what kinda parent will you be? (tiger parent, gentle parents or something else?)

[beauty_queen]

• learning to read Chinese Spanish English and ASL (2 years old)
• piano lessons (3 years old)
• swimming lessons (3 years old)
• basic math skills at (2 years old)
• learning to write Chinese Spanish English all by 7 years old
• ballet lessons
• Montessori school
• and sports

or gentle parenting (montosseri style)

• doesn't believe in hitting a child
• letting the child find their own interest as they grow older
• being okay with whatever grade their child gets as long as they are happy

 

[Khaem]

Beat that ass until they are 15 and know how to navigate well.
That's how it worked for generations in my family including mine. No beats by 15-16 cause I already knew how to act.
But don't go too hard into discipline, allow some time to just do whatever.

But we don't mess about when it comes to education, school will decide your future. In the west the only way up is by getting your education and knowing where to be. Get into the top unis then flaunt it to that man who will get you a comfy 6 figure salary just because of the prestige your certificate holds.

 

[El Nino]

Leaning heavily on tiger parenting but not as stritch as the 1st person you posted. I would want my child to know all the stuff she taught except of chinese, spanish, ballet and piano. Only languages he/she really needs imo is somali and english.

One thing I will be stricth about is screen time and their health. This means extremely limited time on tv, phone, etc and no junk food at all. Also I will whoop their ass if needed

 

[TruthBomber]

Beat that ass until they are 15 and know how to navigate well.
That's how it worked for generations in my family including mine. No beats by 15-16 cause I already knew how to act.
But don't go too hard into discipline, allow some time to just do whatever.

But we don't mess about when it comes to education, school will decide your future. In the west the only way up is by getting your education and knowing where to be. Get into the top unis then flaunt it to that man who will get you a comfy 6 figure salary just because of the prestige your certificate holds.

Mine would be let them be untill say 7, then tiger them until 15 16 or so, if your strict to soon you could damage them due to their fragility. But every child of is different and we must consider this.

 

[TruthBomber]

Mine would be let them be untill say 7, then tiger them until 15 16 or so, if your strict to soon you could damage them due to their fragility. But every child of is different and we must consider this.

Some kids just respond better to tiger, and others would go insane,
I was like this, my parents were very strict and I really suffered as a kid,
However I realized now the benefits of them doing so for my future but in my opinion it wasn't worth the stress I endured during so

 

[Yaraye]

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[TruthBomber]

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As a last resort yes not for everyday mishaps

 

[barbiedreamzz]

Beat that ass until they are 15 and know how to navigate well.
That's how it worked for generations in my family including mine. No beats by 15-16 cause I already knew how to act.
But don't go too hard into discipline, allow some time to just do whatever.

But we don't mess about when it comes to education, school will decide your future. In the west the only way up is by getting your education and knowing where to be. Get into the top unis then flaunt it to that man who will get you a comfy 6 figure salary just because of the prestige your certificate holds.

Beating children is just a lazy and pathetic excuse for parents who are horrible at parenting. You can grow your child in to a well structured, sophisticated, kind hearted and well mannered person by simply being a good role model and raising them in the best environment (neighbourhood, school, sports). The "beating children will teach them discipline" is the most low IQ sentence often made by people who aren't even doing well themselves, beating a 5 year old ain't going to teach anything aside from fearing you or keeping a distance from you.

 

[beauty_queen]

Mine would be let them be untill say 7, then tiger them until 15 16 or so, if your strict to soon you could damage them due to their fragility. But every child of is different and we must consider this.

according to professionals its actually better the other way around, absorb a crazy amount of information from the ages of 0-10 so its better to make them learn before 7

 

[beauty_queen]

my children will be in sport and ballet for any daughter I have, will be having the tools to learn math from a couple months old and be learning somali, danish, arabic and Chinese since they are all valuable languages

 

[TruthBomber]

according to professionals its actually better the other way around, absorb a crazy amount of information from the ages of 0-10 so its better to make them learn before 7

Sure I didn't rule out education they will be learning from when they take their first breath I'm speaking in terms of discipline

 

[Madara]

I agree with a lesser version of #1, although I am a bit biased because I was raised way stricter than that. I would prefer my son/daughter to not go through the same thing.

 

[dekiteshim]

The first mum is ideal. Her child will be very equipped for the future and it looks like she has a nice balance of academics and extracurriculars. Only people who have nothing going for themselves will say it’s “tiger parenting”

As for hitting children, it’s pointless. No parent hits their kid out of discipline. They do it out of frustration. Parents only do it to achieve catharsis. Once that child is no longer afraid of being hit, you’re screwed. It’s more effective to reward good behaviour than it is to scold bad behaviour (i’m not saying that you shouldn’t punish kids for bad behaviour - you definitely should)

 

[DubatDiaries]

 

[Nin123]

• learning to read Chinese Spanish English and ASL (2 years old)
• piano lessons (3 years old)
• swimming lessons (3 years old)
• basic math skills at (2 years old)
• learning to write Chinese Spanish English all by 7 years old
• ballet lessons
• Montessori school
• and sports

or gentle parenting (montosseri style)

• doesn't believe in hitting a child
• letting the child find their own interest as they grow older
• being okay with whatever grade their child gets as long as they are happy

Second kid have some kind of autism, and the black mom voice irritates me, don’t like the

 

[Zo206]

Beating children is just a lazy and pathetic excuse for parents who are horrible at parenting. You can grow your child in to a well structured, sophisticated, kind hearted and well mannered person by simply being a good role model and raising them in the best environment (neighbourhood, school, sports). The "beating children will teach them discipline" is the most low IQ sentence often made by people who aren't even doing well themselves, beating a 5 year old ain't going to teach anything aside from fearing you or keeping a distance from you.

Cap they should be giving them ass whippings as a last resort stop tryna be too soft on that idea

 

[Keep it a boqol]

in this age you really gotta restrict screen time that’s the most important otherwise theyre fucked

 

[Zo206]

in this age you really gotta restrict screen time that’s the most important otherwise theyre fucked

Fax

 

[Dualke]

Beating children is just a lazy and pathetic excuse for parents who are horrible at parenting. You can grow your child in to a well structured, sophisticated, kind hearted and well mannered person by simply being a good role model and raising them in the best environment (neighbourhood, school, sports). The "beating children will teach them discipline" is the most low IQ sentence often made by people who aren't even doing well themselves, beating a 5 year old ain't going to teach anything aside from fearing you or keeping a distance from you.

Worst ones are the people that try to play the victim card and say it's because they don't want to be taken advantage by a fucking child at their grown age

 

[Khaem]

Beating children is just a lazy and pathetic excuse for parents who are horrible at parenting. You can grow your child in to a well structured, sophisticated, kind hearted and well mannered person by simply being a good role model and raising them in the best environment (neighbourhood, school, sports). The "beating children will teach them discipline" is the most low IQ sentence often made by people who aren't even doing well themselves, beating a 5 year old ain't going to teach anything aside from fearing you or keeping a distance from you.

Who's talking about beating a 5 year old nigga.
A 14 year old who's showing disrespect and trying to rebel is gonna get the belt, simple as.