These people need to be put on a list and the police needs to watch their antics. I don't get how they think its normal at all? Better to put these pedos on ignore you cant change sick men."16 yr old marrying their peers is halal and morally okay and anyone saying otherwise is legit crazy"
Nigga 16 year olds aren't peers with anyone above the age of 18. Especially peers of the opposite sex. They got no business dating anyone that's graduated high school. Only 20 year old losers spend time plotting on teenagers
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Gacmeey
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Itβs legal where Iβm at and super common in the town I grew up in and anecdotally speaking also common in the city. Not talked about a lot but itβs everywhere. The only thing that is disputed is whether itβs ethical and the common argument is there being a power gap but you could say that of any relationship
Were interacting with Western raised faraxs as well. These niggas know it's wrong to date teenagers and realized the only way to avoid judgment is by dating teenagers in Somalia.
I don't know where you live but it's not common for 20+ year olds to date teenagers in the cities I've lived in.
Even in high school we use to dunk on 18 year old seniors for trying to date 14-15 year old freshman. 19-21 year olds use to get dunked on for even trying to date high schoolers. All of these dudes were straight up losers as well.
From 19-21 you have no business dating anyone under the age of 18.
Gacmeey
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Lived an a mid sized town in Australia and boyfriends who finished work used to pick up their gfs from the high school. Some of the parents even knew that it was happening.
Again why? Whatβs your reasoning?
Taintedlove
Shaqo la'an ba kuu heysaata
This thread is putrid.
It's you niggas that have to explain your reasoning for justifying adult and child marriages.
I never knew western somalis were pro child marriage too.
Age nigga. Wtf do you mean what's your reasoning? Why are fully grown adults marrying minors? Why not people their own age? Ain't nobody caring what caadan losers do.
It's you niggas that have to explain your reasoning for justifying adult and child marriages.
I never knew western somalis were pro child marriage too.
Taintedlove
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This is disgusting. You don't have to be a feminist to see young women as more than your baby incubator. This shit is horrifying. I'm so happy I have reasonable and sane minded parents walahi.
Gacmeey
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17 yr old is a child laakin when they are 18 they are a full grown adult and magically its okay and this thread wouldnβt exist.
Again, give me a compelling reason why a 17 yr old and a 25 yr old getting together is wrong. Mention their ages and stop hiding the context by labelling the parties involved as children and adults to muddy the waters and hide what is actually going on.
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Taintedlove
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Who said I thought it was morally ok to date high school seniors. 25 year olds should stick to grown women, not teenagers. That poor 17 year old walahi, I hate how much we adultify teenage girls. Disgusting walahi.
Gacmeey
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So you think itβs wrong for 18 yr olds to get with 25 yr olds? Do you plan on articulating why you think so or are you allergic to doing that?
I hate how much we infantilise grown people.
Disgusting walahi.
SIDE NOTE (not really): I noticed your use of wallahi. Are you Muslim and if so from where did you get the idea that a 17-18 yr old and a 25 yr old is immoral (not acceptable to Allah as it is a violation of his creation)? I am eagerly awaiting your answer
These people are an embarrassment to the Somali name and should go fight in Ukraine or for isreal if they love there colonizers this much
Britain look at that place today and tell me if itβs a βliberal utopia βthere reaping what they sow Somalia will never be under the boot of oppression again
The Anglos actually won look at the way people are talking here wallahi donβt know if they Somali or Ajnabi
Donβt water you time arguing with colonized minds they will say abortion murder next
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This thread has reminded me why I do not want to have daughters. God forbid I get married to a man who would like our girls to get married to a man with geriatric sperm, who will probably need drugs to get it up just because he has money. I don't care if I get called a liberal feminist just because you are ok with the idea of old men defiling young girls you are not going to bully the rest of us into accepting your perversion.
It's always the disordered/insecure/abusive types who like to groom wives, instead of building a relationship with their intellectual counterpart.
I'm sure you've all noticed that girls are never allowed to experience childhood/teenhood. As soon as they're born they're adultified or sexualised. It really creeps me out that men with such mentalities are allowed to have daughters. It reminds me of the topic where a Somali man made his 16 year old daughter marry a man that was 10 years older. That man proceeded to rape her and abuse her, and of course, she ran away.
Not that men don't abuse women their own age, but it's already hard for grown women to escape an abuser, let alone a teenager/child.
This is why most of us are deeply suspicious and creeped out by these large age-gap relationships.
Not that men don't abuse women their own age, but it's already hard for grown women to escape an abuser, let alone a teenager/child.
This is why most of us are deeply suspicious and creeped out by these large age-gap relationships.
Taintedlove
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It's always infantilising when it comes to literal teenagers but I've never seen you types be friends with 18 year old boys.
They are teenagers, they are barely adults. Anyone with sense will understand that they aren't as developed as the fully grown men they're always paired with. That they do not have the experience to sus out bad qualities in people and navigate relationships. So it is not ethical when considering the power imbalance.
Disgusting you see treating girls for the teenagers that they are as "infantilising".
Yes I am Muslim but no I do not use the Quran as my only moral guiding force. It my main one but not my only one. My use of walahi is something I grew up with.
Gacmeey
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I am friends with 18 yr olds. I donβt where you got the idea that a 21 yr old wonβt have a 18 yr old friend. Hell Iβve even got 35 yr old friends that I go hunting with
Again, you are acting as if you have met all 18 yr olds and just generalising their capabilities. I donβt disagree that there are some immature 18 yr olds that would be incompatible with say a 25 yr old but there is another side of the coin where a 18 yr old understands much more and can identify red flags particularly when they have family around them. Furthermore, there are 30 yr olds that cannot sus out bad qualities. Itβs not simply an age gap thing but itβs the maturity and wisdom of the person.
As for there being a power imbalance, there is a power imbalance in all marriages. Why would that make a marriage unethical?Imagine if power imbalances alone made marriages unethical. Wouldnβt that mean a king couldnβt marry anyone since he was the highest authority with the most might? Or a wealthy man couldnβt marry a poor woman because his financial power causes an imbalance or heck a man couldnβt marry a woman because men have a degree of authority over women in marriage.
Look you can use hyperbole and adhominem attacks all you want but that doesnβt change the fact that you think a 17 yr old isnβt capable of having a relationship with a peer. You are infantilising them.
Sure but the Quran and sunnah should be your primary moral guiding force. If any tertiary moral guiding forces have principles and epistemologies that contradict that of the primary force you must drop it as it is wrong.
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