What’s your standards?

As a divorcee, I deserve a virgin husband. Not only that, my husband has to be childless. I prefer a guy who’s moderate in Islam, I don’t mind if he’s Sufi tbh. Also, he must know how to cook 5 course meal, baking, grilling etc. Thats my standard.

Share your standards, I’d like to know.

All in all, everybody has it’s own standards. We all deserve quality!

Btw, this thread free judge zone.
 
Women are jokes loool you know a man can audaciously demand all of that and some dumb woman would agree. No man would ever sign up to the opposite. Why ? #GenderMatters
 
Virgin
God fearing and religious
Great personality-friendly , funny and kind
Mature-have great discussions about the world and deep conversations
Drive (nice car)
Knowledgeable person (someone I can look up to and respect)
Patient and selfless person
Family oriented person (close with his family)
Gets along with my family and siblings
Level headed and calm person (no temper)
Good life partner ( someone I know I can live with for life)
Attractive
Should be ethnic Somali (darood , hawiye, issaq or Dir) only from the 4 main Somali clans
Well spoken (no excessive slang use)
Shy and introverted (I love the mysterious type)
Good job and went to uni
6ft and over ( someone taller then me)
 
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  • Empathetic
  • Understanding
  • Honest
  • Family-oriented
  • Generous
  • Agreeable
  • Good Listener
  • Attractive to me
  • Well-read
  • Similar political views
  • Chaste/A Virgin (I'm slightly possessive)
  • Hasn't dated much
  • Holds an advanced degree
  • Home training is a must
  • Emotionally attuned
  • Similar values and religious level or greater
  • Same age or slightly older (relatable)
  • Has family's approval

I know I'm missing something...
 
Moderately religious
Family-oriented
Loyal, selfless, thoughtful, patient, calm, cooperative, and understanding
Similar interests/perspectives
A good friend/life partner with good compatibility with me
Has similar taste in humor and is funny
Playful personality but not an "everyone person" (ideally ambivert)
Stable career/income
Attractive to me, taller than me
My age or older by less than 3 years
Chaste/virgin
Takes care of themself and can do basic housework/cooking
 
Tall
Dark
Handsome
Practicing
Rich
Generous
Is into polygny
Must not be possessive
Majerteen
Has daqan
Potential oday daqameed
Is rag lagu faani karo
 
Virgin
God fearing and religious
Great personality-friendly , funny and kind
Mature-have great discussions about the world and deep conversations
Drive (nice car)
Knowledgeable person (someone I can look up to and respect)
Patient and selfless person
Family oriented person (close with his family)
Gets along with my family and siblings
Level headed and calm person (no temper)
Good life partner ( someone I know I can live with for life)
Attractive
Should be ethnic Somali (darood , hawiye, issaq or Dir) only from the 4 main Somali clans
Well spoken (no excessive slang use)
Shy and introverted (I love the mysterious type)
Good job and went to uni
6ft and over ( someone taller then me)
  • Empathetic
  • Understanding
  • Honest
  • Family-oriented
  • Generous
  • Agreeable
  • Good Listener
  • Attractive to me
  • Well-read
  • Similar political views
  • Chaste/A Virgin (I'm slightly possessive)
  • Hasn't dated much
  • Holds an advanced degree
  • Home training is a must
  • Emotionally attuned
  • Similar values and religious level or greater
  • Same age or slightly older (relatable)
  • Has family's approval

I know I'm missing something...
Moderately religious
Family-oriented
Loyal, selfless, thoughtful, patient, calm, cooperative, and understanding
Similar interests/perspectives
A good friend/life partner with good compatibility with me
Has similar taste in humor and is funny
Playful personality but not an "everyone person" (ideally ambivert)
Stable career/income
Attractive to me, taller than me
My age or older by less than 3 years
Chaste/virgin
Takes care of themself and can do basic housework/cooking
Lovely lists ladies! We share the same standards.
 
Tell me how would i know if he’s not a virgin? I’m god fearing Muslim, and don’t Want to commit zina.
Confidence
The way he carries himself
Don’t tend to talk a lot (virgins usually over compensate and list their accomplishments IMO)
They’ll tried to get you hooked before they come with their list of needs and requirements
Will try to test you (to see if your a virgin)
All in all edeb daro
Iska ilaali
 
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