Which wedding setting out of these do you see yourself in?

[x z]

I'm bored so, soo gaala, iyo i entertaingaray.


A) A mix of dhaqan and religion, free mixing but nothing too crazy like niiko and party/club music. heavy emphasis on dhaqan.

Somewhere in Canada:

Xamar, Somalia

Couldnt find the location of this:

Djibouti:

B) Free mixing heavy, music played very western, little to no African dhaqan clothing, ajnabi/gaalo inspired stuff like bridesmaids/groomsmen, white dress etc. a lot of western somali weddings these days:

Norway:

US:

US again:

UK:

Canada:

C) Islamed out to the max, little to no free mixing, women covered, men a rare sight. No music:

Xamar:

Or finally D) No wedding, just Nikkah. If the wife is wants this option then your bank is screaming with joy.

 

[x z]

Personally, if you are balling and look like this:

I dont mind being in a setting like this:

 

[MiskeenMikeVick]

The wedding day is important for the woman, I would let the woman and her family choose. My suggestion would be option D if she wanted my opinion

 

[Jacki]

The wedding day is important for the woman, I would let the woman and her family choose. My suggestion would be option D if she wanted my opinion

Thankfully she won’t ask for your opinion.

 

[AishaBarri]

I like A but with more party music because I want it to be fun for everyone. Also fine dining, hired entertainment. A mix of A and B would be ideal

Probably gonna go with D because I hate people

 

[pablo]

The one location you couldn’t find

 

[x z]

I like A but with more party music because I want it to be fun for everyone. Also fine dining, hired entertainment. A mix of A and B would be ideal

Probably gonna go with D because I hate people

lmao, are you party of the no nikkah, biscuit for mehr bunch? if i have no wedding i want a birkin bag, a guri and a honeymoon of a lifetime

 

[x z]

The one location you couldn’t find

lmao, what do you mean.

i am a good user of the internet, so like to tag places to photos, but no amount of reverse searching helped me find the location of that particular, the rest were relatively easy

 

[x z]

Thankfully she won’t ask for your opinion.

chill lmao, everyone has their preferences. i know a fair share of women who dont want a wedding too

 

[AishaBarri]

lmao, are you party of the no nikkah, biscuit for mehr bunch? if i have no wedding i want a birkin bag, a guri and a honeymoon of a lifetime

See that money that would have been spent on a lavish wedding I want that spent on me instead. I’m with you there lol

 

[AarHawd_7]

Weddings are overrated walaal, we can travel the world with that 20k. Instead of spending it on a wedding where you guaranteed will catch a evil eye which will destroy your marriage. No Barakah in it.

If I love her and she really wants a wedding theres nothing much I can do.But i will try to speak some sense in to her.

 

[butANumba]

I choose A but both of my sisters had the last option just Nikkah. I need to find women that are fine with that otherwise I'll settle with A

 

[Sophisticate]

I like my life drama free (and I won't have to worry about the politics of invitees). No wedding just cold hard cash. If I want to do a wedding photo shoot I can do that on my own time. The older you get the less you care about impressing randoms (the quality of the relationship is far more important than creating some manufactured image of matrimonial bliss). And given the type of environment post-corona wedding parties will not be the same *masks on and 6 feet a part.* No thanks.

 

[Hodan from HR]

Tbh, it has never crossed my mind what kind of a wedding setting I will have. It will take a very special abdi for me to entertain that thought.

But based on the few family weddings I've been to, it will mostly likely be A

 

[hannah54321]

A mixture of A and B but include niiko and only Somali songs

 

[Fiorenza]

D. Nikkah no wedding
With a little cute photoshoot for memories
Weddings are stressful and a waste of money not for me. I would rather go on a honeymoon then spend money on a stupid wedding with random people gatecrashing

 

[Somali Napolean]

 

[Guardafui]

I would have a modest wedding with tight security so people can’t come in without any invitation cards and you must hand in your phone at the door. No photos on social media and I would get my pictures taken professionally hours before the wedding. I am getting a custom designed dress from Dubai I don’t like the hiddo Iyo daqan or white western dresses. The most important for me is I don’t want to show too much skin/cleavage even if it’s ladies only wedding I prefer modesty.