What would you do if your spouse...

Do you expect your spouse to stay fit?

  • Yes

    Votes: 34 89.5%
  • No

    Votes: 4 10.5%

  • Total voters
    38
...started getting fat?

How would you bring it up to them? What would you do to help them get back in shape?

I don’t think I could ever accept my future husband getting fat. I’d sign him up to a gym and tell his fat ass to stop eating so much basto.
:francis:
Flat tummy tea:yacadiim:
 

mrlog

Classy not Ashy, walaahi
...started getting fat?

How would you bring it up to them? What would you do to help them get back in shape?

I don’t think I could ever accept my future husband getting fat. I’d sign him up to a gym and tell his fat ass to stop eating so much basto.
:francis:
Walaalo don’t u know?

Twice daily Sariir game keeps the Baruur away

:hillarybiz:
 
@CaliSomali

This is a Norwegian study about overweight and obese of African people and in particular Somalis in Norway. It is the same for the rest of the diaspora Somalis.

Overweight and obesity among African immigrants in Oslo.

Background

Norway is experiencing an increase in overweight/obese adults, with immigrants from developing countries carrying a heavy burden. The aim of this study is to assess the prevalence of overweight and obesity among Somali immigrants in Oslo.

Findings

A cross-sectional study involving 208 respondents aged 25 and over was conducted among Somali immigrants in Oslo, using a structured questionnaire. Prevalence of overweight/obesity varied by gender, with women having a significantly higher prevalence (66%) than men (28%). The mean BMI for females and males were 27.4 and 23.6, respectively. Similarly, 53% of women and 28% of men were abdominally obese. In a logistic regression analysis, both generalized and abdominal obesity were significantly associated with increasing duration of residence in Norway, and with being less physically active.

Conclusion

Public health policymakers should facilitate an environment that enables Somali immigrants, particularly women, to lead healthy lifestyles. In this time of epidemiological transition, health education in the areas of physical exercise and healthy eating should be a major focus for working with new immigrants.

Read the Rest here.....

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3617999/
 
@CaliSomali

This is a Norwegian study about overweight and obese of African people and in particular Somalis in Norway. It is the same for the rest of the diaspora Somalis.

Overweight and obesity among African immigrants in Oslo.

Background

Norway is experiencing an increase in overweight/obese adults, with immigrants from developing countries carrying a heavy burden. The aim of this study is to assess the prevalence of overweight and obesity among Somali immigrants in Oslo.

Findings

A cross-sectional study involving 208 respondents aged 25 and over was conducted among Somali immigrants in Oslo, using a structured questionnaire. Prevalence of overweight/obesity varied by gender, with women having a significantly higher prevalence (66%) than men (28%). The mean BMI for females and males were 27.4 and 23.6, respectively. Similarly, 53% of women and 28% of men were abdominally obese. In a logistic regression analysis, both generalized and abdominal obesity were significantly associated with increasing duration of residence in Norway, and with being less physically active.

Conclusion

Public health policymakers should facilitate an environment that enables Somali immigrants, particularly women, to lead healthy lifestyles. In this time of epidemiological transition, health education in the areas of physical exercise and healthy eating should be a major focus for working with new immigrants.

Read the Rest here.....

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3617999/

Aussie, what would you do? Will you tell her to get up and work out or will you go on another cheesecake run for her?
 
@CaliSomali i'm sorry to derail your thread huuno but the truth is, it's always the Mrs who puts on more weight. They want a physically active man whilst they want to lay down like tree logs when we're pressing.

If you want to burn that baruur, get on top and ride :manny:
 
Aussie, what would you do? Will you tell her to get up and work out or will you go on another cheesecake run for her?
@Kodeen

Major contributors of obesity among the Somalis are;

# Oily foods

# Lack of exercises

# Child birth.

I don't eat Somali food (pasta+rice and meat), therefore, she has to change her diet.

I'm active and do exercise religiously both in the gym or playing soccer and futsal. She has to find her own exercise regiment.

I don't intend to breed children, I will adopt (given that she agrees with), there are no excuses for gaining weight because of pregnancy and child birth.

There are other causes too like illnesses of thyroid and other illnesses. These weight gain beyond her control doesn't mean that she lost her marbles. You've to be there for her and love her. Weight gain and obesity should be viewed as a major factor of health risks and not a beauty issue. It should start with children.
 
I will simply marry someone who obviously cares about their health, and wants to stay fit and healthy. Most females get super fat after their pregnancy, so i will advice her to hit the gym while i take care of the child. :banderas:

I don't want a wife that will get so fat that if she was to roll over to my side of the bed, i would be crushed dead. :jcoleno:
 

Ugaaso

Deni
Honestly, if he gains weight and doesn't wanna do anything about it then I will ask for my 3 dalaqas. Who wants to see a fat man wobbling around in my house...
:camby:
 

Basra

LOVE is none smelly Dhuuso.
Let Them Eat Cake
VIP
...started getting fat?

How would you bring it up to them? What would you do to help them get back in shape?

I don’t think I could ever accept my future husband getting fat. I’d sign him up to a gym and tell his fat ass to stop eating so much basto.
:francis:
u better cook low fat food for him. Dont fat him up just because u got fat from having a baby.




cough cough that what I did
 
I hate fat people. There I said....everyone tip toes around them not to hurt their feelings. My wife and I will have a contract. If she goes over 73kg or 160lb we are not only getting a divorce, she will have to pay me meher money. And I am being extremely generous with that weight
 

Mercury

Ha igu daalinee dantaada raac
Staff Member
If my wife would put on weight I wouldnt point it out instead I would focus more on buying healthy groceries making healthy meals and Do encourage her to come exercise with me

I think thats a better approach

The worst would be to buy her a gym card and tell her to go train cause she getting fat
 

Nin-culus

Laandheer
This is why ima marry me a petite ting that way when she inevitably gain weight post marriage. she gone get thicker a little more cushion for the pushing
 
This is why ima marry me a petite ting that way when she inevitably gain weight post marriage. she gone get thicker a little more cushion for the pushing
@Nin-culus

A Somali friend of mine used to say, I found a great looking slim chick but I need to see her mum before I ask her to marry me because obesity is inherited. He couldn’t find any slim Somali mother and finally married a girl from Mauritius. She gained weight and divorced her. He’s on his third wife.

After years of marriage, looks and body shape changes, but the person is still the same.
 

Sophisticate

Steel Magnolia
Staff Member
I've heard a story about a bigger girl who married this guy that was an avid gym goer.

She wanted to get fit but he would sabotage her efforts. It forced her to lie about what she ate and secretly hit the gym.

When she got fit, he was dumped.

Apparently, he preyed upon her self-image issues and thought a fluffier girl was more likely to not step out on him. :faysalwtf:

Why would a spouse be jealous of her weight loss, especially when he was physically active to begin with?
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
VIP
The shallowness of CaliSomali never cease to amaze me.

If I'm married, her weight is the last of my worries. You should focus on your son not becoming a khaniis and your daughter a thot.

PS: you seem less sexually frustrated nowadays, has your thirst been quenched?
 

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