The issue isnβt the rule, the issue is that these men are incels who are using a teenage boy as their punching bag and cautionary tale for young Somali women as some sort of threat of βif you donβt marry us and toe the line, we will dehumanize your offspringβ. They also like to insinuate that these kids are bastards despite their parents being both Muslim and married Authobillah.
Even if you donβt think he is Somali, he still has Somali Reer Abti, he still has a Somali mother and mentioning it doesnβt mean he is fully Somali or that Somalis have to claim him whole sale, it is simply a biological fact, half of his family are Somali and nothing they can do can take that away nor can they hide behind the deen which they love to do. Bilal Al-Habeshi wasnβt even Habeshi, he had an Arab father but the Prophet s.a.w and the people around Bilal simply acknowledged his Habesha roots and these incels freaks of nature donβt even want people to acknowledge their own mothers. This isnβt Somali culture, this isnβt the deen, this is their own personal incel hang ups theyβre inflicting on all of us.
Somalis have never had a rule that one canβt acknowledge their Reer Abtis even if someone is not seen as what their mother is. We have whole tribes called Habr so and so in reference to origin of mothers ect. What these incels are doing is Dhulm and an extreme version of Somali traditionalism and deen.