What do y’all think of this Reddit post are they right is there an imbalance in our community ?

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

What do y’all think is there imbalance in the marriage market in our community ?

 

[Qeelbax]

What do y’all think is there imbalance in the marriage market in our community ?

I’m only 19 so I don’t notice it yet but there might he a growing problem since I’ve heard this many times

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

I’m only 19 so I don’t notice it yet but there might he a growing problem since I’ve heard this many times

Where do you think the imbalance comes from ?

 

[Yaraye]

unfortunately its true. It's so damn true that parents push their daughters to get married in early 20s cuz they are know that our community is do damn unbalanced that she might not get good prospect if she's older that 25, and especially over 30.

 

[A Mean Guy]

why do you always make marriage posts?
There is an imbalance with milenials because there are more educated/successful women than men. Too many guys ruined their lives with drugs or are stuck working dead-end jobs.
But in my generation (Gen Z) it's a even split. I can finally achieve my dream of becoming a house-husband.

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[Yaraye]

why do you always make marriage posts?
There is an imbalance with milenials because there are more educated/successful women than men. Too many guys ruined their lives with drugs or are stuck working dead-end jobs.
But in my generation (Gen Z) it's a even split. I can finally achieve my dream of becoming a house-husband.

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good luck, cuz most women are tying to become housewives who only work 1 or 2 days a week for side money loooool!

 

[Heavy Mountains]

good luck, cuz most women are tying to become housewives who only work 1 or 2 days a week for side money loooool!

https://nypost.com/2023/02/17/im-a-trophy-husband-with-3-wives-they-work-while-i-stay-home/

Nick met his first wife, April, at university 15 years ago before they welcomed Jennifer into their marriage nine years later.

“It’s nice to have helping hands with my husband” ​

While it might sound unusual, 38-year-old April says she is happy having extra women in the relationship to meet Nick’s “needs.”

“Nick’s a lot to handle. Let’s just say that… in a lot of ways. Nick is a lot to handle in the bed,” she told TLC’s “Seeking Sister Wife” program.
“Nick’s a lot to handle in general with his personality. It’s nice to be able to have helping hands.”

In fact, it was actually April who introduced her 39-year-old husband to 25-year-old Jennifer, who was 19 at the time, thinking she would be a good fit for their family.

“It just became evident to me that she was a great person, there was a lot of high intellect in that big brain of hers and I knew that Nick would find her attractive,” April shared.

Nick explained that he likes to be “snuggled up in the middle” of his wives at night, but that sex always occurs in a different area of the home with each wife.

When the polyamorous family appeared on “Seeking Sister Wife” last year, they welcomed 22-year-old Danielle into their family.

In a wedding ceremony with his other two wives by his side, Nick said he was “living the dream” as he committed to Danielle.
“Having three wives is like living a dream come true”
“Having three wives, knowing that we’ve all solidified our union and brought it together like we have, it’s just unbelievable. I just feel like I’m just living a dream come true,” he said.

“I honestly didn’t ever think I could be this happy,” Danielle added.

“I didn’t think happiness like this existed until I found a love like this.”

And now The Davis Family has grown even more after Jennifer welcomed their first child together, Vera, in June last year. Nick also has an older teenage son from a previous relationship.

 

[A Mean Guy]

good luck, cuz most women are tying to become housewives who only work 1 or 2 days a week for side money loooool!

You didn't read my spoiler.
I honestly don't want to stay home even if my wife is a millionaire. I need fulfilment in life tbh.
Plus women respect you less if they are the breadwinners anyways.
Imagine your wife yelling at you because u burned her dinner.

 

[Sophisticate]

Look at it this way. My father married at 40 something. He had a grad degree in the STEMs, worked several years and then decided to settle down on God's time. So don't believe in scarcity. What IIahi has planned for you will transpire. Don't busy yourself with other people and their lot.
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[Chaseyourdreamzz]

why do you always make marriage posts?
There is an imbalance with milenials because there are more educated/successful women than men. Too many guys ruined their lives with drugs or are stuck working dead-end jobs.
But in my generation (Gen Z) it's a even split. I can finally achieve my dream of becoming a house-husband.

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Check my post history I rarely post marriage related stuff I’m more drill music history politics etc this is just something I found on Somali Reddit

 

[El Nino]

Create r/somalidiasporabullshit or something similar, dadkeena are treating R/Somalia as their own personal diary, publishing every single thought. The somalia subreddit should simply focus on matters that affect Somalia and the topics should cater around issues affecting our people living there.

 

[Dualke]

Look at it this way. My father married at 40 something. He had a grad degree in the STEMs, worked several years and then decided to settle down on God's time. So don't believe in scarcity. What IIahi has planned for you will transpire. Don't busy yourself with other people and their lot.
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Qadr exists in all aspects of life. This is a deflection of accountability

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Create r/somalidiasporabullshit or something similar, dadkeena are treating R/Somalia as their own personal diary, publishing every single thought. The somalia subreddit should simply focus on matters that affect Somalia and the topics should cater around issues affecting our people living there.

Reddit Somalia should be more about history and learning the culture I agree

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Yes, it's a huge problem for those who want to get married. Otherwise, no it wouldn't be a problem except for their parents, especially their mothers. It takes a hit to their Somali social status.

 

[Sophisticate]

Qadr exists in all aspects of life. This is a deflection of accountability

What are you on about? Accountability? In what sense?

 

[Somali Saayid]

What are you on about? Accountability? In what sense?

Your pfp matches your response to this question lol.

 

[Sophisticate]

Your pfp matches your response to this question lol.

I don't follow.

 

[reer]

Yes, it's a huge problem for those who want to get married. Otherwise, no it wouldn't be a problem except for their parents, especially their mothers. It takes a hit to their Somali social status.

a farax who prays and is fairly religious and has a decent job can easily find a xalimo. even if you cant find a gabadh in the west you can find gabadh back home.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

a farax who prays and is fairly religious and has a decent job can easily find a xalimo. even if you cant find a gabadh in the west you can find gabadh back home.

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[Waa dhamatay]

Wise of him to be standardscel tbh. You shouldn’t FOMO into marriage