learn earlier on that that isnt the right way to go