Iβm really not sure if there is an age.
Life can unravel at any moment it seems.
I always think of my parents how all they worked for was destroyed by the civil war.
19-20 because thatβs when puberty is finished. Your 20s is your prime and late 20s to early 30s onwards is a steady decline. Donβt listen to late bloomer cope tbh
Finances is a different matter though. Iβm more talking about excelling in a given skill, being socially competent, entering relationships etc developing as a person.
Your life would never be completely sorted out. There will always be something that will throw you off your tracks. Taking responsibility for your self and your future needs to be cultivated by your early 20s.
Just because you're in a slump does not mean you don't have your life sorted out.
20 to 30 you're exploring stage. You will make loads of mistakes.
30 to 35 you MUST get your shiz together.
If by 35 you're unemployed, with no savings no skills, no interpersonal abilities, unable to communicate well and no sense of balance overall + struggling to take care of your own affairs, you're doing very badly.
People have their life together and then lose everything all the time, it's not about a time-line, it's about trying to get up over and over again. Some people start their life over again, because they don't like their career or they lost their families etc.
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