Wtf did I just read I think I lost some cells
Your plan has just one flaw. You are assuming that men would be willing to marry a woman that has been passed around and has a lot of baggage. You would have to be really attractive for men to actually risk it for you, and even that only lasts for so long. As you age, men will not be as willing to get into a relationship with you and you will be all alone, sad and miserable.
Why don’t you just date then lol.Passed around kulaha. First of all, I am willingly going around, secondly, I am going around under the guise of marriage, so it's not like it's haram for him at least. I am not looking for something that will last forever so it plays in my favour. And as for the future, you never know, What if I meet a man who changes my view on marriage. but if I do end up alone, then I'll be okay with it.
Why don’t you just date then lol.
That is depressing and actually very unhealthy. You are basically trying to abuse the deen just to sleep aroundPassed around kulaha. First of all, I am willingly going around, secondly, I am going around under the guise of marriage, so it's not like it's haram for him at least. I am not looking for something that will last forever so it plays in my favour. And as for the future, you never know, What if I meet a man who changes my view on marriage. but if I do end up alone, then I'll be okay with it.
@Life
You come off as a very colorful halimo.. Lowkey I'm liking it..
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Your never going to be happy or satisfied if your putting the happiness of others before yourself. But you do you abayo. The truth always comes to lightSocially not acceptable. I personally don't care what a bunch of hooyoos have to say about my personal choices but I know that my mom would care and I wouldn't do anything intentionally to bring her pain and shame. At least this way it will happen under the guise of marriage, even if it's a bit weird, women who've been married multiple times, at least it will be better than the other option.
I'm sorry about that episode.. Love all my Somali sistersLOL, look at how far we've come. Just a few days ago in one of the gender threads, we were coming at each other and now you are giving me compliments, thanks walaal
I was talking to my friend about the types of guys we were into. She brought to my attention that I was exhibiting a certain pattern when it comes to the type of men I liked. Apparently I always went for the enigmatic types. Guys who appeared to be a certain way but behind doors were another way. I like Guys who balance between abusive to a gentleman. I guy who takes me out to romantic dinner and threatens me at the same time. A guy that I fear but at the same time love. I guy who'll make love to me at the same time strangle me. I love jinni eyes, guys who have deadly gazes waaawaray he is a keeper, for the moment.
I am not planning to enter marriage for it to last forever. these are great qualities in men that I seek because the moment I choose to dip I'll just take his toxic behaviour as evidence and reasons to justify me leaving him.
Anyways my religious friend called me crazy and told me I'll seem like a hoe, I told her if I marry lots of guys at least I'll be a Halal Hoe. Then she continued to criticise my plan to marry multiple times. I told that monogamy is not a genuine system and it is not natural. Yes for some it is okay to stay with the same person their whole life but for others, like me, You get tired. Imagine waking up to the same person, same voice and same diick. Wallahi nothing changes, Guys are allowed to marry multiple of girls at the same time. at least I'll keep it halal by marrying them separately.
What do you think? do you think my friend is wrong or right? What kind of men do women go for? Me personally, I am living to live. My goal in life is to be as happy as possible. My ultimate goal is to marry a rich guy like Jeff Bezos, all tho he seems a bit jileeec I'll try to make him tougher