Why do Halimos think somali man would care if they have relationships with "non somalis"

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

@Quruxley this was too funny we made him make a separate thread about it

 

[KingSomali999]

I simply dont care sxb its their choice
I wouldnt also like it If halimos judged me for my turkish girlfriend for example

will if u have sisters you will care. and they judge u when u get a arab girl or whatever because in our culture it’s cool when a guy does it but the girl get criticized for it and for a good reason.

 

[Dalalos_ibn_Adali]

Do you bro, walahi my advice to you and all Somali men with this predicament, fix up and go get your Xalimo, stop watching strangers you don't know their baggage, instead watch the Somali girls who outnumber Somali guys and go hunt for your wife saxib.

 

[KingSomali999]

Well somali guys seem to 'approve' some races above others, other bantus seem to be off limits, but if you marry a white guy nobody would care. Its racism yes but thats life.

this is not true at all. we discriminate against everyone equally, shit even if both r somali rhan they gonna start getting into it about qabil. from what i’ve seen bantus r welcomed and treated equally if they are MUSLIM, there will always be a couple racists but over all that’s how it is viewed

 

[Bronco]

Well somali guys seem to 'approve' some races above others, other bantus seem to be off limits, but if you marry a white guy nobody would care. Its racism yes but thats life.

You must be North American

 

[Chun Li]

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You lost man

 

[Bahabskul]

Like wtf
Do they see them as objects of us or do they want us to Care?
Abdis be doing that for years
My sister is going to be married to a Syrian nigga so stop hittin me with that bullshit its 2020

Why did you allow your sister to marry a Syrian?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Why did you allow your sister to marry a Syrian?

Shes older then me
None of my buisness
He seens like a good guy

 

[QueenofKings]

if a ajnabi Divorces u and leaves u with 3 kids wtf is ur family or u gonna do? there isn’t any ties cuz they ain’t part of a community. but if it’s a somali guy that does that the OGs of the community usually hold that nigga responsible and if he don’t wanna step up his family has to do something about it. this is just one reason why it’s better to marry within ur community

Let’s not act like there aren’t plenty of Somali men who are absolutely negligent and disrespectful once the marriage ends, and who refuse to cooperate on child support ( unless dragged out of them by a court).
And let’s not act as if there aren’t plenty of families who are equally dumb and would support their son/daughter in such bad behaviour. In fact I would say most divorced couples end up bitter and vengeful at each other, Somalis are no different.

 

[Sumaaya]

Like wtf
Do they see them as objects of us or do they want us to Care?
Abdis be doing that for years
My sister is going to be married to a Syrian nigga so stop hittin me with that bullshit its 2020

Hunno, we know you don’t care Ciyaalka because your biggest worry in life right now is that 15 dollar kebab you got that you want a refund for

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Hunno, we know you don’t care Ciyaalka because your biggest worry in life right now is that 15 dollar kebab you got that you want a refund for

I actually woke up minutes ago and it crossed my mind

 

[Sumaaya]

I actually woke up minutes ago and it crossed my mind

Ciyaalka, do you ever have deep thoughts?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Ciyaalka, do you ever have deep thoughts?

Yes sometimes why?

 

[Sumaaya]

Yes sometimes why?

What kind of stuff do you think about?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

What kind of stuff do you think about?

It depends for example yesterday before I slept I thought about why I cant get a long realationship with people ( Not only romantic once also friemdships)
And I figured the reason is bcoz I cant open up to people and hate to leave my comfort Zone
What about you

 

[Sumaaya]

It depends for example yesterday before I slept I thought about why I cant get a long realationship with people ( Not only romantic once also friemdships)
And I figured the reason is bcoz I cant open up to people and hate to leave my comfort Zone
What about you

I will tell you in a bit InshAllah, do you think it’s related to your childhood?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

I will tell you in a bit InshAllah, do you think it’s related to your childhood?

No I think its just my Personality
For example when I was in Xamar I was a bit of a rarity bcoz every one talks like theres no tomorrow and I was Always one who short speaked.
But I collected a couple good friends male and female
Somali and not somali
Muslim and Not Muslim trough my Life so Im good

 

[BlackJack]

The males on this site are obsessed with Somali girls that marry out.

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

The males on this site are obsessed with Somali girls that marry out.

But Im not! So dont include me

 

[BlackJack]

But Im not! So dont include me

You said men not yourself stop deflecting.