Why do Somalis

[@shininglight]

Why do Somalis believe people especially women who move out from there parents homes(b4 marriage) are up to no good?some call women who do this derogatory words

 

[cawaale]

Because it’s true! You may think you’ll behave but you won’t. Your friends will change as soon as they find out you have a free yard. You’ll begin with girls night in, and before you know it you’ll be throwing sex parties.

 

[@shininglight]

Because it’s true! You may think you’ll behave but you won’t. Your friends will change as soon as they find out you have a free yard. You’ll begin with girls night in, and before you know it you’ll be throwing sex parties.

Sex parties lmfao you're watching too much Hub

 

[cawaale]

Sex parties lmfao you're watching too much ****Hub

A little parental exaggeration but you get the point. You’ll have a couple of girls only nights, once they get too comfortable one of them will invite a boy over without telling you. You’ll feel to embarrassed to kick him out, and shit goes downhill from then. Give me one good reason why an unmarried girl should move out?

 

[Basra]

Why do Somalis believe people especially women who move out from there parents homes(b4 marriage) are up to no good?some call women who do this derogatory words

An unmarried woman cannot move from her parent home and go leave by herself. Its inappropriate

 

[@shininglight]

A little parental exaggeration but you get the point. You’ll have a couple of girls only nights, once they get too comfortable one of them will invite a boy over without telling you. You’ll feel to embarrassed to kick him out, and shit goes downhill from then. Give me one good reason why an unmarried girl should move out?

There's no specific reason, independence? Anyways I just feel Somalis should be relaxed when it comes to girls moving out

 

[4head]

Old traditions = stupid.
Live as you wish.

 

[@shininglight]

An unmarried woman cannot move from her parent home and go leave by herself. Its inappropriate

I don't see the problem,maybe some people just want to have privacy? It's no big deal anyways

 

[cawaale]

There's no specific reason, independence? Anyways I just feel Somalis should be relaxed when it comes to girls moving out

A xalimo that’s a 5/10 will become a 9/10 if she has her own place. Something within us faraxs lights up. Most girls can’t handle all the extra attention. You will seek independence but 8 months later you will lose all your independence.

 

[Basra]

I don't see the problem,maybe some people just want to have privacy? It's no big deal anyways

It is a big deal. There is no such thing as privacy. Your parents watch u, and then your husband watch u

 

[@shininglight]

A xalimo that’s a 5/10 will become a 9/10 if she has her own place. Something within us faraxs lights up. Most girls can’t handle all the extra attention. You will seek independence but 8 months later you will lose all your independence.

Do you mean xalimo is gonna be knocked up after 8 months lol??

 

[4head]

I don't see the problem,maybe some people just want to have privacy? It's no big deal anyways

Somalis don't understand privacy.
I think Nature is unfair to have chosen for us to be Somalis.

Smh this culture of shame and unwanted people inviting themselves in our private places.

 

[@shininglight]

It is a big deal. There is no such thing as privacy. Your parents watch u, and then your husband watch u

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Fgs women are not pieces to be transferred from their parents to their husbands lol,I swear u have cave mindset smh.

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

A little parental exaggeration but you get the point. You’ll have a couple of girls only nights, once they get too comfortable one of them will invite a boy over without telling you. You’ll feel to embarrassed to kick him out, and shit goes downhill from then. Give me one good reason why an unmarried girl should move out?

some people want space away from 10 siblings and constant qaylo

 

[mr steal your naag]

Old traditions = stupid.
Live as you wish.

But what if the girl is hibongo?

 

[4head]

But what if the girl is hibongo?

Hibongo is progressive. She can move out and live on her own!

 

[Mr Sufi]

Because it’s true! You may think you’ll behave but you won’t. Your friends will change as soon as they find out you have a free yard. You’ll begin with girls night in, and before you know it you’ll be throwing sex parties.

 

[Material]

Because it’s true! You may think you’ll behave but you won’t. Your friends will change as soon as they find out you have a free yard. You’ll begin with girls night in, and before you know it you’ll be throwing sex parties.

seen it nary a time

 

[exposedmeat]

Old traditions = stupid.
Live as you wish.

this shit ain't old tradition my nigga, I think you have a problem with old traditions

 

[4head]

this shit ain't old tradition my nigga, I think you have a problem with old traditions

Yes.