This is my only account here macanto wallahichanging a user name does not make u incognito
This is my only account here macanto wallahichanging a user name does not make u incognito
What's funny macanto?
Dude this qashin woman ghosted me after more than seven months of serious chats. Mans we planned where to buy houses and shit , every morning she would send me 1 page emails confessing her love and our future together. If I screenshot one of these mails you would NEVER believe this girl would just disappear on me like that. They were very detailed and deep.I was totally convinced was gonna marry this girl in the near future then all of a sudden communication started getting less, she wouldn't pick up my calls. Then she was off whatsapp then insta ,snapchat etc. Shit sucked I even sent her an email but no feedbacks. That shit hurts.
Getting over it and working on my career now Alhamdulillah. I feel she would hit me up out of nowhere in some time but never taking back that qashin.
You have to understand that most young female's at any point in time has at least anywhere between 10-30 guys hovering over her and each time one goes another simp takes his place quickly.
It's not logistically possible for her to give a tailored response to each and every one of them because there are too many of them and each day there is a new one.
You are making the classic mistake of assuming our circumstances are the same, we don't string people together the way they do, hence we are in an easier position to be honest and forthcoming.
You have to ask yourself why in a vast ocean of qashin sub-par competitors and with the quality of female's being the lowest it has ever been in history as well as the cheapest, why you wasn't able to stand out?? despite it being the easiest it has ever been in history to standout?
This should be the real point of reflection for you if your able to rise above your ego.
You have to understand that most young female's at any point in time has at least anywhere between 10-30 guys hovering over her and each time one goes another simp takes his place quickly.
It's not logistically possible for her to give a tailored response to each and every one of them because there are too many of them and each day there is a new one.
You are making the classic mistake of assuming our circumstances are the same, we don't string people together the way they do, hence we are in an easier position to be honest and forthcoming.
You have to ask yourself why in a vast ocean of qashin sub-par competitors and with the quality of female's being the lowest it has ever been in history as well as the cheapest, why you wasn't able to stand out?? despite it being the easiest it has ever been in history to standout?
This should be the real point of reflection for you.
These are just self-limiting belief's you have imposed on yourself because of your chronic fixed mindset which you choose to adopt as opposed to a growth one.Well you just answered it yourself they have millions of guys in the dms. There is bound to be one guy better than you in every aspect.
**** is in abundance and even the ugliest of women can pick and choose who they want.
Reminds me of the following hadith of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, how truthful and how beautiful it's manifestations as we see and experience today.but...…..what he really wanted.
A woman he really wanted, and who wanted him back!
Damn sxbDude this qashin woman ghosted me after more than seven months of serious chats. Mans we planned where to buy houses and shit , every morning she would send me 1 page emails confessing her love and our future together. If I screenshot one of these mails you would NEVER believe this girl would just disappear on me like that. They were very detailed and deep.I was totally convinced was gonna marry this girl in the near future then all of a sudden communication started getting less, she wouldn't pick up my calls. Then she was off whatsapp then insta ,snapchat etc. Shit sucked I even sent her an email but no feedbacks. That shit hurts.
Getting over it and working on my career now Alhamdulillah. I feel she would hit me up out of nowhere in some time but never taking back that qashin.
Sorry to hear you went through all of that garbage bro. Glad you got over it. Allah bless you with a better woman inshallah
Alhamdulillah everything happens for a reason. Am now totally focused on my career and moving my family one class up In Shaa Allah.Damn sxb
You shouldn't let this make you bitter though. She is qashin for wasting your time like that.Alhamdulillah everything happens for a reason. Am now totally focused on my career and moving my family one class up In Shaa Allah.
Women are very treacherous beings though.
Reminds me of the following hadith of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, how truthful and how beautiful it's manifestations as we see and experience today.
Zayd ibn Thabit reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever makes the world his most important matter, Allah will confound his affairs and make poverty appear before his eyes and he will not get anything from the world but what has been decreed for him. Whoever makes the Hereafter his most important matter, Allah will settle his affairs and make him content in his heart and the world will come to him although he does not want
You will understand what "make poverty appear before his eyes" means when you see these rich elites and upper-class snobs wallow in their miseries, and why they have the highest suicide rates despite having everything.
You would think that is enough of a punishment but the hadith includes Allah "confounds" their affairs e.g. their expectations, lusts, hopes, aspirations will never be fulfilled or quenched in this world, even tough they are in the perfect position to receive this.
Poor dude could have gone to Bangkok, Jakarta or even Agadir and buy himself a new bride every other year with all that money, but alas his affairs were confounded.
I was the clear winner in that thread, go reread it. People thought I sounded like a professor. f*ck I was even accused of catfishing, that how great I sounded. I never forget praising. As I said I was the clear winner, just like how I was the clear winner in the hair line thread. You became irrelevant to the point you had to seduce a 65 year old ch*nk. He has to squint his eyes like he doesn't recognize you as if he didn't even have small eyes chinky eyes to begin with. Your family warned you against him they were like 'maxaa ku diidey khat eater.
Anyways.
Not bitter at all. I consider it a good L getting when someone that heartless is out of my life.You shouldn't let this make you bitter though. She is qashin for wasting your time like that.
Think about the problems she must have to waste her own time like that though. Consider it a bullet dodged.