I never understood why some women were inherently repulsed by "good guys" till I was much older and actually witnessed what these "good guys" were like behind closed doors. With saqajaans, as abrasive and scummy as they are, you're atleast aware of what you're getting into lol
It's false advertising and lip service. Any guy that professes to be 'nice' or 'good' is putting on an act and has something to hide. If they truly are there is zero need to announce it to the world. You will notice it in their conduct/actions.