what is the best age to marry for a male and a female?

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GodKnowsBest

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TheMadMullah said:
Ladies and gentlemen im sure that this issue crossed your mind atleast once. When do you guys think is the right time to settle or the prefered time in terms of age?

As for me i always thought this:
Male: 27-30
Female: 23-27
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The older I get the younger I think I will marry. I think 25 is an ideal age (used to think 27 at age 15-17) but I might get married before then.
 
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EternalLightX said:
Well every Muslim man does it they just lie
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iui said:
SAHIH AL-BUKHARI

Narrated Aisha:
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became all right, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age. (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234)
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Now prophet muhammad saw had many critics back then they would use everything insult but non of them mentioned his last wife because back then to marry someone of that age was considered normal.
*One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago.

Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history.

Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly*
 
GodKnowsBest

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Hugo said:
How is that worse? I want an arranged marriage where my parents find me a good wife coz I am of royal MJ blood
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Omg same, 100% royal purebred MJ. I won't marry based off of qabiil though, I can't even pass down my last name.
 
EternalLightX

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Hugo said:
Now prophet muhammad saw had many critics back then they would use everything insult but non of them mentioned his last wife because back then to marry someone of that age was considered normal.
*One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago.

Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history.

Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly*
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Times have changed children have access to education therefore it is no longer required to marry young, in addition children are very vulnerable and weak now as a result this cannot be practiced in modern times it is perversion and abuse.
 
iui

iui

Hugo said:
Now prophet muhammad saw had many critics back then they would use everything insult but non of them mentioned his last wife because back then to marry someone of that age was considered normal.
*One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago.

Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history.

Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly*
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Well if you say 1400 years ago was the normal thing back then how about 2500 years back is it okay to marry an infant . it's alarming thing to justify in our modern times . While you try justify now alot of Muslim that follows him as a guide or example to follow in which that justification leads to underage marriages world wide yet in which pedophiles Unite in there doctrine .
 
iui

iui

Hugo said:
Now prophet muhammad saw had many critics back then they would use everything insult but non of them mentioned his last wife because back then to marry someone of that age was considered normal.
*One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago.

Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history.

Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly*
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And to say that young child was fully developed is a retarded thing to say.

Aisha reported: I used to play with dolls in the presence of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and my girlfriends would play with me. When the Messenger of Allah would enter, they would hide themselves but he would call them to join me and play with me.

Source: Sahih Bukhari 5779
 
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