What should we do

[SOULSEARCHING]

How would u help someone depressed and suicidal?

 

[Invader]

Is this a riddle or is it guidance you want

 

[Yukon_Niner]

Give him a rope and teach him the hangman's knot.

Jokes aside, it may be a bit awkward for you to try and help him if you're not close which could just result in him withdrawing so I'd suggest just trying to get him to go to a therapist. If he can take a break from education then he really should take it, no one should be studying in that condition.

Relationships are definitely not healthy in this state so it's best he doesn't get too involved with that lass. If you are close try talking with him and remember you're there to listen and suggest.


Personally I'd just get a cat if it was possible.

 

[Invader]

Well in my opinion. He’s old enough to make his decisions. As the upcoming PIXAR movie SOUL says live your life how you want it. We only live once. He should learn that being a doctor isn’t the only way to make money. He could be a traveller and see where he stands in this world like Nas Daily or Drew Binsky. Inshallah he’ll know what he wants. His parents may have a backwards mind on this situation, reach out to him and tell him that if he doesn’t want to do it he has to man up and face his fears. Not being a doctor doesn’t lead him to the streets

 

[Mr.Haggis]

He needs to get laid often when I say often I mean very often.

 

[Invader]

He does want to become a doctor but there's something he's hiding from his family and ontop of that he's depressed.

Well, there could be many situations on what is happening to him.
Does he want to come out but his parents aren’t that liberal towards that.
Has he left Islam
Is he on drugs
Is he in love with an ajnabi
Only Allah knows.
As for the depression part. You need to know on what he’s depressed about to take any further action.

 

[Invader]

I do know what he's hiding but I don't want to expose him here.

Keep it between both of you guys and see if you can fix it. You don’t need to tell me as this is all my advice I can give. If you can’t fix it then seek some help. Also don’t trust your friends or family because a rumour can spread on what is happening.
I hope this can be make the better
Ameen.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Keep it between both of you guys and see if you can fix it. You don’t need to tell me as this is all my advice I can give. If you can’t fix it then seek some help. Also don’t trust your friends or family because a rumour can spread on what is happening.
I hope this can be make the better
Ameen.

He doesn't know i know, but I have studied him well

 

[Invader]

Fine , he's gay, he's gay.

I found out because he has been wearing colorful clothes, has a rainbow towel, got his nails done etc.

He expresses himself with his clothes.

Well I can’t judge on his decision to be gay. As I am not the man to judge as I’m a mere creation of Allah (stw). If he is then tell him to come out. He isn’t a child anymore.Also do you support his homosexuality.

 

[Invader]

He doesn't know i know, but I have studied him well

Woah you need to be a therapist someday with those powerful readings

 

[Invader]

I don't support it at all, I'm disgusted but I keep it to him and let Allah judge.

Well I’ve seen a news article that states being gay comes from your environmental factors.

 

[Ayubi]

Tell him it’s haram to commit suicide and he will go to hell for that. Tell him it’s not worth it and fear Allah. Tell him how millions of people go through worse than him yet they still cope with their challenges. Tell him this world is a test from Allah so be patient and increase your worship.

Send him this article and tell him don’t do it and have faith in Allah

https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/111938

Suicide is a major sin, and the one who does that is faced with a warning of eternity in the Fire of Hell, where Allaah will punish him with the means that he used to commit suicide.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever throws himself down from a mountain and kills himself will be throwing himself down in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever. Whoever drinks poison and kills himself will be sipping it in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever. Whoever kills himself with a piece of iron will have that iron in his hand, thrusting it into his belly in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5442) and Muslim (109),

It was narrated from Thaabit ibn Dahhaak (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever kills himself with something will be punished with it on the Day of Resurrection.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5700) and Muslim (110).

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

I can advise u Quran and all the spiritual things.

But it comes to the mother. She must accept the girl.
Clearly she gives him good heads.

Let the youngfellah enjoy her.

 

[Invader]

Tell him it’s haram to commit suicide and he will go to hell for that. Tell him it’s not worth it and fear Allah. Tell him how millions of people go through worse than him yet they still cope with their challenges. Tell him this world is a test from Allah so be patient and increase your worship.

Send him this article and tell him don’t do it and have faith in Allah

https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/111938

Suicide is a major sin, and the one who does that is faced with a warning of eternity in the Fire of Hell, where Allaah will punish him with the means that he used to commit suicide.

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever throws himself down from a mountain and kills himself will be throwing himself down in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever. Whoever drinks poison and kills himself will be sipping it in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever. Whoever kills himself with a piece of iron will have that iron in his hand, thrusting it into his belly in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5442) and Muslim (109),

It was narrated from Thaabit ibn Dahhaak (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever kills himself with something will be punished with it on the Day of Resurrection.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5700) and Muslim (110).

I heard that if you don’t tell anyone your sins that Allah will forgive you for it.

 

[Ramen]

Ask him to download grindr

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

He like that girl because she's old.
Old means no babies, if you understand a gay person who is hiding their sexuality

Ileen he is gay?

Is that why he wants to commit suicide because his family cant accept him?

To avoid suicide, they should fake it by saying that they accept him. "Taqiyah Fil Nasiiha"

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

Ask him to download grindr

nigga you are cruel