To have etiquette....or Manners Pleases God...

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Basra

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There is a verse in Surah Al-Ahzab...Where Allaah swt revealed a message "about" the guests of the Prophet pbuh. The message was directly about these guests. The verses basically says, after being invited into the prophets pbuh home, being served meals, LEAVE . We all know guests WHO never want to leave our homes after being invited. God is basically saying , prophet Muhammad pbuh is too good and shy to say LEAVE, and therefore Allaah swt intervened and declared the truth. Alaaahu Akabaar! Yaaqqee we should ALL strive to have not only manners but aspire for more like good manners . Do no be so selfish. Always think of others comfort, and discomforts.


Surah Al-’Ahzab – Verse 53
يَآ أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا لاَ تَدْخُلُوا بُيُوتَ النَّبِيّ‌ِ إِلآَّ أَن يُؤْذَنَ لَكُمْ اِلَي طَعَامٍ غَيْرَ نَاظِرِينَ إِنَاهُ وَلَكِنْ اِذَا دُعِيتُمْ فَادْخُلُوا فَاِذَا طَعِمْتُمْ فَانتَشِرُوا وَلاَ مُسْتَأْنِسِينَ لِحَدِيثٍ اِنَّ ذَلِكُمْ كَانَ يُؤْذِي النَّبِيَّ فَيَسْتَحْيِي مِنكُمْ وَاللَّهُ لاَ يَسْتَحْيِي مِنَ الْحَقّ‌ِ وَإِذَا سَأَلْتُـمُوهُنَّ مَتَاعاً فَسْأَلُوهُنَّ مِن وَرآءِ حِجَابٍ ذَلِكُمْ أَطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ وَمَا كَانَ لَكُمْ أَن تُؤْذُوا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَلآ أَن تَنكِحُوا أَزْوَاجَهُ مِن بَعْدِهِ أَبَداً اِنَّ ذَلِكُمْ كَانَ عِندَ اللَّهِ عَظِيمًا

53. “O you who believe! Do not enter the houses of the Prophet for a meat without waiting for the proper time, unless permission be granted you. But when you are invited, enter, and, when your meal is ended, then disperse; neither lingering for conversation; verily this annoys the Prophet, and he is ashamed before you, but Allah is not ashamed before the truth. And when you ask his wives for any object, ask them from behind a curtain. This is purer for your hearts and for their hearts. And it is not for you to hurt Allah’s Messenger, neither to marry his wives after him, ever, verily this is grievous (sin) with Allah.”
 
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There is a verse is Surah Al-Ahzab...Where Allaah swt revealed a message "about" the guests of the Prophet pbuh. The message was directly about these guests. The verses basically says, after being invited into the prophets pbuh home, being served meals, LEAVE . We all know guests WHO never want to leave our homes after being invited. God is basically saying , prophet Muhammad pbuh is too good and shy to say LEAVE, and therefore Allaah swt intervened and declared the truth. Alaaahu Akabaar! Yaaqqee we should ALL strive to have manners. Do no be so selfish. Always think of others comfort, and discomforts.


Surah Al-’Ahzab – Verse 53
يَآ أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا لاَ تَدْخُلُوا بُيُوتَ النَّبِيّ‌ِ إِلآَّ أَن يُؤْذَنَ لَكُمْ اِلَي طَعَامٍ غَيْرَ نَاظِرِينَ إِنَاهُ وَلَكِنْ اِذَا دُعِيتُمْ فَادْخُلُوا فَاِذَا طَعِمْتُمْ فَانتَشِرُوا وَلاَ مُسْتَأْنِسِينَ لِحَدِيثٍ اِنَّ ذَلِكُمْ كَانَ يُؤْذِي النَّبِيَّ فَيَسْتَحْيِي مِنكُمْ وَاللَّهُ لاَ يَسْتَحْيِي مِنَ الْحَقّ‌ِ وَإِذَا سَأَلْتُـمُوهُنَّ مَتَاعاً فَسْأَلُوهُنَّ مِن وَرآءِ حِجَابٍ ذَلِكُمْ أَطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ وَمَا كَانَ لَكُمْ أَن تُؤْذُوا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَلآ أَن تَنكِحُوا أَزْوَاجَهُ مِن بَعْدِهِ أَبَداً اِنَّ ذَلِكُمْ كَانَ عِندَ اللَّهِ عَظِيمًا

53. “O you who believe! Do not enter the houses of the Prophet for a meat without waiting for the proper time, unless permission be granted you. But when you are invited, enter, and, when your meal is ended, then disperse; neither lingering for conversation; verily this annoys the Prophet, and he is ashamed before you, but Allah is not ashamed before the truth. And when you ask his wives for any object, ask them from behind a curtain. This is purer for your hearts and for their hearts. And it is not for you to hurt Allah’s Messenger, neither to marry his wives after him, ever, verily this is grievous (sin) with Allah.”
You know what?, there are such kinda guests, but mostly depends on how you deal with em. Could be worse if the guest is closely related to you and you rarely meet and invite him/her only to see he's not leaving your abode soon. Some people just tell the guests that it's over like for instance if it was a feast. They dgaf about guests. Guess it depends on people tolerance and manners. Can' handle pantophagist guests IMO. Thanks for making my day tho:mjpls:


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Gibiin-Udug

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Thank you for making this thread @Basra

You're definitely right, our religion teaches us to have the best manners. Sadly in today's society cursing people and making fun of people is seen as cool, and having manners is seen as being a loser.

May Allah swt guide us all.

I will no longer call @Starscream a , bum, loser, man-hoe, 2 inch penis having ass, make fun of his receding hairline.
 
Thank you for making this thread @Basra

You're definitely right, our religion teaches us to have the best manners. Sadly in today's society cursing people and making fun of people is seen as cool, and having manners is seen as being a loser.

May Allah swt guide us all.

I will no longer call @Starscream a , bum, loser, man-hoe, 2 inch penis having ass, make fun of his receding hairline.
You love me though:stevej:
 

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Its also good manners to clean after yourselves If youre invited to a Somali dinner youre bound too see people leave a mess after themselves
 
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