I've noticed this pattern of Married women subhanallah discouraging single muslim women from getting married meanwhile they are married themselves. I'm not even making this up. I've witnessed this on certain platforms of even Somali women doing this. They call sisters pickmes or seeking validation, yet they go to bed with a man every night and have children with one. On twitter you will see divorcees talking about how miserable and bad being married is, yet they are still seeking another marriage. People be xaasid out here! Let's discuss this matter!