What should my cousin do?

[Mercury]

So my cousin back home have been secretly talking to a guy she likes for over a year they wanna get married

Her parents heard from others she’s talking to a guy she told them it was just lies

Than comes a guy that really likes her and contacted her on Facebook she blocked him

A couple weeks later the same guy who she blocked is gonna bring his male relatives to see her dad on Wednesday to get permission to marry his daughter

What advice would you give her?

Refuse and come clean?

 

[Basra]

Yep, she should come clean. Declare she has been having phone sex with her distant LOVE. Its too late. The other blocked facebook guy cannot match a good Somali phone shukaansi that's results in cries that disturb the neighbors! Just not the same

 

[Mercury]

Yep, she should come clean. Declare she has been having phone sex with her distant LOVE. Its too late. The other blocked facebook guy cannot match a good Somali phone shukaansi that's results in cries that disturb the neighbors! Just not the same

If she comes clean or the other guy comes to the family can’t they stop the whole thing and get them married instead?

 

[Mercury]

Btw she wasn’t expecting her father to give her up without her consent or agreeing to it the whole thing comes as a shock to her

 

[Basra]

If she comes clean or the other guy comes to the family can’t they stop the whole thing and get them married instead?

Who are the 'them'???? Do u want your cousin to marry the phone man or the facebook man?

 

[Mercury]

Who are the 'them'???? Do u want your cousin to marry the phone man or the facebook man?

The phone man cause they know each other talking and getting to know each other for marriage purposes this other guy she hasn’t even seen his face or know his name

 

[jamal9]

Who are the 'them'???? Do u want your cousin to marry the phone man or the facebook man?

the facebook man is more advanced.

 

[Basra]

The phone man cause they know each other talking and getting to know each other for marriage purposes this other guy she hasn’t even seen his face or know his name

For me, if she was my cousin I would advice her to marry the facebook guy. I am very practical. He is closer to her. With the distant guy, who knows what his motives are? Passport? At least this facebook guy is probably a cousin who already fancies her. She should dump the phone man. Good luck

 

[Mercury]

For me, if she was my cousin I would advice her to marry the facebook guy. I am very practical. He is closer to her. With the distant guy, who knows what his motives are? Passport? At least this facebook guy is probably a cousin who already fancies her. She should dump the phone man. Good luck

Actually they live back home and the guy who talks to her on phone they’re cousins who been secretly talking with each other cause they wanna get married

This other guy on Facebook was someone who fancied her and contacted her on Facebook she doesn’t like him so she blocked him a week later he shows up and talks with her father and now on Wednesday waa laa so doonaya

And she’s shocked

 

[Basra]

Actually they live back home and the guy who talks to her on phone they’re cousins who been secretly talking with each other cause they wanna get married

This other guy on Facebook was someone who fancied her and contacted her on Facebook she doesn’t like him so she blocked him a week later he shows up and talks with her father and now on Wednesday waa laa so doonaya

And she’s shocked

Mercury walaal is English a problem for u? Your sentence and paragraphs dont make sense! U talk like u r drunk.

So your female cousin lives in the same city as her Phone love? And the facebook guy is in the western? Correct?

 

[Mercury]

Mercury walaal is English a problem for u? Your sentence and paragraphs dont make sense! U talk like u r drunk.

So your female cousin lives in the same city as her Phone love? And the facebook guy is in the western? Correct?

Hey English isn’t my first language lol


They’re all back home my cousin and the cousin she loves and the random Facebook guy who trying to marry her

 

[Basra]

Hey English isn’t my first language lol


They’re all back home my cousin and the cousin she loves and the random Facebook guy who trying to marry her

Mercury look at my eyes. I think u r lying to me. I am a very good detector of lies, people fear my qumaayoniimo. Here is the deal



I think u r the "cousin" who is inlove with her cousin back home in Somalia. U r hiding this fact because u dont want to believe that your love possibly loves u for your uk passport. So u create lies that u live in the same city.

At this point, I dont care. Marry WHO u want. Just make it halaal. Go get pregnant, have babies. Qalaas. Win win situation. Who cares if he divorces u and marries another woman. Make sure u r pregnant as a security.

 

[Mercury]

Mercury look at my eyes. I think u r lying to me. I am a very good detector of lies, people fear my qumaayoniimo. Here is the deal



I think u r the "cousin" who is inlove with her cousin back home in Somalia. U r hiding this fact because u dont want to believe that your love possibly loves u for your uk passport. So u create lies that u live in the same city.

At this point, I dont care. Marry WHO u want. Just make it halaal. Go get pregnant, have babies. Qalaas. Win win situation. Who cares if he divorces u and marries another woman. Make sure u r pregnant as a security.

My ass is already married


I’m looking for advice cause she’s figuring if she should runaway from home

 

[jamal9]

My ass is already married


I’m looking for advice cause she’s figuring if she should runaway from home

Link me up with your cousin, I will help her runaway to Canada. I use twitter & snapchat.

 

[Muji]

Start a bidding war

Play them off of eachother

The facebook farax sounds creepy AF though.

 

[Check]

@Mercury came here looking for advice but got further confused by @Basra

Never change Basra

 

[Jaydaan]

Talking to a guy over a year and he hasnt approached her family? Sounds like they alteady in relationship and he doesnt have much to offer

 

[Mercury]

Talking to a guy over a year and he hasnt approached her family? Sounds like they alteady in relationship and he doesnt have much to offer

That’s what I thought aswell but the guy wanted to approach her family but she stopped him

cause she didn’t think it was a good idea after she finish university was her plan to let the parents know but now her plan backfired on her

 

[Basra]

@Mercury came here looking for advice but got further confused by @Basra

Never change Basra

My friends call me Doctor 10 problems. They say, they come to me with one problem for advice and leave with 10 more problems in their hands. I like to dissect, weight, measure, look for deeper meanings, but they want the fluffy sugar coating advice. My conscious of truthiness or insanity cant allow that!