Being blunt only works if you're not that emotionally invested, which you clearly seem to be, or if the girl has enough emotional intelligence to avoid the push-pull bullshit that plagues most people in their 20s. Spilling your guts out to a girl is a sure-fire way to make her dried than the Sahara desert.
Judging but his responses, I don't think OP's in a very "outcome independent" headspace right now. Don't inadvertently cøck-block him please walaalo, the man's in loveNothing ventured, nothing gained.
But really, what does he have to lose. When you aren't so attached to the outcome (i.e. their response) you'll be fine. It's not like one has to create a story about their worthiness or be too ego encapsulated in the event they are rejected. Maybe God has different plans.
You already know fam. I won't spill my guts writing a romantic poem like a soft yute. I know how to engage her mentally and emotionally, so all I need to do is to be patient and stay charming and give her space to come back for more. Any competition I might have is looking weak at this pointBeing blunt only works if you're not that emotionally invested, which you clearly seem to be, or if the girl has enough emotional intelligence to avoid the push-pull bullshit that plagues most people in their 20s. Spilling your guts out to a girl is a sure-fire way to make her dried than the Sahara desert.
You already know fam. I won't spill my guts writing a romantic poem like a soft yute. I know how to engage her mentally and emotionally, so all I need to do is to be patient and stay charming and give her space to come back for more. Any competition I might have is looking weak at this point
But if it all fails, I'm just gonna go back on my fuccboi shit and work on my sauce.
It's not like it's my first time being let down by a woman. But this time, I know it's nothing personal, sometimes shit will not always turn out like the way I hope for
Bread crumbs of intrigue.
You must be young. If you're trying to give off an air of emotional unavailability masked as masculine mystique. That little game can only last for so long until a decision must be reached.Judging but his responses, I don't think OP's in a very "outcome independent" headspace right now. Don't inadvertently cøck-block him please walaalo, the man's in love
Not that young but younger than you for sure my dear Agatha, my favorite sage of SSpot.
We are just giving him a different perspective. Me, @bluebird and @Desert Flower deal with knowns not living in ambiguity of unexpressed interest. That's not CB-ing because we are anons and are not invested in what happens in fact we're nice and would favour an optimal outcome being friendly and strangers.
Not that young but younger than you for sure my dear Agatha, my favorite sage of SSpot.
But still I appreciate you and the girls for giving your input.
It's just how I do things and so far so good. I just didn't expect her to tick all the boxes personality wise as well as being gorgeous and that shit took me by surprise
It's not like I'm tryna act mysterious or give off any emotional unavailable signs, she knows I like and want her.
It's just that I'm not being needy and thirsty like them other guys. I give her space and I respect her schedule so that she can hit me up whenever she is free without me making her go outta her way to accommodate me.
I just stay busy doing my thing and she knows she can always hit me up for a good time and stimulating conversations.
I'm genuinely a good friend first. Kicking knowledge and share some honest advice to her. I make her feel good about herself.
I take her thru my world and share my thoughts to widen her horizons. Nothing out of the ordinary.
Sure I might add some innuendos at right times and an occasional sweet talk but other than that, we just vibing. It feels organic and we both enjoy it like that.
Good luck, young man.
