Where do you want to raise your kids in?

[Malcolm X]

Lets say I'm very mobile. I can live any where in the EU. If I pulled some strings, I could get a green card to live in the US but Middle-East and Canada's off-limits.

Where do you want to raise your kids in? Assume you want your kids to be educated and religious.

 

[dr.leorio]

Back home in Somalia or my home town in Ogaden. The kids that were born and raised in the west become too westernized and fall off from the Deen big time. I should know cause I was raised in the U.S. and I'm very desensitized to the haram way of life

Plus my hooya is willing to help raise my kids for awhile if I decide to send them back home. (Of course if the wifey is agrees)

 

[Malcolm X]

How do you make sure the kids have good education while in Somalia?

 

[Odeg]

In Luuq Somalia inshallah. I will educate them myself.

 

[Nightline Kid]

If I were rich I would like to raise in my kid here in America but every summer we would visit Somalia so they could learn their language, know their culture, and strengthen their deen

 

[dr.leorio]

How do you make sure the kids have good education while in Somalia?

Either teach them myself or hire a private tutor that will give them lessons. Education in the America is garbage anyway so homeschooling or private education would be the alternative.

 

[Steamdevolopment]

Jerusalem, it has the perfect mixture of modern and old and the most beautiful mosque.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Lets say I'm very mobile. I can live any where in the EU. If I pulled some strings, I could get a green card to live in the US but Middle-East and Canada's off-limits.

Where do you want to raise your kids in? Assume you want your kids to be educated and religious.

What's wrong with Canada

 

[Malcolm X]

No strings to pull

 

[TooMacaan]

How do you make sure the kids have good education while in Somalia?

Marry an educated woman. Thus, whoever is not working can invest their time in home schooling the children.
I plan to stay in the West, and while the curriculum isn't too bad...the cultural indoctrination within the education system is still off putting. If I end up having kids, they're getting homeschooled for at least their formative years. Just make sure that you provide a good foundation in terms of values/culture and it shouldn't matter as much after that..(this last comment refers to your concern over location in general).

 

[Gambar]

Back home in Somalia or my home town in Ogaden. The kids that were born and raised in the west become too westernized and fall off from the Deen big time. I should know cause I was raised in the U.S. and I'm very desensitized to the haram way of life

Plus my hooya is willing to help raise my kids for awhile if I decide to send them back home. (Of course if the wifey is agrees)

Why would your mother raise your kids back home? You can stay there during summers and other holidays but you need a good enough paying job. From 1999-2007 I was back home every summer. It's not gonna be cheap or easy when you have multiple kids and I wouldn't suggest leaving your kids with their ayeyo. She will need someone to care for her. Letting them stay for months is impactful too.

 

[dr.leorio]

Why would your mother raise your kids back home? You can stay there during summers and other holidays but you need a good enough paying job. From 1999-2007 I was back home every summer. It's not gonna be cheap or easy when you have multiple kids and I wouldn't suggest leaving your kids with their ayeyo. She will need someone to care for her. Letting them stay for months is impactful too.

You have a point but my mom is relatively young and she actually insists. She loves children and was a foster mother at one point but I'll only agree if my future wife is okay with it. Having multiple kids is a blessing and of course my mother and future children will be taken care of. I'll be fine inshallah with the good paying job part but I personally have no intentions of working/living/retiring in the west. So if I have children, you best believe they aren't gonna be raised in America lol

 

[embarassing]

If I were rich I would like to raise in my kid here in America but every summer we would visit Somalia so they could learn their language, know their culture, and strengthen their deen View attachment 20834

I agree

 

[--Ajakis Lax Max--]

the hard part is raising girls. i wanna say raise them in somalia but i know how dhaqan celis girls are treated in somalia

so just pray you have all boys

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

the hard part is raising girls. i wanna say raise them in somalia but i know how dhaqan celis girls are treated in somalia

so just pray you have all boys

How are they treated in Somalia ?

 

[Malcolm X]

Marry an educated woman. Thus, whoever is not working can invest their time in home schooling the children.
I plan to stay in the West, and while the curriculum isn't too bad...the cultural indoctrination within the education system is still off putting. If I end up having kids, they're getting homeschooled for at least their formative years. Just make sure that you provide a good foundation in terms of values/culture and it shouldn't matter as much after that..(this last comment refers to your concern over location in general).

Good idea.

 

[--Ajakis Lax Max--]

How are they treated in Somalia ?

very well

 

[EternalLightX]

Some people on this site are cursing having girls ? Haha you sad men are scared your girls go out and have a bf and live their lives ? Haha I don't mind what my children become as long as their happy and safe I will always love them regardless

 

[dhegdheer]

In the west

I don't think raising them in a Muslim/ Arab country will benefit them much, those countries are already corrupt and lacking in morals you don't want your kids to emulate that

 

[EternalLightX]

In the west

I don't think raising them in a Muslim/ Arab country will benefit them much, those countries are already corrupt and lacking in morals you don't want your kids to emulate that

Beheadings female oppression I have a lot ! Stoning, barbaric methods of exiling minorities ? Killing of apostates etc