What age would you say a man must have all his ish together

[BetterDaysAhead]

Ngl I don’t care if he ain’t got his shit together. These days I’ve gravitated more towards the guys in their mid 20s who have stable lives and you can build something together. I blame the faraxs at my workplace

Get a farax with goals and ambition

 

[Basic]

Get a farax with goals and ambition

You don’t work where I work if you don’t have goals and ambitions. I’m spoilt with the quality of faraxs

 

[Marcus]

You don’t work where I work if you don’t have goals and ambitions. I’m spoilt with the quality of faraxs

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[Apollo]

Gen X never had a president. lmao, all US presidents have been boomers for a long time (even Obama technically).

cancel boomers, enough is enough.

 

[Basic]

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[Nak Muay]

Ngl I don’t care if he ain’t got his shit together. These days I’ve gravitated more towards the guys in their mid 20s who have stable lives and you can build something together. I blame the faraxs at my workplace

Define "stable lives" lol

 

[Marcus]

Define "stable lives" lol

Graduate scheme job seems fairly stable.

 

[Parailia somalensis]

It depends on many things. I am lucky enough to have received a western education but many 3rd world folk aren’t as lucky. It’s always good to be humble and thankful for your blessings.

 

[Apollo]

Graduate scheme job seems fairly stable.

What % of UK Somalis go to university do you think? Is it above or below the national rate?

 

[Marcus]

What % of UK Somalis go to university do you think? Is it above or below the national rate?

Hmmm I think it's below. I have some selection bias since all the Somalis I know go uni.

 

[Nak Muay]

Graduate scheme job seems fairly stable.

I thought she meant mental and emotional stability

 

[Basic]

Define "stable lives" lol

Got a stable job, drives, not living a saqajaan lifestyle. On route to improving career/financially and self as an individual. Healthy mindset towards relationships.

 

[Basic]

I thought she meant mental and emotional stability

My answer above includes both yours and @Marcus points. It’s a holistic thing

 

[Marcus]

Got a stable job, drives, not living a saqajaan lifestyle. On route to improving career/financially and self as an individual. Healthy mindset towards relationships.

My calculations tell me, I don't meet your criteria

 

[Basic]

My calculations tell me, I don't meet your criteria

It’s okay sweet. I’m sure you meet someone else’s.

 

[Apollo]

Hmmm I think it's below. I have some selection bias since all the Somalis I know go uni.

Western Somali parents don't really promote good trade options. It's either becoming a doctor/lawyer or bust. I fear what will happen to those Somalis.

 

[Genesis]

What % of UK Somalis go to university do you think? Is it above or below the national rate?

I don't think there's been an official census, but I'm fairly certain it's higher.

I do know Somali's preform higher than average in secondary schools and the lowest-performing group in the UK in terms of education are White Working-class people.

 

[Apollo]

I don't think there's been an official census, but I'm fairly certain it's higher.

I do know Somali's preform higher than average in secondary schools and the lowest-performing group in the UK in terms of education are White Working-class people.

SSpotters tend to be more nerdy types, not sure if our social circles are representative of Somalis in general.

 

[Marcus]

I don't think there's been an official census, but I'm fairly certain it's higher.

I do know Somali's preform higher than average in secondary schools and the lowest-performing group in the UK in terms of education are White Working-class people.

Anecdotally I don't think it's true.

By pure numbers I think most boys I grew up with fell off sadly.

 

[Nak Muay]

My calculations tell me, I don't meet your criteria

I wonder what mi'lady sophisticate's criteria is?
"be 30+, a home-owner with six-figures in savings"