I’m currently talking to two guys, one of whom I met recently and the other I already knew for a while. The guy I knew is a white convert who goes to my school. Maasha Allah he’s really kind and is sincere in the deen. He also mentioned indirectly that he wants to get married, and I think he likes me. I’m thinking of taking our interactions more seriously.
The second is a Somali guy and is in grad school. Maasha Allah he’s really respectful and chivalrous. I think he’s also religious.
I feel like I should only halal date one of them as that’s the correct etiquette when you’re serious. I’m interested in the first guy because I know him already, and I don’t have to go through the embarrassment of Somali parents being too involved. I posted a previous thread about that kind of experience.
ButI’m interested in the 2nd guy more because he’s black and I like the idea more of being with someone of my kind. And he’s a bit more attractive. I’m just worried he won’t be open minded to some of my concerns . Who should I commit to first?
The second is a Somali guy and is in grad school. Maasha Allah he’s really respectful and chivalrous. I think he’s also religious.
I feel like I should only halal date one of them as that’s the correct etiquette when you’re serious. I’m interested in the first guy because I know him already, and I don’t have to go through the embarrassment of Somali parents being too involved. I posted a previous thread about that kind of experience.
ButI’m interested in the 2nd guy more because he’s black and I like the idea more of being with someone of my kind. And he’s a bit more attractive. I’m just worried he won’t be open minded to some of my concerns . Who should I commit to first?