Was Farole Senior One Of The Best Leaders In Puntland?

[DR OSMAN]

I would definitely do my research that kinda goes without sayin no man worth his salt gon marry their daughter off to a guy they know nothing about. I'm just saying hypothetically an ajnabi dude on his deen with good morals is better than a Somali dude from ur tol who's barely practicing and has bad morals or jus a shitty person. Money doesn't matter that much as long as he's not shaqo laan and goes to work every day like a man he doesn't have to be super rich end of the day I'm raising my daughters to be independent able to take care of themselves my little girls are gonna have good jobs themselves so they dont have to marry a dude just for his pockets.

If he has good deen and morals(and it isn't a public mask) where is his proof or daleel for it in his life and amal? don't judge ppl on their empty words, ur not God, u don't know what the f*ck nitemare u cud be setting up for your loved one just giving them to ppl cause they profess a deen or national identity, but each to his own, we all have different values some judge by social metrics other thru evidence based metrics(hanti, land, connections to elites due to their history or track record, etc).

 

[3LetterzMM]

If he has good deen and morals(and it isn't a public mask) where is his proof or daleel for it in his life and amal? don't judge ppl on their empty words, ur not God, u don't know what the f*ck nitemare u cud be setting up for your loved one just giving them to ppl cause they profess a deen or national identity, but each to his own, we all have different values some judge by social metrics other thru evidence based metrics(hanti, land, connections to elites due to their history or track record, etc).

I'm not going off the dudes word I'm gonna go around talking to people who know him people that like him dont like him and are neutral I'm talking to both to get the full scoop. You might not care if ur little girl is with some atheist shithead but it's a huge deal for me it's a dealbreaker matter fact.

 

[DR OSMAN]

I'm not going off the dudes word I'm gonna go around talking to people who know him people that like him dont like him and are neutral I'm talking to both to get the full scoop. You might not care if ur little girl is with some atheist shithead but it's a huge deal for me it's a dealbreaker matter fact.

Well I will care but I.know she ain't gonna be some single.mom in a ghetto handing her off to ppl solely on social identity metrics or deen or even politics, her amaan or security is my.priority, the rest is simply desirable criteria but I ain't gambling security of my.loved one u can if u want over(disagreements over something u or them have no power to prove like after death). U can join the long list of Somali diaspora marriages and its fashil just don't go red eyed on me like shit talking about your host country but not that handing passport in, don't go red eyed on me(on this) marriage topics as ur aware I will encourage u(due to xasidnimo) to do as u please, as moryan values is to encourages and fuels your fashil is a value.l while being lowkry and unsuspecting.

I always tell Somalis in public when they try to compromise me into doubting myself (haye raggow indhihi bad la soo baxdeen miyaa, I'm checking out) dantayda ayaan uu hub siibta.

 

[3LetterzMM]

Well I will care but I.know she ain't gonna be some single.mom in a ghetto handing her off to ppl solely on social identity metrics or deen or even politics, her amaan or security is my.priority, the rest is simply desirable criteria but I ain't gambling security of my.loved one u can if u want over(disagreements over something u or them have no power to prove like after death). U can join the long list of Somali diaspora marriages and its fashil just don't go red eyed on me like shit talking about your host country but not that handing passport in, don't go red eyed on me and I encourage u(due to xasidnimo) to do as u please.

Brother I'm raising my daughter to be smart and if she's a grown ass adult who loves the man she's with and knows him well then upon completing my due diligence I'm gonna put my trust in her and hope she makes the right decision end of the day it's her life she's grown and to some extent it's not really my place she's gonna have to make her own decisions in life for better or worse.

 

[DR OSMAN]

Brother I'm raising my daughter to be smart and if she's a grown ass adult who loves the man she's with and knows him well then upon completing my due diligence I'm gonna put my trust in her and hope she makes the right decision end of the day it's her life she's grown and to some extent it's not really my place she's gonna have to make her own decisions in life for better or worse.

Love is important also and Deen but it's emotional or faith criterias(desirable) for me but mandatory ma aha(it's security).

 

[DR OSMAN]

Brother I'm raising my daughter to be smart and if she's a grown ass adult who loves the man she's with and knows him well then upon completing my due diligence I'm gonna put my trust in her and hope she makes the right decision end of the day it's her life she's grown and to some extent it's not really my place she's gonna have to make her own decisions in life for better or worse.

True bro intelligence is the best option of your major assessment of a partner for your daughter, even if he is well connected, has hanti resources their no guarantee he can hold it due to being generational wealth and just blowing it on addictions, un intelligent investments or some emotional shit like women(he feels lonely) or parties or faan. Intelligence, Morality and emotional stability(impulsive ass niggas) are missing.

Sxb aduunka cayaar ma taalo it's your life(mother nature ee habarti aduunkana waa jira plus that human nature hence my obsession with security as being in mogadishu during the dark ages and not adjusted due to being westerner effected my life outlook) and the journey is up to you how smooth or rough it is, it ain't a joke brah i've seen how ppl look at the end of it(as they will smile and sucker u into what u like in Bermuda) hamar and I know what happens there.

His morality is very important too and intelligence don't get me wrong I'm not dismissing religion(if it's genuine tho and helps him stabilise but if its just the red eyes game where it's used for other motives like faan, status, milking mashrucs on it, etc).

 

[DR OSMAN]

@3LetterzMM

But most Somalis who go there say cajalad kale ayaa loo shiiday halkasi(terror, deeni card, regional, secession) I'm talking about ppl who were there in dark age(especially diaspora at the time).

So it's definitely in its own theater rite now and why i don't go to Somalia, unless of course I see the red eyes emerging behind the theater the moryan boys(who are undetectable in public) which u current diaspora won't see day to day there anyways and just inside their mashruc.

 

[DR OSMAN]

@3LetterzMM

Once u learn Somali value system is more about(external) anything but him or his shit(tiisa), once u learn the markers are always around your region or tuulo or politics or occupation, their is a deep focus on u, they even will use deen card as most on TV or Public talk about what? anything but themselves but its centered about u(it's a form of politics like secular politicians do) where the issue is you and the topic is the gun only.

That's when someone who is westerner and knows moryanimo mindset just gets up and says(indhihi ayaad la soo baxdeen miyaa not engage it) that discussion ceases because kaagi in la muran geliyo ama la dhuuqo ama la shaki geliyo ayaa la raba ama in meesha dhan laga saaro(no land or mamul and identity less like the falastini as noone wants to be landless and a permanent guest as thet get erased over time thru blending in and noone will trust them in those new lands(as he lost his own land and will be given horrific names)and thats if their not evicted bruv as host might assume he cud compromise wat they have as he got nothing to gamble.

 

[DR OSMAN]

If u guys don't see that Somalis as a culture is infected with everything and anything but themselves or their own individualism, just look at the forum statistic here if u want, u wanna be shown how nearly 95% of topic centres around foreigners.

Moses 10 commandments( do not love your Neighbor possessions) rings true here.m it needs to be stamped into then as children never talk about others or waxadan lahayn like other somali territories or foreigner taada ka hadal ama ka bax meesha(it really is sad virus from the past I think). Be proud of what u r and imaan yeelo wtf u care about something that is outside of your control?.