Talking to a girl and just found she drank once before ?

[onthecloud]

Your first response was emotional. Why did you not just thumbs down and not respond if you it didn’t upset you? “At the moment” lol it’s good that you know you’ll start losing it soon, I was being a good samartian by recommending them to you so why are you so upset? Have you seen me crying on here about not being able to find a man? Meanwhile you’re on here seething about women going for “chad ciyaalsuuqs” lol. The world is full of simps as you know; no matter how supposedly horrible my attitude and my personality are, there will always be some loser willing to love me. You know this which is why you resort to cringey “you’ll die alone with your cats” comments. You have no genuine rebuttal because I’m right, I will always have options.

You're the one who started talking to me in this thread. Why would I not reply back? Shouldn't it be you to not reply to my comments? Why should it be me to not reply? I don't believe I have ever interacted with you apart from you first initiating our first conversation.

There is no such thing as a Somali simp and you know that.

The only one who is cringe is you saying talking about anti baldness medication. That seemed like personal anger to you. Who is the man who uses Rogaine that hurt you?

 

[Odious Delirium]

Have you like ever seen my posts? Did you think I was a man against misogyny…?

I remember you liking a lot of my comments where majority of the naago on here reacted negatively to so I just asummed you where one of the lads

 

[Odious Delirium]

Have you like ever seen my posts? Did you think I was a man against misogyny…?

Not every guy on here is saying misogynistic stuff so it's easy to assume unless you say it out right that your a man or a woman

 

[Naldos]

You're the one who started talking to me in this thread. Why would I not reply back? Shouldn't it be you to not reply to my comments? Why should it be me to not reply? I don't believe I have ever interacted with you apart from you first initiating our first conversation.

There is no such thing as a Somali simp and you know that.

The only one who is cringe is you saying I am using anti baldness medication when I'm not. That seemed like personal anger to you. Who is the man who uses Rogaine that hurt you?

I provided you with an example of the average drunk farax and you responded with an overly emotional comment about motherhood; you didn’t stay on topic, why? Somali simps do exist lol your incel predecessors on here have whined about them numerous times. The anti-baldness medication was a recommendation for the future as I have already explained, was that hard to comprehend? Posting about “ciyaalauuq chads” & how you’ve read that women like “badboy chads from unloving homes” reveals how pathetic you are. You have to resort to reading articles about what women like since you’ll never interact with a female excluding those in your family. Then you come onto this forum and cosplay as some based redpill guy here to neg Somali women lol. I’d laugh if I didn’t feel bad for your hoyoo. Lol @ you calling it rogaine, nice to see you’re memorizing its other names and preparing yourself for baldness.

 

[Naldos]

I remember you liking a lot of my comments where majority of the naago on here reacted negatively to so I just asummed you where one of the lads

I wouldn’t like something misogynistic, your comments were probably rational.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I wouldn’t like something misogynistic, your comments were probably rational.

That's what I always try to do whilst keeping the middle ground because the truth tends to be somewhere in the middle but it's only resulted in me getting attacked by both extremes on here

 

[onthecloud]

I provided you with an example of the average drunk farax and you responded with an overly emotional comment about motherhood; you didn’t stay on topic, why? Somali simps do exist lol your incel predecessors on here have whined about them numerous times. The anti-baldness medication was a recommendation for the future as I have already explained, was that hard to comprehend? Posting about “ciyaalauuq chads” & how you’ve read that women like “badboy chads from unloving homes” reveals how pathetic you are. You have to resort to reading articles about what women like since you’ll never interact with a female excluding those in your family. Then you come onto this forum and cosplay as some based redpill guy here to neg Somali women lol. I’d laugh if I didn’t feel bad for your hoyoo. Lol @ you calling it rogaine, nice to see you’re memorizing its other names and preparing yourself for baldness.

I may or may not be bald in the future. Most men don't become bald before they become old. Why even bring it up? You disrespected the other members here who are friendly to you who use those medications. What did you gain from it? What a weird thing to bring up. It doesn't even mesh well with your post. It tells me someone who uses those drugs hurt you and you're talking your anger out on me. More lies and exaggerations from you in your post though. Keep it going. Since you want to bring up mothers, I feel sorry for your mother for forever having an unwed daughter and for you giving her the pain and embarrassment when her friends and family ask about you why you're a nin diid or what is wrong with her.

 

[Naldos]

I may or may not be bald in the future. Most men don't become bald before they become old. Why even bring it up? You likely disrespected the other members here who are friendly to you who use those medications. What did you gain from it? What a weird thing to bring up. It doesn't even mesh well with your post. It proves someone who uses those drugs hurt you and you're talking your anger out on me. More lies and exaggerations from you in your post though. Keep it going. Since you want to bring up mothers, I feel sorry for your mother for forever having an unwed daughter and for you giving her the pain and embarrassment when her friends and family ask about you.

You will become bald, the “may” wasn’t needed. Why did you bring up motherhood? You’re too online, do you think I care about the others on here? This is a forum. Online. Not in real life. I don’t know them nor do I care for them. There were no lies or exaggerations in my post, you’d know this if you interacted with others irl. Instead you come on here and cry about Somali women going for the “top 5% of Somali men” and rejecting normie Abdi’s like you loool. You try and apply your cringe incel rhetoric to Somalis but it falls shorts everytime although it does give me something to laugh at. My mother loves me and is proud of me. You couldn’t come up with anything to say so you had to latch onto my point about your own poor hoyoo. I’m sure she regrets carrying you to term everyday.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

You know that’s interesting because I genuinely find awkward religious Somali girls really cute. Like my problematic cousin is marrying one and she’s this really shy dark skin Somali girl and I don’t want to sound mean but I felt like I deserved to marry her more than he did. Whatever happens if their marriage goes wrong I’m going to marry her next. There’s already a queue forming of farax in waiting for when that Abdi steps out of line

Real creepzstarNigga is gaadgaading naag xalal lugu qabo. Sharafta xagay kaa aaday?if we had a vote on whether Halimos on here would prefer a nigga like u or nah the results would probably be the reason you get put in ICU

nigga really thinks doing extra nacmalays oo fake ah in uu weligiis meel ku gaarayo

 

[Zo206]

I kno 4 a fact that if sum1 like @Angelina hopped on da thread I kno damn well dat she would deadass post 25 essays using it against ma nigga @Geeljire lotus

 

[Angelina]

So true. I know so many Somali guys with high body counts and smoked many grams a day who eventually dumped their Somali fun girls (parties, drugs) for homebody Somali girls who are never outside that you think they moved away or something.

yes and those marriages don’t tend to work. I know a few girls who have had to get a divorce because their husbands outright cheated. Men who have slept around become used to cheap thrills unless they make real tawba. Those pairings are like wattpad stories of the miskeen girl that finally tames the bad boy, in real life it ends in tears. Women need to wake up and start taking accountability.

 

[Dima&Damo]

Enquire about if she is down to be your concubine

 

[Angelina]

In the back of my mind I'd be thinking if she was so comfortable to tell me she drank what other worse stuff has she done that she wouldn't share.

That’s what I’m thinking. If Allah covered your sins and your shameless enough to reveal them, then there could be more skeletons in the closet.

OP, if you were a poster like @Bari @Javelin and the other decent ones I can’t think on top of my head like @El Nino @Keep it a boqol ect, I would say no never. Find someone else. Drinking is a major thing and succumbing to it, isn’t easy. But coming from you, it is a bit funny since you have a history of creating shameless threads. I suggest you make sincere tawba before considering marriage and give yourself months to a year to spiritually cleanse yourself. You’ll get the best partner once you’re deserving of it.

Also, a wise man said judge yourself before you’re judged on judgement day. Many male posters are trying to make it into a male vs female thing and are creating the impression that man sleeping around and drinking is okay and that they deserve a good woman. That’s horrible thinking as it’s ultimately selfish. None of you lot would what your sisters being with men like that, so why want that for sisters of your fellow brothers? That thinking destroys society.

There is a lack of maturity when it comes to this discussion and ultimately OP is simply doing that to generate a gender war outrage. OP genuine older sister advise from a Somali sis, focus on yourself in terms of your connection to Allah and all will work out.

 

[Zo206]

I already knew dat @Angelina gon b postin essays bout dis I saw it comin frm a mile away smh

 

[Angelina]

I already knew dat @Angelina gon b postin essays bout dis I saw it comin frm a mile away smh

It’s an essay that will benefit you. So read it and learn from it. Peace.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

I really like her and was keeping halal as possible with her, she was so miskeen and religious but drank once in her college years.

My answer is going to be sensible. It all depends on your past.

If you and her made mistakes and are both trying to be good, you two have things in common and can work together. To hate her for that would make you a hypocrite.

But if you were a straight arrow your whole life, you gotta move on, because that thing will always be in the back of your mind. You'll need higher standards for your partner, because you had it for yourself.

May God bless you with whatever choice you make.

 

[Angelina]

My answer is going to be sensible. It all depends on your past.

If you and her made mistakes and are both trying to be good, you two have things in common and can work together. To hate her for that would make you a hypocrite.

But if you were a straight arrow your whole life, you gotta move on, because that thing will always be in the back of your mind. You'll need higher standards for your partner, because you had it for yourself.

May God bless you with whatever choice you make.

Perfect answer.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

I never asked her now I got doubts

If you have doubts then leave it. Your doubts won't magically disappear because you want it to work.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Damn, some of y'all don't give a f*ck about your sisters.

Nah they would. The sensible conclusion is that they don't have sisters.

 

[Angelina]

Automatically she's not relationship material, she's for the streets just baashal with her sxb pump n dump.

That is the kind of thing that you should be introducing to her if yall are not on the deen. Wine n dine her, I would only let her drink red wine, red wine is good for sex drive especially for ladies.

Ragnimo are you trolling? Authobillah. What is wrong you? Were you not raised in a Muslim home?