Why are some somali hooyos downright mean to their own daughters ?

[CALMONE20###]

It really boggles my mind how vicious and evil some somali mums are. But they are very kind and merciful to their sons.

 

[JohnCena]

Generational trauma. It's up to the current gen to put an end to this cycle.

 

[Ladylike]

Misogyny is engrained in the Somali culture. Only few parents realize it try to raise their kids fair.

 

[CALMONE20###]

Generational trauma. It's up to the current gen to put an end to this cycle.

It's sick that some ppl in the somali community think that they own their daughters so they can beat them like a random person on the street and mistreat them. I swear even cats aren't treated the way I am by my own mother. My privacy was invaded(they opened the bathroom lock while I was showering, beat me in the shower and my mother took pictures of me in the shower and sent it to all my relatives) and I was beaten like a dog and forced to leave the house with no dignity (barefoot,cold without my hijab). I didn't even have privacy to change. They opened the door while I was changing so that my siblings could see me.

 

[JohnCena]

It's sick that some ppl in the somali community think that they own their daughters so they can beat them like a random person on the street and mistreat them. I swear even cats aren't treated the way I am by my own mother.

Any parent who beats their kid violently regardless of gender is a piece of shit.


Some of them just use it as an outlet whenever they're having a bad day

 

[Testo 21]

Since you study in health care, i guess you are nurse, right?

i would say its greed or poor mentality. Maybe both.

Only god knows, were just humans

 

[JohnCena]

Since you study in health care, i guess you are nurse, right?

i would say its greed or poor mentality. Maybe both.

Only god knows, were just humans

Wait, what does greed have to do with a parent beating up their child?

Are you sure you're in the right thread?

 

[Testo 21]

Wait, what does greed have to do with a parent beating up their child?

Are you sure you're in the right thread?

saas waaye

 

[CALMONE20###]

Any parent who beats their kid violently regardless of gender is a piece of shit.


Some of them just use it as an outlet whenever they're having a bad day

Which is sick because they don't own their offspring. They aren't a peice of furniture or a punching bag they are human beings with bones and feelings.

 

[JohnCena]

Which is sick because they don't own their offspring. They aren't a peice of furniture or a punching bag they are human beings with bones and feelings.

Yup. I just realized how fucked up some of our upbringings were especially the beatings we received during our developmental stages.

 

[CALMONE20###]

Yup. I realize how fucked up some of our upbringings are especially the beatings we received during our developmental stages.

I remember being 8 years old and just playing like kids do outside. I came home and my mother shouted somali swear words at me.

 

[Ladylike]

It's sick that some ppl in the somali community think that they own their daughters so they can beat them like a random person on the street and mistreat them. I swear even cats aren't treated the way I am by my own mother. My privacy was invaded(they opened the bathroom lock while I was showering, beat me in the shower and my mother took pictures of me in the shower and sent it to all my relatives) and I was beaten like a dog and forced to leave the house with no dignity (barefoot,cold without my hijab). I didn't even have privacy to change. They opened the door while I was changing so that my siblings could see me.

Sorry that happened to you. Is there a way you can cut them off? Enroll in therapy. I have a feeling they will not stop mistreating you. Get away from them please

 

[CALMONE20###]

Sorry that happened to you. Is there a way you can cut them off? Enroll in therapy. I have a feeling they will not stop mistreating you. Get away from them please

No,because if I leave I'll be homeless

 

[Ladylike]

No,because if I leave I'll be homeless

Sorry Ok stay. You deserve to be treated with dignity. We are here if you need advice.hugs

 

[CALMONE20###]

Sorry Ok stay. You deserve to be treated with dignity. We are here if you need advice.hugs

Do you mind if I chat to you?

 

[Ladylike]

Do you mind if I chat to you?

Sure msg me

 

[CALMONE20###]

Sure msg me

Your settings aren't allowing a conversation

 

[Hamzza]

It really boggles my mind how vicious and evil some somali mums are. But they are very kind and merciful to their sons.

That's bullshit Somali Hooyos love their daughters.

I feel sorry for you if you have experienced such injustices, but don't project your trauma into other people.

 

[CALMONE20###]

That's bullshit Somali Hooyos love their daughters.

I feel sorry for you if you have experienced such injustices, but don't project your trauma into other people.

Which is why I said some

 

[Testo 21]

Which is why I said some

Hope it works out.