Told “You Look Like You Date White Girls?” FARAHS Has This Happened To You Before?

[Thebluesomali]

Well then there’s probably something about you that’s making people think you go for white girls. You probably have a white voice, have white mannerisms and only affiliate yourself with non Muslims. It has nothing to do with being well spoken or dressing well, I know other Somalis like myself who dress good and speak eloquent and no one has ever assumed we go strictly after white people.

There is no such thing as white voice it's so annoying. My whole life people that are black, arab, cadaan, etc say I have a white voice because I don't speak in any slang or talk in African American vernacular. I laugh it off, but it is racist if you think about it, that only white people talk proper. Stop perpetuating this idea.

 

[ImanStan001]

This happened to me multiple time and I was offended. One assumed I seek white girls when I’m strictly for Horner Muslims and the other thought i had past relationships were with white girls. I’ve been around white ppl my whole life and I ain’t tryna be around them let alone be in a relationship with a Karen. Fellas have you ever gotten this before?

As I girl I got this in uni a lot idk why I don’t even interact with ajanabis

 

[Odious Delirium]

They mean to tell u--u r not gay- u r dating white girls--they are trying to sooth themselves from reality

What the hell does that even mean???

 

[Basra]

What the hell does that even mean???

Jav

How is your day today dear?

 

[Odious Delirium]

Jav

How is your day today dear?

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Good I guess

 

[Basra]

Good I guess

You should learn to NOT taake me serious Eeedo! Your ayeeyo is wack! lol

 

[Odious Delirium]

You should learn to NOT taake me serious Eeedo! Your ayeeyo is wack! lol

Lol I didn't but I'm trying to make sense of it because it doesn't make any sense please elaborate

 

[Mantiq_Al-gharb]

Lol I didn't but I'm trying to make sense of it because it doesn't make any sense please elaborate

Why are you thirsting for xalimos all of a sudden? Marriage crisis?

 

[Odious Delirium]

Why are you thirsting for xalimos all of a sudden? Marriage crisis?

Na I'm not available until at least 1-2 years from now.

Why is that what it looks like?

 

[Mantiq_Al-gharb]

Na I'm not available until at least 1-2 years from now.

Why is that what it look like?

Yup :/

 

[Mantiq_Al-gharb]

There is no such thing as white voice it's so annoying. My whole life people that are black, arab, cadaan, etc say I have a white voice because I don't speak in any slang or talk in African American vernacular. I laugh it off, but it is racist if you think about it, that only white people talk proper. Stop perpetuating this idea.

Absolute cap some xalimos sound 100% white it's weird

 

[Odious Delirium]

Yup :/

I'm just picking at the mind of the average halimo and it helps being nice otherwise it just gets hostile real fast and it's easier going through life without arguing with women as a man since that type of conversation will go no where and for the most part they become agreeable when you engage them in this manner and it actually deradicalises the those that have issues with somali men I'm just trying to bridge the gap in the easiest way possible. There is no point in ranting about each other and at each other online if it doesn't get anything done I would rather get some positive vibes going.

You need to join us bro. This isn't seeking validation this is mending the bridge between the genders as men we should start the process by offering the olive branch.

 

[Dalalos_ibn_Adali]

This happened to me multiple time and I was offended. One assumed I seek white girls when I’m strictly for Horner Muslims and the other thought i had past relationships were with white girls. I’ve been around white ppl my whole life and I ain’t tryna be around them let alone be in a relationship with a Karen. Fellas have you ever gotten this before?

The answer you should give is yes, I have dated many white es and I like white es, then switch the conversation to something else, let that shit ferment in her peanut brain for a bit.

 

[Sheikh Google]

@Periplus you defo swerving the snow bunnies. I know you broken one or two snow bunnies hearts.

 

[Siren95]

There is no such thing as white voice it's so annoying. My whole life people that are black, arab, cadaan, etc say I have a white voice because I don't speak in any slang or talk in African American vernacular. I laugh it off, but it is racist if you think about it, that only white people talk proper. Stop perpetuating this idea.

When I say white voice I don’t mean speaking in proper and not using slang. I hardly speak in slang nor do I use AA vernacular, I did it when I was young but I’m older now and work a corporate job and speaking in slang did have a negative effect on my speech because at one point I struggled speaking eloquently. White voice are those voices if you didn’t see the persons face you would think it was a white person speaking to you. It’s like the movie, Sorry to bother you when Cassius uses his white voice and the callers think they’re speaking to a white person when it’s an African American behind the line.

 

[Last Laugh]

I am not a degenerate, nor cultureless I am a proud Somali and practicing Muslim. If whitewashed means being educated and dressing up like a productive member of society instead of wearing tracksuits everywhere but the gym and sagging my pants then I’ll chose the former.

shaqo la’aan baad tahay

Bro if any girl turns you down because you speak eloquently (speak white) and have a degree/job just assume she’s trash and keep it moving. You literally dodged a bullet

 

[Rorschach]

Biggest mistake is aligning eloquence, civility, and being soft spoken to whiteness.

You can be all of the above without mimicking the behaviour and quirks of Europeans.

When you do, it’s clear to the rest of us that you’re desperate to assimilate, which of course extends to your love life.

 

[Macquul ah]

@Periplus you defo swerving the snow bunnies. I know you broken one or two snow bunnies hearts.

Him swerving them kulaha , he's been getting rejected by White girls his whole life that's why he hates them.

 

[kaashato]

Naagaha Cadaanka waa disgusting iyo doofaar. I would never up a wife cadaan woman as their only good for galmada nothing else.

 

[The alchemist]