The greatest things in life require patience, determination, etc.

Did we/you/ ever reflect upon the fact that, every great accomplishment in this dunya/akhirat, requires patience and determination?

1. Let's say you want to get a degree, to later on get a good job; this requires patience, hard work, consistency, and of course... determination.

2. Let's say you want to build muscle/lose weight, this requires patience, hard work, determination, and consistency.

3. Let's say you want to learn another language, this too requires patience, hard work, determination, and consistency.

4. Making halal loving to your wife. If you take your time, do it the right way, with passion, gentleness, and desire: NOTHING in this dunya can compare to it, according to the great scholar Ibn Qayyim [ra]/

[I've been reading halal books on sex ed, so pardon me, my parents didn't teach me anything about this! lol]. A woman's body is different. it takes time to be aroused. a hadith says to start it, with kind words and kissing/foreplay, do not just jump on your woman.]
 
wa kacsi season niggas out here reading books about sex ed hadiths 5 years before they get married :lolbron:



oh man! lol i hope to be married within 2 years InshaaAllah, not 5, that's too long.
Abdullah ibn Masud, may Allah be pleased with him, said: if I knew that I only had 10 days left to live, i'd still get married out of fear of fitna!
 
oh man! lol i hope to be married within 2 years InshaaAllah, not 5, that's too long.
Abdullah ibn Masud, may Allah be pleased with him, said: if I knew that I only had 10 days left to live, i'd still get married out of fear of fitna!
inshallah you will find the right woman akhi:salute:

are you prepared financially and mentally?
 
inshallah you will find the right woman akhi:salute:

are you prepared financially and mentally?


inshaaAllah same to you akhi.
no to financially, yes to mentally.
hence the reason i think, with hard work, lot's of du'a, i can be married within 2 years: InshaaAllah!
you'd be surprised at how understanding a lot of sisters are, if you have at least some ambition, lofty goals set, and etc, they will be patient with you. also, marriage itself comes with blessings. i know of men who didn't have 2 dollars when getting married [not literally], and after marriage, all kinds of blessings came in- the Qur'an itself attests to this!
 
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