I am a man. I didn't gain an inch since I turned 16, I had major complex for a while.
It kinda is when you are Somali tho. It's all about perspective.
This is every teenagers social issues; fitting in -just to be accepted by everyone else. You’ll grow and realise not everyone are your friends. Only the closes ones; like family or people you can trust on your social circles.
Same, and as a nomad you can adapt anywhere, I couldn't care less about my insecurities and give them power, then and now. I guess the closest I came to taking a insecurity seriously was the fact I was somewhat a nerdy looking guy, skinny and glasses wearing clothes of someone three times his age. But that left me when people tried it on me and I showed them I wasn't someone to mess with.
As a nomad, I have found a way, there's always a way
yh im older now i know that stuff after secondary school nothing matters
nah actually using my system I only go with girls with no drama and even if their is drama I end it straight away pretty fun nothing can make a young man avoid women who cares about drama
Only people who didn't grow up around that would laugh, but in all seriousness it is a mental illness, imagine the only way of getting respect and not being bullied and harassed by people is by acting like a criminal, at a young age of course this is gonna force you into acting certain ways, half these kids only act hood because they tryna fend off other people who test their "gangster". If you don't you'll find yourself getting robbed violated beaten up etc etc getting no respect from gyal or boys and just be a weirdo in class.
ofc I realised that everyone has personal stuff they hiding
who cares if noone gonna see it
