I always had to take care of my little brothers while hooyo was relaxin telling me to bring her Shaax and what not. Had curfew while they could do what they wanted. Had to do paper work and everything. Called for appointments all the time. Brought my parents everywhere. Did groceries for them. While the boys didn't do anything. Thanks to internet I realised most Somali household spoil their boys. Why we do that. And then we wonder why they are either skinny or fat. Why do we do this?