When an AJNABI tried Bad mouth Halimos Infront of me

[Chase]

I understand, brother. There may come a time when we outcompete them all to the extent that there won't even be room for clapback. Just wait and remember this comment. We might need to be expelled from the West.

Nah no one cares for Somalis like that, if I see random x Muslim ethnicity doing the madness, I don't care one bit. In fact, it'd be weird if I focused on their background like that.

 

[techsamatar]

Nah no one cares for Somalis like that, if I see random x Muslim ethnicity doing the madness, I don't care one bit. In fact, it'd be weird if I focused on their background like that.

Yes, let's be honest. For us, it's different. We are first seen as Somali, and automatically, as Muslims. We literally cannot escape standing out. Anything done online/offline, people automatically associate it with being Somali, and from there, you know how it goes.
You can't do that, nor does anyone have the time to figure out which type of South Asian, North African, or Madow this person could be. Criticism based on ethnicity and getting targeted is not an issue for them because you don't know what they are.

 

[Chase]

Yes, let's be honest. For us, it's different. We are first seen as Somali, and automatically, as Muslims. We literally cannot escape standing out. Anything done online/offline, people automatically associate it with being Somali, and from there, you know how it goes.
You can't do that, nor does anyone have the time to figure out which type of South Asian, North African, or Madow this person could be. Criticism based on ethnicity and getting targeted is not an issue for them because you don't know what they are.

You're right there, only thing that worries me is the racism directed towards us, but degenerate behaviour like drinking & fornication that every group engages in? Couldn't give a damn less about tbh.

 

[techsamatar]

@techsamatar why do you keep ignoring me?

My apologies, malawah, but I don't see a question from you. Regarding your comment about home training, in my opinion, if we're being fair, these girls may originate from strict, well-trained households with a religious upbringing. However, when granted freedom in environments that encourage mixing and during an age range where social norms are more relaxed for both genders, the overwhelming temptations and desires may lead them to depart from their initial modesty when the leave their homes. Many stories of such behaviour exist, and I've personally heard accounts from women of various ethnic backgrounds, unfortunately, including some from my own. I have a sister in university and thankly she is a walking angel and mindset of a Fob in a nomad environment and dhaqan.

 

[Sigmundd]

My apologies, malawah, but I don't see a question from you. Regarding your comment about home training, in my opinion, if we're being fair, these girls may originate from strict, well-trained households with a religious upbringing. However, when granted freedom in environments that encourage mixing and during an age range where social norms are more relaxed, the overwhelming temptations and desires may lead them to depart from their initial modesty. Many stories of such behaviour exist, and I've personally heard accounts from women of various ethnic backgrounds, unfortunately, including some from my own.

so what advice would you give me fir my future daughters not to go astray. I am worried that no matter what I do they may engage in zina and that's my biggest fear. I need advice.

 

[techsamatar]

so what advice would you give me fir my future daughters not to go astray. I am worried that no matter what I do they may engage in zina and that's my biggest fear. I need advice.

My suggestion would be to prioritize their upbringing based on religious principles, instilling a firm foundation in the Deen. Insha'Allah, with a partner who shares these values and is culturally grounded, you can share the responsibility of providing a strong and disciplined upbringing. Consider home-schooling them when the time comes, ensuring that you have the means to do so. Incorporate Quran and Deen lessons into their education, surround them with believing women who share their creed and journey. Additionally, you can guide them towards fields like computer science and software engineering, which are future-oriented and lucrative, allowing them to work from the comfort of their homes, minimizing exposure to temptations associated with free mixing.

This approach will not only nurture well-educated and Deen-oriented women but will also enable them to excel in a lucrative field like computer science, securing their future. Simultaneously, fostering a friendly and open relationship with them, akin to the Somali guy and his daughter creating Islamic content on TikTok and Instagram, can be the ideal dynamic to strive for. This connection ensures they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and experiences with you. In conclusion, children are like computer programs; with the right skills, you can mould them into anything you desire. However, in the end, making dua for them day and night is crucial, as only Allah can guide them to righteousness. Despite all efforts, children have free will, and once they reach adulthood, they must choose their own path. Your role is to provide guidance and advice, but their choices ultimately lie with them.

 

[Sigmundd]

My suggestion would be to prioritize their upbringing based on religious principles, instilling a firm foundation in the Deen. Insha'Allah, with a partner who shares these values and is culturally grounded, you can share the responsibility of providing a strong and disciplined upbringing. Consider home-schooling them when the time comes, ensuring that you have the means to do so. Incorporate Quran and Deen lessons into their education, surround them with believing women who share their creed and journey. Additionally, you can guide them towards fields like computer science and software engineering, which are future-oriented and lucrative, allowing them to work from the comfort of their homes, minimizing exposure to temptations associated with free mixing.

This approach will not only nurture well-educated and Deen-oriented women but will also enable them to excel in a lucrative field like computer science, securing their future. Simultaneously, fostering a friendly and open relationship with them, akin to the Somali guy and his daughter creating Islamic content on TikTok and Instagram, can be the ideal dynamic to strive for. This connection ensures they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and experiences with you. In conclusion, children are like computer programs; with the right skills, you can mould them into anything you desire. However, in the end, making dua for them day and night is crucial, as only Allah can guide them to righteousness. Despite all efforts, children have free will, and once they reach adulthood, they must choose their own path. Your role is to provide guidance and advice, but their choices ultimately lie with them.

Thanks great advice I will definatly be doing all of that just neeed to find a husband who shares the same beliefs and values than we are set. I also think another important thing which hasn't been mentioned is not live in rhe west as its tempting full of haram. Is best to move into a islamic country like Malaysia as they will only be around muslims most of the time and can pray freely and practice their religion openly.

 

[techsamatar]

Thanks great advice I will definatly be doing all of that just neeed to find a husband who shares the same beliefs and values than we are set. I also think another important thing which hasn't been mentioned is not live in rhe west as its tempting full of haram. Is best to move into a islamic country like Malaysia as they will only be around muslims most of the time and can pray freely and practice their religion openly.

Egypt and Oman are also viable options for a comfortable living experience. Egypt, in particular, boasts a welcoming Somali community, and Somalis are generally appreciated as guests there. Similarly, Oman is considered a favorable destination.

 

[Sigmundd]

Egypt and Oman are also viable options for a comfortable living experience. Egypt, in particular, boasts a welcoming Somali community, and Somalis are generally appreciated as guests there. Similarly, Oman is considered a favorable destination.

True Inshallah will be relocating to one of these nations as is clear by day raising your children in the west will be full of regrets no matter what you do so for safety all practising somali couples must leave the west if they financially are capable as its I fact haram to live in a gaalo nation if you have the capacity to leave. Is haram to remain in the west. Which we know why

 

[Yeri]

What ethnicity was the guys that ..... on rhe somali girlr?

It was abit hard to tell since they were all wearing ballys whilst that saqajan had her face on full display. It was diverse judging by the ones not wearing gloves and the slits of the ballys.

 

[Mozart]

Embrace individualism and let the pride in women you're not related to go

 

[World]

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Sounds like you made that up lol

 

[Sigmundd]

It was abit hard to tell since they were all wearing ballys whilst that saqajan had her face on full display. It was diverse judging by the ones not wearing gloves and the slits of the baballys.

what ends did this take place? like was it north west london?

 

[El Nino]

Never take slander serious from other communities when høes are like a plague among them The reason why shisheeyes say stuff like that is because they are too comfortable with us. For example, they are tapped into somali tiktok or have somali friends and also say somali words. Others want to test waters with how much they can roast us.

 

[Yeri]

what ends did this take place? like was it north west london?

North east

 

[Sigmundd]

North east

that's so random somalis living at that sides so I'm guessing, barking leytonstone, Walthamstow?

 

[Yeri]

that's so random somalis living at that sides so I'm guessing, barking leytonstone, Walthamstow?

no i meant edmonton enfield tottenham there isnt alot of somalis here compared to other areas but its decent. Not gonna say the specific area bcs i am not tryna bait myself out.