Thugs Shooting up Graduations

[Inquisitive_]

After a certain age friends and environment have more of an influence then parents it’s just reality I know people from good homes that got caught up you can’t always blame parents

0-10 - Parents have the greatest influence. (this is the most critical part of Tarbiyah)
10-14 - School plays the biggest role especially teachers. (there is still slim hope here)
14 - 20 - Friends have the greatest influence here. ( if the prior two failed your hopeless here)
20+ ---> Media/Social Media.

In our community the majority of the divorce happens within that critical decade in fact within the first 5 years, in the diaspora almost all of it initiated by the female, mostly over non critical or major factors, and the despicable attitude of the Father (in the older generation) is to throw the baby out with the bath water.

Even when they reconcile or become friends down the line and he wants to play a role or sometimes allowed to play a role (yes there are plenty of fathers denied that role) that crucial decade of Tarbiyah (0-10) to shape the mind of the child is already lost, even worse the critical phases were emotional bonding happens so you can at least have some influence with the child, also gone!

Once that's lost, the only hope you have is environmental factors (school/neighbourhood) and family network (uncle or cousin that stepped up) that could fill the gap and save the child.

We lack the first as our neighbourhoods are usually downtrodden so the child is toast in that department, nor do we have the support structures or systems in the majority of cases as we adopted an individualistic mindset in the diaspora.

 

[Maintainnnin]

Many of the mothers from these youth (across the west) have been sending these trouble makers back to Africa but i have yet to meet one that truly benefitted from this. I have many African friends of different nationalities whose parents also do this and they too have not seen a lot of advantage. Most of these boys return just angrier and sometimes even more violent than before.

It really start with better and more involved parenting especially the fathers and holding the boys and men to high standards. Somali girls and women as a whole are hold to high standards and do not cause problems (some of the somali girls are also involved in foolish stuff but luckily they are a minority). But it is men (regardless of ethnicity) that perpetruate the most crime.

I see the ceremonies of the university of Minnesota and there are so many somali faces. Not to mention that the healthcare sector in Minnesota is filled with Somalis and somalis form 11% of the workers in the animal processing sector but degenerates like these are just proving the point to racists that Somalis are a lost cause and that it was a mistake to have brought them to the state.

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[AbrahamFreedom]

Nothing will ever change. The vast majority of Somalis are dysfunctional and waalan in their own way. Thank God there's likely no Somali near us for at least 15 km. All western governments must permanently stop Somalis coming into the country. They are not a good fit for Europe and North America and are very disruptive to society. They bring their intergenerational chaos with them and if you stand up to it, they call you names like racist, Islamophobic and then bring out the Black victim card despite saying all other times they're not Black. If you're from the community, they call you cadaan pleasing and an Uncle Tom. They must come out of it by being the winner or being "right". I think its a waste of time to worry about the well-being of the Somali community. Who they are is cultural and skin-deep. The only solution for the decent, fringe minority is to stay away from them and for their children to mix into other communities. Just be done with them. Somalis are generally morally bankrupt and a deeply flawed people.

 

[balanbalis]

Nothing will ever change. The vast majority of Somalis are dysfunctional and waalan in their own way. Thank God there's likely no Somali near us for at least 15 km. All western governments must permanently stop Somalis coming into the country. They are not a good fit for Europe and North America and are very disruptive to society. They bring their intergenerational chaos with them and if you stand up to it, they call you names like racist, Islamophobic and then bring out the Black victim card despite saying all other times they're not Black. If you're from the community, they call you cadaan pleasing and an Uncle Tom. They must come out of it by being the winner or being "right". I think its a waste of time to worry about the well-being of the Somali community. Who they are is cultural and skin-deep. The only solution for the decent, fringe minority is to stay away from them and for their children to mix into other communities. Just be done with them. Somalis are generally morally bankrupt and a deeply flawed people.

You:

 

[The truth seeker]

Nothing will ever change. The vast majority of Somalis are dysfunctional and waalan in their own way. Thank God there's likely no Somali near us for at least 15 km. All western governments must permanently stop Somalis coming into the country. They are not a good fit for Europe and North America and are very disruptive to society. They bring their intergenerational chaos with them and if you stand up to it, they call you names like racist, Islamophobic and then bring out the Black victim card despite saying all other times they're not Black. If you're from the community, they call you cadaan pleasing and an Uncle Tom. They must come out of it by being the winner or being "right". I think its a waste of time to worry about the well-being of the Somali community. Who they are is cultural and skin-deep. The only solution for the decent, fringe minority is to stay away from them and for their children to mix into other communities. Just be done with them. Somalis are generally morally bankrupt and a deeply flawed people.

Minnesota has the wealthiest middle class in America with gdp per capita at 75k and a HDI comparable to Japan literally on to the best places in the word for an immigrant

It’s frequently ranked the best state for education how can you have all the cards and just throw them away ?

 

[CharAznable]

can’t lie man stuff like this makes me so annoyed so many opportunities just being squandered when you could have taken advantage of it.
There’s no shame culture just a victim mentality. Other communities would shame these kids and their parents refuse to interact with them boycott them etc. it’s harsh but it works makes people think twice. We are taking the bad aspects of the aa community ffs

 

[Hassan Garguute Buldanana]

All only 18 as well damn

Instead of concentrating on education, this is what they do smh. Leading lifestyles that will lead them to an early grave or prison.

 

[Afar indhood]

Nothing will ever change. The vast majority of Somalis are dysfunctional and waalan in their own way. Thank God there's likely no Somali near us for at least 15 km. All western governments must permanently stop Somalis coming into the country. They are not a good fit for Europe and North America and are very disruptive to society. They bring their intergenerational chaos with them and if you stand up to it, they call you names like racist, Islamophobic and then bring out the Black victim card despite saying all other times they're not Black. If you're from the community, they call you cadaan pleasing and an Uncle Tom. They must come out of it by being the winner or being "right". I think its a waste of time to worry about the well-being of the Somali community. Who they are is cultural and skin-deep. The only solution for the decent, fringe minority is to stay away from them and for their children to mix into other communities. Just be done with them. Somalis are generally morally bankrupt and a deeply flawed people.

It's a bit cathartic to know that there are still some sane Somali voices brave enough to point out the basis for our misery. We're indeed a society with deep moral crises that only time can solve.
I have seen some truly disturbing shit in this country.

Advice to diyaasbaro: if your child starts acting up, send them to Xamar - or waxay idiin soo jiidayaan further magac-xumo. You can't keep qaxing forever. Xamar usoo dir, toorrey ha lagu boobsiiyee (they're gonna die anyway)