Why “the male loneliness epidemic” is lowkey good (sorry)

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How is asking for an explanation for somali men attack mode? This thread was about male loneliness being a good thing as well lool

 

[caanoshaah]

See that’s the thing, you’re only just now realizing the weight of your words after they got called out. You’re saying “that’s not what I meant” but go back and actually read what you wrote. You clowned men for being lonely, you said they’re getting “weeded out,” you called them “bums,” and then you threw in this whole idea about them flying to “broke countries” to find desperate women to dominate. Be real, that wasn’t some soft critique of character. That was mockery dressed up as a hot take.

You say now that faithful, humble, religious men are what women should seek, but that wasn’t the tone of your post at all. You didn’t uplift those qualities, you glossed over them and chose to focus on shaming a type of man you assume exists in some dusty corner of the internet, but that’s not who I was defending. I was pointing out that the way you framed your whole argument lacked depth and compassion, and yeah, painted a whole demographic of struggling men as pathetic.

Also nobody called you a gold digger so relax on the dramatics. I said the mindset you're feeding into is the problem, the one that sees men as disposable if they’re not instantly impressive or financially dominant. That mindset isn’t unique to you, it’s part of a wider sickness that’s eating at relationships in our generation. You happened to echo it loud enough for me to respond to.

And look, you’re saying I’m arguing with my imagination, but half of your post was written like a standup monologue dragging men for sport. Don’t be surprised that someone took the mic and responded. That’s how dialogue works. If you meant something deeper, then maybe say it with more clarity and less mockery next time.

But anyway no hard feelings. I didn’t waste my time, I said what needed to be said. Because even if you didn’t mean to take it there, a lot of people are being shaped by those exact talking points. And if I can respond with a bit more nuance and faith than what’s usually floating around online, then that’s time well spent.

But hey, if we’re actually saying the same thing, cool. Just next time lead with that instead of trying to cook men for clout.

i literally just erased everything i wrote because it’s crazy how you still imagining me saying the complete opposite of what i said. Read my whole post clarify and especially my first couple comments on my thread maybe then you’ll get a clue cuz you are getting mad at your imagination right now … I’m not wasting my time going back and forth when u not even reading what i said

 

[caanoshaah]

@Aggravated_Quful​

in fact they’re going as far as to travelling to broke countries where they can simulate this experience by finding the most desperate of women they can woo financially. The thing is the fact they do ts is proof these men don’t want to fix themselves and attract women in a genuine and wholesome manner because deep down that’s not what they are interested in, they’re not interested in actual love and genuine connection they are looking for power and dominance over women no matter how ugly, dumb and repulsive they are so they can “buy” the power they don’t have back home

Couldn’t be more clear here that I’m criticizing “financially dominant” men who try to buy affection

It’s not ab economically it’s ab everything else

if you read what I said I’m actually shaming men who try to just attract women using money, I specifically said they need to work on attracting women in a GENUINE AND WHOLESOME WAY

In my opinion the women who go for men for just money are also just as messed up too like girl the whole goal should be to find a way to make your own money why would you want to leech off of a man and be his little lapdog I can never understand this Even if he is rich he just gonna abuse you now, all women need to watch the movie “enough” that shit traumatized

Maybe you can run what I said through chatgpt for a summary if your reading comprehension is still too poor to understand… this is why I’m not even gonna respond to what your comment I’m just going to drop what I actually said for you and all the illiterate mfs this is just to shame you for your illiteracy because I couldn’t have been more clear