When I'm talking about a friend. I'm not necessarily talking about someone I talk to on a daily basis over the phone. She probably doesn't even have my number. I know of her, she knows of me. And whenever we run into each other I greet her and ask her how she's doing.
Who believes in having opposite gender friends
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I swear any (non religious) man that wants to chill and be friends with girls and his immediate goals isn't any future sexual conquests, their just "friends"......that just gives me straight up ganis vibezIt's not meant to be taken lightly when Islam prohibits gender mixing. The wisdom behind it is immeasurable but as an anecdotal sidepiece I remember my two classmates were bullied in school by high T males and started chilling with dumarka. Mannerisms and all sorts of influence was absorbed for 5 years straight. When I was 16 I saw a video of one being pressured to kiss a boy (he did) by african and desi hijabis after school. The other one ran away from his family to go get bottomed at a notoriously queer uni. They were both Somali boys
no way else I can be persuaded.....like how can u be around a good looking girl and your testosterone isn't jumping....... literally why I try my best to stay away from females so I don't commit zina
All men are placed in the limbo of the friend zone, even suitors. Only a wedding will change that. That's usually how it should play out.
What I think is more important is guarding your mind against intruders. Always carry a desert eagle. In case one of these 'friends' acts up.
What I think is more important is guarding your mind against intruders. Always carry a desert eagle. In case one of these 'friends' acts up.
Lol nah only a few men are placed in the friendzone, and it's usually men with no understand of the dynamics between both genders.
Reality is..... that their is more females in the world than males....so just by that fact alone their should be no reason for a man to be in the friend zone (and wait for a girl to accept you) when by default their are to many options out here waiting for a chance.
Friendzone = placeholder aka second option....it makes no sense for a guy to be in that situation when their are to many old/young unwed woman wishing they could get married. Honestly alot of guys are just playing themselves at this point. That's why before men get married they should UNDERSTAND the dynamics between genders so they can maximize there chances on the best option before they make their decision.
And do it in a halal way......NO ZINA PPL.
Lol nah only a few men are placed in the friendzone, and it's usually men with no understand of the dynamics between both genders.
Reality is..... that their is more females in the world than males....so just by that fact alone their should be no reason for a man to be in the friend zone (and wait for a girl to accept you) when by default their are to many options out here waiting for a chance.
Friendzone = placeholder aka second option....it makes no sense for a guy to be in that situation when their are to many old/young unwed woman wishing they could get married. Honestly alot of guys are just playing themselves at this point. That's why before men get married they should UNDERSTAND the dynamics between genders so they can maximize there chances on the best option before they make their decision.
I place all in the friendzone. You do not know me, waryaa. They are free to walk off though.
Do you see all unrelated women as a piece of meat? Just wondering.Lol do you.......but you should want to maximize the bit of options you have.....dont play yourselfI place all in the friendzone. You do not know me, waryaa. They are free to walk off though.
I am sure ur "friends" see u as a piece of meat even if they don't admit itI place all in the friendzone. You do not know me, waryaa. They are free to walk off though.
Idk about that that can easily lead to fitna unless they are a very old woman than I think its fine
@Taij4an you are suffering from a combo of extreme religious zealous that is fuelling your hypersexuality. Every women you meet is not an object of desire. Contrary to belief not every man is a wecel who wants to have sex with his female friend just because she is somewhat attractive to him. You really out here painting us as caveman's.
Why would I?Lol do you.......but you should want to maximize the bit of options you have.....dont play yourself
I'll think about it.
I think they see me more as aged cheese. Not as appetizing since I'm old but still deceptively edible looking. I will darbaax those that want a sample. This ain't the Costco.
I don't believe every man wants to have sex with his female friends
I have said before I used to have female friends and think nothing of them
but there is always a risk of something happening, even if it is 1%, as a Muslim I would expect most people here to recognize that it isn't necessarily something that we do, in fact most cultures around the world with exception of a few have this culture of having "female friends" .
It is quite clear in Islam having a close relationship with a non-mahram female is haram, this entire made up concept of female friends only serves to our disadvantage of Muslims, the fact we so readily accept it shows the state of iman. anyway I can't make the blind see.
Fair enough you gave your reasoning and even though I don't agree with it I can respect it. I will say though after marriage the concept of guy best friend and girl best friend can get in the bin.
You're not aged cheese abaayo. You're a beautiful woman. May Allah preserve youWhy would I?
I'll think about it.
I think they see me more as aged cheese. Not as appetizing since I'm old but still deceptively edible looking. I will darbaax those that want a sample. This ain't the Costco.
. Can’t imagine talking to a female friend the same way I talk to my guy friends and vice versa. If you have a female friend You’re prolly young.
Yes
as long as both parties respect each others boundaries, friendship doesn't always mean meeting up or constantly calling each other. My female friends who got married, every once in a while I would reach out to them via social media to say hello, ask about the family and so. It's possible
as long as both parties respect each others boundaries, friendship doesn't always mean meeting up or constantly calling each other. My female friends who got married, every once in a while I would reach out to them via social media to say hello, ask about the family and so. It's possible
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