The most retarded thing about ghosting someone....

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  1. Sooriyocano

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    This is my only account here macanto wallahi
     
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  2. Basra

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  3. Sooriyocano

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    What's funny macanto?
     
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  5. Nomoregames2019

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    Sorry to hear you went through all of that garbage bro. Glad you got over it. Allah bless you with a better woman inshallah
     
  6. Inquisitive_

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    You have to understand that most young female's at any point in time has at least anywhere between 10-30 guys hovering over her and each time one goes another simp takes his place quickly.

    It's not logistically possible for her to give a tailored response to each and every one of them because there are too many of them and each day there is a new one.

    You are making the classic mistake of assuming our circumstances are the same, we don't string people together the way they do, hence we are in an easier position to be honest and forthcoming.

    You have to ask yourself why in a vast ocean of qashin sub-par competitors and with the quality of female's being the lowest it has ever been in history as well as the cheapest, why you wasn't able to stand out?? despite it being the easiest it has ever been in history to standout?

    This should be the real point of reflection for you if your able to rise above your ego.
     
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    A reflection indeed.



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  8. Nomoregames2019

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    Well you just answered it yourself they have millions of guys in the dms. There is bound to be one guy better than you in every aspect.

    **** is in abundance and even the ugliest of women can pick and choose who they want.

    Generally speaking i don't really give my attention to one girl. It's simply numbers game out here. One girl who didn't want me I move on and not a big loss for me, And the others who do show interest in me, I gave my attention to them.
     
  9. Basra

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    Hey nice guys or incels, I have a bed time story for u,


    I just watched Dateline, aired last night. Investigative show about crimes. SO there was this poor rich American little jew man, who is a visionist and innovative business man who was killed in Italy. He was extremely successful man, very intelligent. His parents are these two little adorable people, short and brilliant like their son. High school sweethearts.

    This son's lifetime was plagued by rejected by women he longed and yearned for. ALL rejected him. Finally, he meets a narcissist pretty thang from Puerto rico. They fall madly in love. They fly to Italy, & finally Mr brilliant nice guy married his soul mate. That was his end game right?


    Wrong.

    Turns out, the woman used old historical trick of deceit & calculative female charm & manipulation. She gave him what he wanted. Endless attention and adulations. Then when they married. The poor guy once again became insignificant. Invisible.

    At some point in the show, we see the little Jew Man in a University lecturing, and he asked the male student in the class, "raise your hand if you tried many times coming on to women before finally after many tries, u got successful"? At the time no doubt, the action construed as innocuous, but in hindsight, it showed a desperate man trying to survey how many other men out there are suffering like him? Dejected, and Rejected, again and again. What was telling more was an alpha guy in the class boasted he had no problem, and the Jew Little man shushed him quickly a veiled irritation. or maybe controlled anger & pent up frustration?


    Uncovering her scam, He wanted to divorce her. I mean, how long can you fake love or affection before the true monster comes roaring out? But this criminal wife, wouldn't take it, especially if in her marriage contract she will inherit 8 million in the event he dies.


    Dumb money move for a brilliant nice guy.


    In the end, he is killed, she runs around the world, and is finally captured and sentenced for life. But while normal people were lost in the calculative nature of this criminal woman, and the thugs hired to kill him, or the evidence retrieved in the crime scene, I was lost on the fine print screaming albeit silently in my ears. The struggle of this little jew brilliant man's sufferings.



    Sad sad sad sad unhappy little jew man, WHO ….wanted a love like his parents. He was yearning and searching for a woman to return his ardent albeit unrealistic love but to no pathetic avail. He achieved everything in the world......


    but...…..what he really wanted.


    A woman he really wanted, and who wanted him back! :(
     
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  10. Inquisitive_

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    These are just self-limiting belief's you have imposed on yourself because of your chronic fixed mindset which you choose to adopt as opposed to a growth one.

    There are many aspects to personal development most of it is in your control requiring little effort to stand out.

    If you just took care of your physical appearance (gym/nutrition), style (tailored clothing) and work a honest living (which you continuously maximise), your already in the top 10% by default today in our community.

    If you add little tweaks to that to strengthen your overall knowledge of thyself and your religiosity through extensive reading which strengthens your mind and spirit along the way, your automatically top 5%.

    Yes someone might beat you handsomely in one aspect which they put their entire life and focus on, or even worse they never worked for but came to them naturally.

    But even then your growth mindset would have narrowed that gap significantly and you still smash that person in all the other categories which is what matters in the end, while their foundation is built on sand.
     
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    Reminds me of the following hadith of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, how truthful and how beautiful it's manifestations as we see and experience today.

    Zayd ibn Thabit reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever makes the world his most important matter, Allah will confound his affairs and make poverty appear before his eyes and he will not get anything from the world but what has been decreed for him. Whoever makes the Hereafter his most important matter, Allah will settle his affairs and make him content in his heart and the world will come to him although he does not want

    You will understand what "make poverty appear before his eyes" means when you see these rich elites and upper-class snobs wallow in their miseries, and why they have the highest suicide rates despite having everything.

    You would think that is enough of a punishment but the hadith includes Allah "confounds" their affairs e.g. their expectations, lusts, hopes, aspirations will never be fulfilled or quenched in this world, even tough they are in the perfect position to receive this.

    Poor dude could have gone to Bangkok, Jakarta or even Agadir and buy himself a new bride every other year with all that money, but alas his affairs were confounded.
     
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  12. Samaalic Era

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    Damn sxb:mjkkk:
     
  13. Sooriyocano

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    Alhamdulillah everything happens for a reason. Am now totally focused on my career and moving my family one class up In Shaa Allah.

    Women are very treacherous beings though.
     
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  14. Mahacagalla

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    You shouldn't let this make you bitter though. She is qashin for wasting your time like that.

    Think about the problems she must have to waste her own time like that though. Consider it a bullet dodged.
     
  15. Mahacagalla

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    I use to think ghosting was wrong, till I got the most savage rejection I ever received. :(

    I don't mind getting ghosted anymore. Just gotta block them so if they do decide to touch base in the future you won't be tempted to reply. :samwelcome:
     
  16. Basra

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    I don't think it is easy as going to Jakarta or Tailand to get a cheap wife who will eventually divorce u after getting green card. This man was looking for a real love. He wanted to get the woman he wanted, but the women he wanted, don't want him. Even with his millions.

    Now he did get a very pretty woman, but she faked her love for him until marriage, all went down the drain.



    Your hadith is right. We shouldn't be obsessed with anything but our spiritual quest. Allaahu Akbar should rule at the end of the day!
     
  17. Knowles

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    When the afghan dragon met you vs when you opened your mouth and it was clear you were looking for sharci

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  18. VixR

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    It’s life. It’s really because it’s convenient. I used to ghost until I got epically ghosted. I also used give my # and then block, so I didn’t have to watch them process a no.
     
  19. Sooriyocano

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    Not bitter at all. I consider it a good L getting when someone that heartless is out of my life.
     
  20. Halimo-2018

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    If you like her tell her how you feel about it. She will change if she Likes you back.
    Done.
     
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