The "alpha male" grifters/gurus need to be stopped.

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I understand that there's a real crisis as far as masculinity is concerned in the West, but I'm so sick of this cringe-inducing shit polluting young men's minds wallahi.

The fundamental basis of this belief-system is completely flawed. The alpha male/female in a wolf pack are basically the breeding pair. They're the parents, obvisouly they're going to assume a leadership role. The "alpha male" bollocks came from to wolves in capativity battling for dominance, it's a completely different story in the wild.

Competence, social standing and other qualities are what make a man a real man. Not the cartoonish bullshit these grifters are pushing on social media.

These dickheads are trying to sell you a product, plain and simple. They want you to buy their courses. Half of them don't even live by these principals, they're thirsting after slags on social media like everyone else. Spewing the alpha/beta male shit in the real world will 100% result in you getting laughted out of the building lol

 

[Shimbiris]

It's a sad world when being a decent human being, competent and aspiring to be things like a good father, husband or overall positive member of your community is sidelined for this cringe, kinda psychopathic nonsense.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

It's a sad world when being a decent human being, competent and aspiring to be things like a good father, husband or overall positive member of your community is sidelined for this cringe, kinda psychopathic nonsense.

These lads clearly crave having a masculine role model and these fucking grifters are basically subverting that and taking advantage of it to line their own pockets. It's so fucking rage inducing.

The commodification of masculinity in the last 5-10yrs has been depressing to watch wallahi. Look at the rise of "manly" loot crates, and all the beard oil bullshit. Marketer homos have turned what it means to be a man into a consumer good, and what's worse is that they export this shit to the rest of the world. America really is shaytan incarnate.

 

[Angelina]

I have a huge issue with young men being sold the idea that 'getting women' makes you a real man. Why are they obsessed with women?! They're also obsessed with with having power over women and proving their domination, whilst ironically centering their whole movement with picking up women like they're collectable items. Honestly, the movement is soulless, and these men have made their Nafs their lord.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I have a huge issue with young men being sold the idea that 'getting women' makes you a real man. Why are they obsessed with women?! They're also obsessed with with having power over women and proving their domination, whilst ironically centering their whole movement with picking up women like they're collectable items. Honestly, the movement is soulless, and these men have made their Nafs their lord.

Being able to get women is how men have been taught to measure their value. I wouldn't even blame this on society, it's far deeper than that. It's biologically ingrained, because if you can't "get bítches" you'll effectively get kicked out of the gene pool, so their obsession with women makes complete sense. They just go about it in unhealthy ways.

 

[Shimbiris]

I have a huge issue with young men being sold the idea that 'getting women' makes you a real man. Why are they obsessed with women?! They're also obsessed with with having power over women and proving their domination, whilst ironically centering their whole movement with picking up women like they're collectable items. Honestly, the movement is soulless, and these men have made their Nafs their lord.

Reminds me of a post I made a while back:

Call me a pussboy but I've never really been motivated by simple, meaningless sex. I could never bring myself to even seek it out or take advantage of young ladies who liked me when the opportunity presented itself. Just not my thing. Again, call me a pussboy but I was always more interested in actual relationships and emotional connection. Someone to have nice days and nights out with, Netflix and chill with, get to know and share my endeavors with and inshallah sweet, sweet love making would come somewhere in the mix of this. Never understood this craving for sexual conquests. Seems so empty and kinda sociopathic.

I'll never really understand this pokemon collecting of sexual partners. Very lost souls.

 

[Angelina]

Being able to get women is how men have been taught to measure their value. I wouldn't even blame this on society, it's far deeper than that. It's biologically ingrained, because if you can't "get bítches" you'll effectively get kicked out of the gene pool, so their obsession with women makes complete sense. They just go about it in unhealthy ways.

Kind of fits in with the point I made about how these movements have made their 'nafs' their lord. Lets be real, these movements aren't advocating for men to settle down and have children and 'pass down their genes'. Its about getting as much women as possible with least commitment. Its fueled by power and ego, because any man that does get married and plays the role of the morally upstanding husband and father is often relegated to 'beta' status. It's a rather confusing movement for sure.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Reminds me of a post I made a while back:



I'll never really understand this pokemon collecting of sexual partners. Very lost souls.

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[Periplus]

Half the niggas on SSpot either follow these gurus or read their drivel on Reddit.

They always prey the most self-conscious and Somalis have really poor social skills with the opposite sex.

 

[Basra]

Being able to get women is how men have been taught to measure their value. I wouldn't even blame this on society, it's far deeper than that. It's biologically ingrained, because if you can't "get bítches" you'll effectively get kicked out of the gene pool, so their obsession with women makes complete sense. They just go about it in unhealthy ways.

You are not taking into account men's obsession with women is biological? I mean, you as an intellectual man might be dead sensually-- but a dumb fk- average red blooded man see's Vagina as the golden bowl if there ever was one in the hobbit movie- lord of the rings

 

[Shimbiris]

Half the niggas on SSpot either follow these gurus or read their drivel on Reddit.

They always prey the most self-conscious and Somalis have really poor social skills with the opposite sex.

I dunno how true the last bit is. Fobs seem good with shukaansi, wallahi. My mother owns her own tailoring shop and a lot of fob Somali girls have worked for her over the years. Most were always up late at night on their phones shukaansi-ing with some Faraax and eventually got whisked off into a marriage with said Faraax. I've met cousins from Bosaaso too and these saxiibs move surprisingly skilfully.

 

[Basra]

I dunno how true the last bit is. Fobs seem good with shukaansi, wallahi. My mother owns her own tailoring shop and a lot of Fob Somali girls have worked for her over the years. Most were always up late at night on their phones shukaansi-ing with some Faraax and eventually got whisked off into a marriage with said Faraax. I've met cousins from Bosaaso and these saxiibs move surprisingly skilfully.

HA HA HA HA HA HA


Its a skill isn't it???



HA HA HA HA HA HA HA


Well, if you invest a lot of time in something, and have a lot of thirst, u will gain stamina.

 

[Periplus]

I dunno how true the last bit is. Fobs seem good with shukaansi, wallahi. My mother owns her own tailoring shop and a lot of fob Somali girls have worked for her over the years. Most were always up late at night on their phones shukaansi-ing with some Faraax and eventually got whisked off into a marriage with said Faraax. I've met cousins from Bosaaso too and these saxiibs move surprisingly skilfully.

I was generally talking about diaspora even the ones at home arguably fit the category.

I think the fobs are just confident and are only successful with fob women who know nothing better than their shenanigans.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Half the niggas on SSpot either follow these gurus or read their drivel on Reddit.

They always prey the most self-conscious and Somalis have really poor social skills with the opposite sex.

Somalis only have poor social skills with the opposite gender Somalis, they're absolute demons with ajanabis lol

I'm tired of women who were raised by women with morals of a back alley cat and none the femininity, try and define masculinity for me.

Sweet child, your father was a clueless drifter while your mom spirit broke trying to do a job she wasn't made for.

You women concern yourself with making yourself the best version of you and leave masculinity to men. Asking a woman's opinion on men is like asking a fish how to catch fish. You want to know how to catch a fish, you ask the fisherman, the fish can only tell you which bait is delicious.

We would all do well to remember our gender roles in this upside down world where the woman is bold and the man is meek.

You're right that masculinity is men's domain and that femininity is women's. But the men giving these young and impressionble men advice are fucking sleazy-salesmen dameers looking to line their pockets by spewing a bullshit ideology they themselves don't live by.

The advice these cùnts are "giving" young men can be just as damaging as the advice women would give on this particular topic. We need to get our own house in order as men and chase out these fucking charlatans sxb. There are a lot of bad-faith actors in both genders who need to be told to stfu.

 

[Angelina]

Somalis only have poor social skills with the opposite gender Somalis, they're absolute demons with ajanabis lol


You're right that masculinity is mean's domain and vice-versa. But the men giving young and impressionble men advice are fucking sleazy-salesmen dameers looking to line their pockets by spewing a bullshit ideology they themselves don't live by.

The advice these cùnts are "giving" young men can be just as damaging as the advice women would give on this particular topic. We need to get our own house in order as men and chase out these fucking charlatans sxb.

I don't think many women would care or get involved in the advice men give each other, if it didn't involve our degradation. It effects us because some idiot thinks being an arse to women is alpha. Its young girls and women who end up being collateral damage to these men's ego fuelled quest to feel like a man.

It's no different to men being bothered by the toxic mantra some women sell each other of 'getting the bag' and using men financially.

 

[Shimbiris]

Somalis only have poor social skills with the opposite gender Somalis, they're absolute demons with ajanabis lol

I know what was going through your head in your saqajan yute days. "Do I want to behave like a wasteman with a girl who might go tell her hooyo about me who in turn might go and talk to my hooyo? Nah, son." but you'll be a wasteman with that Amy down the street cos ain't no geeljires gonna hear from her snow bunny behind.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I don't think many women would care or get involved in the advice men give each other if it didn't involve our degradation. It effects us because some idiot thinks being an arse to women is alpha. Its no different to men being bothered by toxic mantra some women sell each other of 'getting the bag' and using men financially.

That's an issue that needs to be handled internally though, we have to police our own genders.

I know what was going through your head in your saqajan yute days. "Do I want to behave like a wasteman with a girl who might go tell her hooyo about me who in turn might go and talk to my hooyo? Nah, son."

I just saw Somali girls as an extension of the family wallahi. Besides, why hassle them with that qashin shit when ajanbis will practically throw it at anyone who can hold a conversation & is half-way decent looking

 

[Nilotic]

That's an issue that needs to be handled internally though, we have to police our own genders.

I just saw Somali girls as an extension of the family wallahi. Besides, why hassle them with that qashin shit when ajanbis will practically throw it at anyone who can hold a conversation & is half-way decent looking

 

[Chase]

I admit they got me for a while, what they preach does work, and their advice to kick start your life does has its merits. The whole women hatred thing is what lost me, apparently you can't just love someone, everything is cold, calculated and comes down to one's own interests, there's a reason why they call it a “significant" other, that person is important to you, not what they do for you, according to them it didn't exist, that's when I dipped.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

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