Why do Somali females ask for qualities in a partner that they don't really mean it?

[Manafesto]

I can't tell you how many times I hear females saying that their ideal partner is "funny, kind, passionate,caring." blah blah blah.

But who do they end up dating? Self centered, cocky,superficial, vain (but good looking) guys.

Sexual attraction is FAR MORE persuasive than any of these qualities people claim to "look for".

Like I said before in the linked thread below what females say they want in a relationship is totally different than what they real mean,ultimately a relationship depends on looks. (this is like 99% of the time) Why? Because human instinct is to survive and in order to survive the mate must be in physically good shape. How do we gauge this good shape? Well that depends on the person.

But generally a fatter person is easier to overlook because way back when fatter people could not get around as easily as thinner people and would therefore get their asses eaten by some carniverous creature looking for a meal. This is why when somebody sees a group of people of the opposite sex they will be immediately attracted to the one which is... well... the hottest.

Girls definately are into looks rather than personality of a guy. I hate to pull the "good guys always lose" B.S but it's absolutely true. Girls have some fucked up part in their brain.

When a woman has the choice between a nice guy and an asshole (even if the nice guy is just as good looking, I'm not talking about looks here) she will always choose the asshole. You know what's funny? Some time later in their life they will look back and ask themselves, "Why am I always just dating total assholes?" Lmao I fuckin' wonder, it's a total mystery, swear it.

What do women actually want more than anything?

Well most guys know that women dig guys with money. Would Donald Trump be haviny model wives if he wasn't rich? That question is rhetorical, now I don't even believe this is wrong, I think it is just nature. But I also think women who are this way (and it is almost all of you) should be honest...

www.somalispot.com

Your thoughts?

 

[Royalflush]

bro did you wake up one morning and think imma be sspots dating coach

 

[Manafesto]

bro did you wake up one morning and think imma be sspots dating coach

I am asking a question, I am not even lecturing anyone, just pointing out the Hypocrisy of our Halimos.

 

[Royalflush]

I can't tell you how many times I hear people saying that their ideal partner is "funny, kind, passionate,caring." blah blah blah.

But who do they end up dating? Self centered, cocky,superficial, vain (but good looking) guys/girls.

Sexual attraction is FAR MORE persuasive than any of these qualities people claim to "look for".

Ultimately a relationship depends on looks. (this is like 99% of the time) Why? Because human instinct is to survive and in order to survive the mate must be in physically good shape. How do we gauge this good shape? Well that depends on the person.

But generally a fatter person is easier to overlook because way back when fatter people could not get around as easily as thinner people and would therefore get their asses eaten by some carniverous creature looking for a meal. This is why when somebody sees a group of people of the opposite sex they will be immediately attracted to the one which is... well... the hottest.

Girls definately are into looks rather than personality of a guy. I hate to pull the "good guys always lose" B.S but it's absolutely true. Girls have some fucked up part in their brain.

When a woman has the choice between a nice guy and an asshole (even if the nice guy is just as good looking, I'm not talking about looks here) she will always choose the asshole. You know what's funny? Some time later in their life they will look back and ask themselves, "Why am I always just dating total assholes?" Lmao I fuckin' wonder, it's a total mystery, swear it.

Your thoughts?

ngl my nigga them qualities are just extra. its the face first, then body then personality- in that order. everything else is irrelevant

 

[Manafesto]

ngl my nigga them qualities are just extra. its the face first, then body then personality- in that order. everything else is irrelevant

I am the opposite, body first, the chick has to have a bubble butt first(if she is flat you are like a nigga to me ) and non flappy titts then followed by personality and lastly the face,I can use a pillow to hide her face.

 

[Royalflush]

I am the opposite, body first, the chick has to have a bubble butt first(if she is flat you are like a nigga to me ) and non flappy titts then followed by personality and lastly the face,I can use a pillow to hide her face.

you want to wake up to sid from ice age every morning- get your priorities straight
imagine a dead personality too- you gonna cheat on her just so you can chat to the side ting

 

[The Somali Caesar]

There needs to be a petition to ban @Manafesto long ass threads. We need word/thread limit like Twitter 280 @Admin

 

[Mozart]

Spot on akhi. You should always look at a woman’s actions rather than her words. Women say shit to control weaker guys and use them as her personal Uber and sponsor for her lifestyle . The men smashing them do zero of what they ask for.

 

[Manafesto]

There needs to be a petition to ban @Manafesto long ass threads. We need word/thread limit like Twitter 280 @Admin

I don't blame you since the SL literacy rate is lower than the rest of the country and the education system over there discourages reading hence why only Landers on this forum are the only once complaining about this, I bet if it was about Khat you wouldn't mind reading it no matter how long the post was.

 

[The Somali Caesar]

I don't blame you since SL literacy rate is lower than the rest of the country and the education system over there discourages reading hence why only Landers on this forum are the only one complaining about this, I bet if it was about Khat you wouldn't mind reading it matter how long the post was.

Ah so the Khat FKD rhetoric. It’s the same overused recycled FKD. Be original or don’t bother

 

[jabsveg276]

Physical attraction creates a relationship, qualities keep then

 

[Distant1]

Goods looks and money

 

[Basra]

I can't tell you how many times I hear females saying that their ideal partner is "funny, kind, passionate,caring." blah blah blah.

But who do they end up dating? Self centered, cocky,superficial, vain (but good looking) guys.

Sexual attraction is FAR MORE persuasive than any of these qualities people claim to "look for".

Like I said before in the linked thread below what females say they want in a relationship is totally different than what they real mean,ultimately a relationship depends on looks. (this is like 99% of the time) Why? Because human instinct is to survive and in order to survive the mate must be in physically good shape. How do we gauge this good shape? Well that depends on the person.

But generally a fatter person is easier to overlook because way back when fatter people could not get around as easily as thinner people and would therefore get their asses eaten by some carniverous creature looking for a meal. This is why when somebody sees a group of people of the opposite sex they will be immediately attracted to the one which is... well... the hottest.

Girls definately are into looks rather than personality of a guy. I hate to pull the "good guys always lose" B.S but it's absolutely true. Girls have some fucked up part in their brain.

When a woman has the choice between a nice guy and an asshole (even if the nice guy is just as good looking, I'm not talking about looks here) she will always choose the asshole. You know what's funny? Some time later in their life they will look back and ask themselves, "Why am I always just dating total assholes?" Lmao I fuckin' wonder, it's a total mystery, swear it.

What do women actually want more than anything?

Well most guys know that women dig guys with money. Would Donald Trump be haviny model wives if he wasn't rich? That question is rhetorical, now I don't even believe this is wrong, I think it is just nature. But I also think women who are this way (and it is almost all of you) should be honest...

www.somalispot.com

Your thoughts?

 

[Manafesto]

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[Juliet]

Wow, didn’t know 3/7 billion people have the exact same mindset. Some of us aren’t idiots. I’d take a good looking NICE guy over an asshole anyday.

 

[Bronco]

Wow, didn’t know 3/7 billion people have the exact same mindset. Some of us aren’t idiots. I’d take a good looking NICE guy over an asshole anyday.

What about a spineless guy vs an asshole? The type to go back to the store profusely apologizing because he forgot one item that you may or may not have mentioned.

 

[Juliet]

What about a spineless guy vs an asshole? The type to go back to the store profusely apologizing because he forgot one item that you may or may not have mentioned.

I mentioned once that my aunt was one of those dumb chicks that preferred abusive guys, thinking she could “change” them lol, and her husband practically destroyed her mental health. She’s a total mess now. I watched that shitstorm that was their marriage unfold throughout my childhood, and I always thought, what the hell made her choose that moron out of billions of other men, who would treat her well? What kind of stupidity was that? So between that and a spinless guy, i’d take the latter, thanks. Life’s too short to spend it on someone who doesn’t appreciate you

 

[Abdisamad]

I mentioned once that my aunt was one of those dumb chicks that preferred abusive guys, thinking she could “change” them lol, and her husband practically destroyed her mental health. She’s a total mess now. I watched that shitstorm that was their marriage unfold throughout my childhood, and I always thought, what the hell made her choose that moron out of billions of other men, who would treat her well? What kind of stupidity was that? So between that and a spinless guy, i’d take the latter, thanks. Life’s too short to spend it on someone who doesn’t appreciate you

Sorry to hear about your aunt.. In life there should be a balance in everything, even in love between two people. Without balance it'll just be chaos and that's when people get hurt.