I am already married to a Somali I've been said this stop asking meDo you hope to marry an Ajanabi or a Somali? Just asking as a human
Why are Somalis so rude to their kids?
- Thread starter Destiny
- Start date
clueless teenage girl married off to man she doesn't like. stuck in an unhappy marriage, constantly giving birth or pregnant, hormones out of control so mom's always gonna be irritable. somali kids are hyper active but she never learned how to handle kids properly so she just screams at them. the kids get worse the mom gets even more stressed out. Parents are human and I think the problem is with somali culture expecting too much from mothers. none of that tough love lies people are spouting...lol tough love is a deliberate consistent form of discipline not frantic and out of control
Ye i have a small family so im good i dnt want more kids so cooking is easy since im not having an army of kids f*ck that shit im not tryna ruin my body
Am I an outlier or do you guys just love painting all Somali parents as these torturous subhumans to fit in with all of the other gaalo that abuse their children?
People who dont have somali culture aren't somali
Has anyone noticed how mean Somali parents are? Why do they speak so rudely and insult their children? Like ma'am that is your child. Why are you being so mean to it?
Narcissism and psychopathic traits are common within the Somali community. Think about it, Anyone who can kill another just because they’re different qabil is definitely a psychopath and people with these type of personality traits spare no one not even their kids.
They’re not preparing you, they’re just withholding the love, kindness and comfort you should get from your parents... they should be your refuge from the cold world not the source of it. If their parenting style was working you wouldn’t see so much chaos and lost dysfunctional kids in our community. By contrast cadaans treat their kids gentle and their kids usually turn out to be productive stable individuals, cadaan children who never got love as kids usual turn to drugs and other activities to cope. Read child psychology articles and you’ll understand why this isn’t “tough love”, you got that definition incorrect it’s actually emotionally unavailable parents coupled with mental abuse, which creates adults with attachment issues. We need to discuss these things honestly and not sugar coat it or sweep it under the rug.
Last edited:
well most who are replying here are messed up from the abuse themselves and don’t even realize it, they’ll do the same to their kids and the cycle will continue unfortunately. They’ve convinced themselves it’s “tough love” as a form of coping. The human mind is incredibly with what it’ll come up with to avoid painful realities.
ur a victim lolIts not being rude. Its tough love
The most bull** I’ve ever read.
Your kids going to turn out like them cadaan kids with no respect for their parents, you’re all some soft zoomer generation that has been drinking up all this crap from socials. Or self haters that want to be cadaan?!?
if your kid does wrong beat them, if he’s being a doqon tell him and if he’s not listening list them somali cusses like there’s no tomorow and put the fear in him.
1 - balaayo
2 - bakhti
3 - sariir ka ga dhaca
4 - werya jini
You soft, confused and maybe mentally disabled? Need to change your names to Jill, Beth, Becky and the like I swear.
