What are your red flags?

[Halimo-2018]

These are my red flags and I advise u to stay far away from such women

1. If she has a male friend and talks to him
2. If she disses her parents when she talks to u
3. If her age is over 20 and never had xarir (unless she has anxiety or something)
4. If she smokes shisha
5. If she kissed someone before even in school
6. If she's argumentative
7. If she doesn't pray fajr
8. If she is controlling when it comes to finances
9. If anyone in her family has a criminal record or does drugs
10. If she doesn't dress modestly

My list! Share yours

If she breathes!!! Oh no stay away from that one!

 

[pirater]

1. if he’s fat
2. if he’s under 5”10
3. if he’s too dependant on his mother
4. too loud
5. has children
6. disrespectful to women
7. if his hair is braided
8. if he has tattoos
9. if he’s unemployed
10. if he’s uneducated
11. if he has a sspot, coli, LSA or tiktok account
12. if he’s unhygienic

what are those? what is coli and LSA

 

[elite1337]

facts. this 4"11 girl at my school dated someone who was 6'4

Dayum

 

[King Khufu]

Dayum

That's a tall order looking like:

 

[elite1337]

what are those? what is coli and LSA

coli is a big forum for AA/african men and lsa for AA/african women

 

[pirater]

coli is a big forum for AA/african men and lsa for AA/african women

LSA stands for lipstick alley? what does coli tand for

 

[King Khufu]

what does thecoli stand for

The Coliseum

 

[elite1337]

LSA stands for lipstick alley? what does coli tand for

Ye and thecoli

 

[pirater]

Ye and thecoli

that's so cool. are there any other african sites?

 

[King Khufu]

that's so cool. are there any other african sites?

nairaland

 

[cawaale]

I only have one red flag, If she was ever on somalispot

 

[King Khufu]

I only have one red flag, If she was ever on somalispot

Yeah don't love girls on the internet - maybe some do.
But its not real no more so why even bother at that no.
nah, totally GROSS! (Not on here at-least, muzmatch)

 

[XawoTako]

These are my red flags and I advise u to stay far away from such women

1. If she has a male friend and talks to him
2. If she disses her parents when she talks to u
3. If her age is over 20 and never had xarir (unless she has anxiety or something)
4. If she smokes shisha
5. If she kissed someone before even in school
6. If she's argumentative
7. If she doesn't pray fajr
8. If she is controlling when it comes to finances
9. If anyone in her family has a criminal record or does drugs
10. If she doesn't dress modestly

My list! Share yours

My red flags
1. If he invites me to his place
2. If he only wants to meet at night
3. If He if doesn't respect my boundaries
4. If he calls in the middle of the night
5. If
4.

These are my red flags and I advise u to stay far away from such women

1. If she has a male friend and talks to him
2. If she disses her parents when she talks to u
3. If her age is over 20 and never had xarir (unless she has anxiety or something)
4. If she smokes shisha
5. If she kissed someone before even in school
6. If she's argumentative
7. If she doesn't pray fajr
8. If she is controlling when it comes to finances
9. If anyone in her family has a criminal record or does drugs
10. If she doesn't dress modestly

My list! Share yours

My red flags
1. He doesn't respect my boundaries
2. He if invites me to his place
3. If he wants to meet at night
4. If he only calls in the middle of the night
5. If he is always "busy"
6. If he is controlling, jealous or needy
7 .if he has anger issues
8. If he has a baby mama
9. If he has weird hair cuts or messy hair
10. If he doesn't call me by my name
11. If he nice to me but treats other people badly.
12. If He is a misogynistic
13 If he is qabilist
14. If he is inconsistent
15 . If he is not college educated
16. If he is broke
17. If he has balwad
18. If he has female friends

 

[jabsveg276]

coli is a big forum for AA/african men and lsa for AA/african women

Link me please

 

[jabsveg276]

My red flags
1. If he invites me to his place
2. If he only wants to meet at night
3. If He if doesn't respect my boundaries
4. If he calls in the middle of the night
5. If
4.

My red flags
1. He doesn't respect my boundaries
2. He if invites me to his place
3. If he wants to meet at night
4. If he only calls in the middle of the night
5. If he is always "busy"
6. If he is controlling, jealous or needy
7 .if he has anger issues
8. If he has a baby mama
9. If he has weird hair cuts or messy hair
10. If he doesn't call me by my name
11. If he nice to me but treats other people badly.
12. If He is a misogynistic
13 If he is qabilist
14. If he is inconsistent
15 . If he is not college educated
16. If he is broke
17. If he has balwad
18. If he has female friends

Makes sense, except for the busy part.

 

[XawoTako]

Makes sense, except for the busy part.

Im talking about people who are always too busy to call or text you. If someone is to busy for you that means you are only an option

 

[jabsveg276]

Im talking about people who are always too busy to call or text you. If someone is to busy for you that means you are only an option

Or maybe they have stuff to do. Creating, running or owning a business, studying, work etc.

 

[XawoTako]

Or maybe they have stuff to do. Creating, running or owning a business, studying, work etc.

No one is too busy. It depends on what number you are on their priority list

 

[jabsveg276]

No one is too busy. It depends on what number you are on their priority list

Unless the person is 100% set to marry you, you shouldn’t be their priority. Men should always put their goals and passions before any woman.

 

[XawoTako]

Unless the person is 100% set to marry you, you shouldn’t be their priority. Men should always put their goals and passions before any woman.

If he is not 100% set to marry me then he shouldn't waste my time.