What is with Baarinimo?

[Shongoli]

If your parents are savages, you don't have to show any weakness. After all you didn't ask to be born. The truth should be said

 

[Parailia somalensis]

Our culture doesn't permit that. Hishod kiddo

 

[repo]

Some people are not meant to be parents and given that 99% of Somalis have children something is bound to go wrong.

 

[Nalle]

What is meant is meant, and the outcome depends on you. I would say learn how to deal with different types of people it will get you a long way, especially if they are your parents. You can move out if it is bothersome. I’m not putting the blame on you, (especially when you don’t have the power to choose good parents) but one thing you have control over is learning how to cope with whatever issues you’re facing. Allah doesn’t put burden on people that they can’t handle.

Also what do you mean you don’t have to show any weaknesses to your savage parents? Do you beat them up or what?

 

[Shongoli]

What is meant is meant, and the outcome depends on you. I would say learn how to deal with different types of people it will get you a long way, especially if they are your parents. You can move out if it is bothersome. I’m not putting the blame on you, (especially when you don’t have the power to choose good parents) but one thing you have control over is learning how to cope with whatever issues you’re facing. Allah doesn’t put burden on people that they can’t handle.

Also what do you mean you don’t have to show any weaknesses to your savage parents? Do you beat them up or what?

No you tell them you didn't choose to be born

 

[Nalle]

No you tell them you didn't choose to be born

Okay but it would be better to invest in yourself instead of crying for their attention. If your parents mistreat you learn how to cope with them. I bet you’re still in school put all your efforts into studying and things you like. Someday InshaAllah you’ll manage to have a decent stress free life, and mark me your parents will start claiming you, don’t turn their back though it’s not what I’m promoting

You’ll see many awful people through your lifespan, it’s better to learn the hardship early. The most successful people usually carry some sort of triggering sad-baggage that caused them to be motivated in hopes for a better life.

Now stop saying I didn't ask to be born, heck no one asked to be born but there’s a purpose we all are striving to fulfill! Be thankful for the little things you have in life at the moment.

 

[Xasusi]

Your parents are just middle aged adults. You respect them as much as you wish.