WHERE WERE HER PARENTS: Heavily pregnant Xaliimo has a wedding, dangerously risking a miscarriage

[Grigori Rasputin]

Non pregnant xaliimo brides come inches away from mental collapse let alone a 6 months pregnant xaliimo. In a Somali wedding the bride is put through strenuous workout by two stepping for 4 hours straight where unknown people fight over holding your arms and swinging your arms as if you were a doll

What a lucky guy tho, she's pregnant and he has her

 

[Sophisticate]

I used to here of a custom where Somalis used to pospone consummation until after the wedding.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Rumor has it, she got knocked up before even being engaged, so to save face, they pretended they were already engaged and now they are having the wedding.


Yeaaaah right.

 

[Mercury]

I used to here of a custom where Somalis used to pospone consummation until after the wedding.

Technically the nikaah is the marriage But in My opinion its better not to prolong the wedding party like this

Its just weird to see someone throwing a wedding with a baby bump

 

[Sophisticate]

Technically the nikaah is the marriage But in My opinion its better not to prolong the wedding party like this

Its just weird to see someone throwing a wedding with a baby bump

I understand. However, cultural customs vary. And from what I have been told having relations after the nikaah but before the 'wedding' was formerly frowned upon. (Side note: the Nikaah was seperate from the wedding and could be a year apart). Sex during that time was socially prohibited.
This was Somalis of old. My grandmother's generation and she was from Zelia/Djbouti, so it might be a micro-cultural thing (unique to them).

 

[Mercury]

I understand. However, cultural customs vary. And from what I have been told having relations after the nikaah but before the 'wedding' was formerly frowned upon. (Side note: the Nikaah was seperate from the wedding and could be a year apart). Sex during that time was socially prohibited.
This was Somalis of old. My grandmother's generation and she was from Zelia/Djbouti, so it might be a micro-cultural thing (unique to them).

It is still frowned upon But There are relatives that push the couple to spend the night at a hotel

 

[MariaMaria]

I've seen people do this soo many times , they get knocked up and say they had the mehr ages ago 'secretly' so that they can still have the wedding without people judging them.

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[Jiron]

She is absolutely beautiful mashallah, I wish her a great wedding and even a better marriage. Let us all make dua for her and her new family

 

[AliUK]

I've seen people do this soo many times , they get knocked up and say they had the mehr ages ago 'secretly' so that they can still have the wedding without people judging them.

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I know a girl who got pregnant in the UK by a Somali,he denied the baby and didnt want to get married,so she went to Yemen and got "married". Then returned a few years later with a baby and a "divorce".

Her brothers beat the guy up and made him know that he will never see the child plus he is going to take the secret of his paternity to the grave. The girl is at least 8 now.Hardly anyone knows as well, she played the game well.

 

[MariaMaria]

I know a girl who got pregnant in the UK by a Somali,he denied the baby and didnt want to get married,so she went to Yemen and got "married". Then returned a few years later with a baby and a "divorce".

Her brothers beat the guy up and made him know that he will never see the child plus he is going to take the secret of his paternity to the grave. The girl is at least 8 now.Hardly anyone knows as well, she played the game well.

That's awful, the mum played the game well but it will only last so long. Her daughter is gonna eventually find out.

It's better to be honest , lying takes too much effort. That guy was a nacaas for not stepping up and doing what he should have.

 

[AliUK]

That's awful, the mum played the game well but it will only last so long. Her daughter is gonna eventually find out.

It's better to be honest , lying takes too much effort. That guy was a nacaas for not stepping up and doing what he should have.

He was selling drugs and too busy partying to care enough to hide the ceeb by marrying her. He died a few years ago and from what I can tell, he didn't tell anyone.

The girl has already been told that her dad died but not the real dad but the fake one from Yemen.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I know a girl who got pregnant in the UK by a Somali,he denied the baby and didnt want to get married,so she went to Yemen and got "married". Then returned a few years later with a baby and a "divorce".

Her brothers beat the guy up and made him know that he will never see the child plus he is going to take the secret of his paternity to the grave. The girl is at least 8 now.Hardly anyone knows as well, she played the game well.

She played it so well but how did you noisy people decoded the secret of a family ?

 

[heli]

"#TeamHalal"

it's not a that big of a deal .

I'm more curious of the dress why is it see through .

 

[jamal9]

wedding in ramadan?

 

[AliUK]

She played it so well but how did you noisy people decoded the secret of a family ?

They are my family .

Ps we disowned each other many years ago.

 

[Ferrari]

maxaa kaa galay adigu @R.Kelly. Orodo habraha xina la saaro since you gossip so much.

 

[Blade1]

"#TeamHalal"

it's not a that big of a deal .

I'm more curious of the dress why is it see through .

LOL I'm curious aswell since that dress isn't a diraq which is usually see through this dress is meant to look like this
Not see though. I think she mixed a diraq and this dress together

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

Rkelly gossips more than Southern black chick

 

[Western4Life]

That's very ceeb in Somali culture. Why have the wedding at all?