What is more important, looks or personality?

[iskufilann]

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I would do this with my husband.. I'll go back home and marry a younger. Need to see what the hype is about.

 

[Calaami]

Looks fade

 

[Qeelbax]

It’s only in cucked America that men derive their sense of masculinity from being chosen by women, getting no females was never considered a valid insult in the past since they were available sexually at cheap rates

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We are from Somalia. It is the opposite of what you wrote and we had no brothels. Stop comparing yourself to gaalo with no morals.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

We are from Somalia. It is the opposite of what you wrote and we had no brothels. Stop comparing yourself to gaalo with no morals.

If @Barni is going to use a gaalo insult like “I get more hoes than you” than I’ll use gaalo history to debunk the supposed power behind that statement

 

[Danakiil]

Interesting how everybody on this site with the exception of Beesha Blackpill @Waa dhamatay iyo @SociallyAwkwardFarax are all omega chads and baddies with superb personalities unmatched in comparison to the normies. Mhmmm

 

[Amber]

Personality, dated some attractive ppl & i these ppl have nothing but their looks going for them. U can look like a troll as long as u r funny i dont care.

agree! I've made the mistake of dating people because of their looks, biggest mistake you could make

 

[Qeelbax]

If @Barni is going to use a gaalo insult like “I get more hoes than you” than I’ll use gaalo history to debunk the supposed power behind that statement

Well she may be telling the truth but you aren’t. You’re fabricating somali history.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Well she may be telling the truth but you aren’t. You’re fabricating somali history.

It’s either you’ve got zero reading comprehension or you’re excessively obsessed with the Somali identity, not once did I mention Somali history so I don’t understand why you got your knickers in a twist.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Interesting how everybody on this site with the exception of Beesha Blackpill @Waa dhamatay iyo @SociallyAwkwardFarax are all omega chads and baddies with superb personalities unmatched in comparison to the normies. Mhmmm

I’ve realised most Somalis got a ego problem and can’t ever let themselves be seen in an unflattering light, so when guys like me are honest about our inceldom we stand out too much since what’s considered normal behaviour is to larp 24/7 like they do

 

[Sophisticate]

It she look like @Sophisticate and comes with a diva complexion i dont mind.

Looks matter as does personality but it should be character over everything. Words and actions should be matched. Honesty is a non-negotiable. Goodness over superficial niceness which any opportunist can do. People can craft an illusion for months. Trust me. That's why I'm against rushed marriages.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Looks matter as does personality but it should be character over everything. Words and actions should be matched. Honesty is a non-negotiable. Goodness over superficial niceness which any opportunist can do. People can craft an illusion for months. Trust me. That's why I'm against rushed marriages.

 

[Sophisticate]

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I don't like to be rushed.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

I don't like to be rushed.

It’s not anyone rushing you, time waits for no one

 

[Sophisticate]

It’s not anyone rushing you, time waits for no one.

I'm skeptical of both fast and whirlwind marriages and courtships that are drawn out. It's about striking a fine balance. I need enough information to profile them. They must be tested.

 

[hinters]

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[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

I'm skeptical of both fast and whirlwind marriages and courtships that are drawn out. It's about striking a fine balance. I need enough information to profile them.

Put people together long enough and they’ll eventually find a way to get along with each other, humans adapt to their environment that’s how we’ve survived for so long.

How do you think we make friends in school/work that we never end up catching up with after we leave; we mould ourselves to each others idiosyncrasies.

 

[Sophisticate]

Put people together long enough and they’ll eventually find a way to get along with each other, humans adapt to their environment that’s how we’ve survived for so long.

How do you think we make friends in school/work that we never end up catching up with after we leave.

Getting along with colleagues, strangers or classmates isn't challanging and you don't go home to them. A spouse is the most intimate relationship so select wisely. That was my main point.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Getting along with colleagues, strangers or classmates isn't challanging and you don't go home to them. A spouse is the most intimate relationship so select wisely. That was my main point.

Even with intimacy it’s no different, in fact being in love makes it a much more easier process since that’ll drive you to adapt more to the other individual, how many have changed themselves to earn the approval and affection of their partner.

 

[Danakiil]

I’ve realised most Somalis got a ego problem and can’t ever let themselves be seen in an unflattering light, so when guys like me are honest about our inceldom we stand out too much since what’s considered normal behaviour is to larp 24/7 like they do

Hit the nail on the coffin

 

[Sophisticate]

Even with intimacy it’s no different, in fact being in love makes it a much more easier process since that’ll drive you to adapt more to the other individual, how many have changed themselves to earn the approval and affection of their partner.

Conversely, many people do not change for a partner or it is temporary until they go back to their default. People change chiefly for themselves and if that happens to align with what their spouse wants great.​