We were happy, but the families of my wives made it a mission to destroy my marriages because of my

[AussieHustler]

We were happy, but the families of my wives made it a mission to destroy my marriages because of my disability.



“A while back, I was married and had two families. We were happy, but the families of my wives made it a mission to destroy my marriages because of my disability. For a while, I was alone and resentful since both of my marriages broke down. I then decided to change my tactics. There was this girl that I was talking for a while, we fell in love and decided to get married. Instead of telling her family who will most likely refuse or attack me because of my disability, we decided to elope for love. After that, I would pay quickly the bride price to the family so that her family would allow it. Now, we are both happily married and have a son together. Disabled people in this city have it quite difficult, especially concerning marriage, because of the stigma attached. The men who are disabled have it much easier compared to the women that are disabled. One option is for those who are disabled to marry each other but rearing children would be difficult for both of them as they require continuous care, education, and at the same time steady income.”

(Hargeisa)

https://www.somalifaces.org/a-while...estroy-my-marriages-because-of-my-disability/

 

[Molotoff]

A sad state of affairs. I bet it is the wives mothers that are the culprits.

 

[repo]

I think he's probably going to lose half the reader's sympathy if they hear polygamy but that's just me.

 

[Ras]

He must be either rich or his shukaansi game must be out of this world.

Or he could've been just grooming chicks just out of adolescence with no common sense.

 

[AussieHustler]

I think he's probably going to lose half the reader's sympathy if they hear polygamy but that's just me.

@sincity

Sxb, the guy is genius and found a formula of eloping for the disabled people to beat the bias towards disabled men. He is intelligent enough to mention that the disabled women are treated worse than disabled men. Let love reign.

 

[Happy_]

So he did qutbo siro Disgusting coward. They can still refuse him tho

 

[AussieHustler]

So he did qutbo siro Disgusting coward. They can still refuse him tho

@Happy

Not after they consummated their marriage, otherwise she would be a "non-virgin" garoob and according to the culture, they can't refuse him and as he says, he immediately pays the 'yarrad' or the malab ransom money.

 

[AliUK]

@Happy

Not after they consummated their marriage, otherwise she would be a "non-virgin" garoob and according to the culture, they can't refuse him and as he says, he immediately pays the 'yarrad' or the malab ransom money.

Ngl i would disown my daughter for that still.

Imagine raising your daughter for her to just elope with a guy.

 

[Happy_]

@Happy

Not after they consummated their marriage, otherwise she would be a "non-virgin" garoob and according to the culture, they can't refuse him and as he says, he immediately pays the 'yarrad' or the malab ransom money.

Didn‘t the guy say that his ex wives‘ families refused him? Lol, he‘s a coward, eloping is like a big eff you to the family of the woman. So disrespectful, makes me feel sick. He‘s like a thief and the woman is stupid af, no dignity whatsoever.

 

[Basra]

No Comment.

 

[AussieHustler]

@Happy

You can steal and elope with @Basra and her family will make duca for you and even pay you dowry.

 

[Jiron]

everyone deserves to be loved, I commend this brother and wish his the best