Since I talked about What women Want before I thought I was supposed to address what the opposite sex wants as well.
Men want:
1.Women around when they want them to be around, yet respect the fact that they (the men) need their own space, time and "guy" time. AKA, don't be a b1tch when they want to go spend a night out with their friends, and you'll find they're a lot more willing to go to that "couples" night at Heblaayo's wedding that you seem to loathe for.
2.Someone who challenges them intellectually, but only to a point. Don't be a know it all b1tch, yet know when they bring up a subject other than clothes, shoes & makeup, you actually know WTF they're talking about, be it their job, world politics, sports, whatever. I'm not saying dumb yourself down if you do know more, just saying respect their opinion as well.
3.Someone who makes them feel good about themselves. Inside every man is that little boy that has some issue with something about himself. Be it looks, money, penis size, whatever. You'll figure out quickly what it is, if you pay attention. Make sure to make them feel better about this, and it will be better between you.
4.Their own friends. Not mutual friends, not your best friend's husband who you think they should be best buddies with. The friends that either you see exactly why they get along so well (to the point of excluding you in their "guy speak"), or people that you're pretty sure deep down hate your guts, and can't understand why they hang out with them. There's a reason. It's a guy reason. Don't try to understand it, just accept it.
5.For you to be their fantasy in the bedroom. If you don't know what that is, either
A. You're too young to know.
B. You haven't listened to his little comments.
C. You haven't flat out asked (some guys won't tell even if you do).
Usually, it's B. Watching a movie, not necessarily , and some little off the wall comment, "That's hot," TAKE NOTE. No, I'm not talking about a girl on girl, or a dom in leather. Just outfits, the way during some rated R movies, she either takes charge, or lets him take charge... if you pay attention, you'll figure out what he wants.
I'm sure I can think of more, but that's it for now
What do women actually want more than anything?
Well most guys know that women dig guys with money. Would Donald Trump be haviny model wives if he wasn't rich? That question is rhetorical, now I don't even believe this is wrong, I think it is just nature. But I also think women who are this way (and it is almost all of you) should be honest...
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Men want:
1.Women around when they want them to be around, yet respect the fact that they (the men) need their own space, time and "guy" time. AKA, don't be a b1tch when they want to go spend a night out with their friends, and you'll find they're a lot more willing to go to that "couples" night at Heblaayo's wedding that you seem to loathe for.
2.Someone who challenges them intellectually, but only to a point. Don't be a know it all b1tch, yet know when they bring up a subject other than clothes, shoes & makeup, you actually know WTF they're talking about, be it their job, world politics, sports, whatever. I'm not saying dumb yourself down if you do know more, just saying respect their opinion as well.
3.Someone who makes them feel good about themselves. Inside every man is that little boy that has some issue with something about himself. Be it looks, money, penis size, whatever. You'll figure out quickly what it is, if you pay attention. Make sure to make them feel better about this, and it will be better between you.
4.Their own friends. Not mutual friends, not your best friend's husband who you think they should be best buddies with. The friends that either you see exactly why they get along so well (to the point of excluding you in their "guy speak"), or people that you're pretty sure deep down hate your guts, and can't understand why they hang out with them. There's a reason. It's a guy reason. Don't try to understand it, just accept it.
5.For you to be their fantasy in the bedroom. If you don't know what that is, either
A. You're too young to know.
B. You haven't listened to his little comments.
C. You haven't flat out asked (some guys won't tell even if you do).
Usually, it's B. Watching a movie, not necessarily , and some little off the wall comment, "That's hot," TAKE NOTE. No, I'm not talking about a girl on girl, or a dom in leather. Just outfits, the way during some rated R movies, she either takes charge, or lets him take charge... if you pay attention, you'll figure out what he wants.
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