It is a close relationship with another women
would u be ok with ur wife having a male best friend?
Who believes in having opposite gender friends
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would u be ok with ur wife having a male best friend?
Yea as long she doesn’t f him
U have been whitewashed
Technically women can be just friends with 90% of men, because all they want from them is their time, validation and non sexual attention.
where as 85% of red blooded males seek only to exchange their non sexual attention for the females sexual attention…. Dating, hanging out etc.
some guys enter the friend zone in hopes of the main guy f’ing up and it works. A heart broken woman is vulnerable, specially to the these soulless vultures in wait.
Exceptions do exist though.
where as 85% of red blooded males seek only to exchange their non sexual attention for the females sexual attention…. Dating, hanging out etc.
some guys enter the friend zone in hopes of the main guy f’ing up and it works. A heart broken woman is vulnerable, specially to the these soulless vultures in wait.
Exceptions do exist though.
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some guys enter the friend zone in hopes of the main guy f’ing up and it work. A heart broken woman is vulnerable, specially to the these soulless vultures in wait.
Very True.
Lemme ask men such as yourself…
When you get married… are you still going to be close to them ?
I think men who have a “best female friend “ are better off marrying one of them, as I believe your wife should be your best female friend.
I read a data that suggested that relationships and marriages lasted longer when they had a friendship as a solid base prior to being together.
That’s why I asked if he eventually gets married… will he think his wife will be ok with that ? Will he remain close to those female friends once he gets married?
I personally know way too many marriages and relationships that didn’t work cause the guy has too many close female friends. It overall made the wife very uncomfortable.
Especially when they female friends pull that, “oh I knew him longer than you.” “ I can contact him whenever I want.”
It's not meant to be taken lightly when Islam prohibits gender mixing. The wisdom behind it is immeasurable but as an anecdotal sidepiece I remember my two classmates were bullied in school by high T males and started chilling with dumarka. Mannerisms and all sorts of influence was absorbed for 5 years straight. When I was 16 I saw a video of one being pressured to kiss a boy (he did) by african and desi hijabis after school. The other one ran away from his family to go get bottomed at a notoriously queer uni. They were both Somali boys 
wthIt's not meant to be taken lightly when Islam prohibits gender mixing. The wisdom behind it is immeasurable but as an anecdotal sidepiece I remember my two classmates were bullied in school by high T males and started chilling with dumarka. Mannerisms and all sorts of influence was absorbed for 5 years straight. When I was 16 I saw a video of one being pressured to kiss a boy (he did) by african and desi hijabis after school. The other one ran away from his family to go get bottomed at a notoriously queer uni. They were both Somali boys
how do uno they dont wanna smash
And they act like muslim woman are innocent
also for some reason Muslim girls seem to see nothing wrong with homosexuality
of course you can - if your mind is not in the gutter. All men and women should have healthy friendships with the opposite gender. You also must consider the nature of the friendship. If it is work related, or just out of common interests why would you not befriend a person despite having so much in common, just because she is a woman.
Being friends with women can positively impact on you as a man, she can give you advice on a bunch of things your male friends can't. I remember one girl I was friends with in school and how I was crushing on another girl. I told all my male friends and they could do nothing for me. As soon as my female friend found out she got us in contact fast. This is one of the reasons why I love my female friends.
Also think about the next few decades to come. Some day you'll be a father and will be picking your kids up from school. Don't you want to have known some of your children's friends' parents (incl. mothers). Like, I can't wait to be picking my kids up from school and having a conversation with my female friends that I've known for a long time. Both our children going to the same school and our long-term friendship remaining strong and respectful.
Our parents had that sort of friendship across gender lines. And it was beautiful. The hyper-sexualisation of our society as well as the rise of religious extremism in our community has eroded that healthy relationship men and women had where it was respectful. Especially with our Somali sisters we have to cultivate healthy positive friendships. Be there for them without expecting anything in return. And if you are expecting something in return, kindly book yourself into therapy because its not normal for a man to just see women as sexual objects or see no use of a female friend besides sex.
Being friends with women can positively impact on you as a man, she can give you advice on a bunch of things your male friends can't. I remember one girl I was friends with in school and how I was crushing on another girl. I told all my male friends and they could do nothing for me. As soon as my female friend found out she got us in contact fast. This is one of the reasons why I love my female friends.
Also think about the next few decades to come. Some day you'll be a father and will be picking your kids up from school. Don't you want to have known some of your children's friends' parents (incl. mothers). Like, I can't wait to be picking my kids up from school and having a conversation with my female friends that I've known for a long time. Both our children going to the same school and our long-term friendship remaining strong and respectful.
Our parents had that sort of friendship across gender lines. And it was beautiful. The hyper-sexualisation of our society as well as the rise of religious extremism in our community has eroded that healthy relationship men and women had where it was respectful. Especially with our Somali sisters we have to cultivate healthy positive friendships. Be there for them without expecting anything in return. And if you are expecting something in return, kindly book yourself into therapy because its not normal for a man to just see women as sexual objects or see no use of a female friend besides sex.
bruh is this all bs
u could have just talked to ur crush
Thats very true. I personally believe couples should know each other for years prior to marriage. But then again there is research that shows arranged marriages can actually last longer
i can never imagine a grown man having female friends
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