Im married and I’m not offended. It’s telling that I tell you the facts and then you start projecting. If you disagree you can state why without making it personal and a woman at 30 doesn’t need to be a 2nd wife. Men are marrying them as 1st wives every single day.Why are you so offended about it, is it because you’re still unmarried? If so just find a man who wants seconds wife then problem solved.