what would marriage bring to your life?(personal experimental question)
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A source of happiness and enjoyment in this life, reward for my aakhirah, the love of someone who loves Allah as much as me if not more and a way to practice a sunnah. Also the ability to raise loving and thoughtful Muslims. I want to be a parent.
They are not gonna be the source of happiness and enjoyment in this life, thats just what people tell you to trick you into wanting to get married.
I’m not a pessimist. It’s how you look at it. And who you are married to. If I listened to what people said, I would already be married
You're AK aren't you?
Perspectives vary but in general and given what most cultures teach their children, marriage is a right of passage, to be with someone you came to love and make that person your own, to procreate and continue the human tradition of having families and to settle down after coming into adulthood. Also, good sex can be learned so there is no need to confuse children with sex issues when they are young. If the feeling is mutual, and two adults come to love each other and they marry, naturally their intimacy would feel good to both. If the man is lacking in experience, his lady should point that out and get him to learn to satisfy her. That is because she loves the guy and married him for a reason. Islam also encourages good sex and a woman is granted the right to divorce if her husband is not meeting her sex expectations. Islam is actually liberal about sex and no shame is attached to it if people are engaging the sex legally under faith. Allah says in the Quran "come to your wives as you please". Humans are supposed to enjoy intimacy. That is why women have 8000 nerve endings on their clitoris which is double the amount on a man's Penis.
Just to say few words about why people marry. Everyone has their own reasons. .
Just to say few words about why people marry. Everyone has their own reasons. .
Idealistic view of marriage. With all good things in life, there is the burden, the struggle and a lot of work associated with having a wife and family.
It takes above average man to stay married for more than few years and commit like our fathers did.
Very true! I’m pragmatic about it as well. I’m willing to put in work during the difficult moments. Marriage wouldn’t be worth as much reward if it didn’t require so much from us.
If your wife turns out to be a loving woman, riding the waves would be smooth. The world's pleasure is attained through a righteous woman according to the prophet pbuh. Therefore, A Good woman means A happy life. You can bear the burdens with her alongside you.
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Yhh I know, I thought you were a girl from back then, you type kinda feminine tbh, I was really getting ready to shoot you a DM.
So many guys have been accused of writing in a feminine way
