Talking to a girl and just found she drank once before ?

[Dibleyy]

I didn’t want to sound preachy so I mentioned it lol but smoking only effects YOUR lungs and it’s something I’m sure my ancestors have done at some point

Alcohol is unnatural for Somalis and other Muslims, alchol before colonization was unknown and even after most Somalis have lived through 20000+ years of generations of sober ancestors.

Alcohol destroys your mental health, your congontive abilities, it messes up your future children and destroys your soul.

Let’s not sit here and act like the two are anywhere near comparable lol smoking doesn’t get you drunk and impaired

 

[onthecloud]

I didn’t want to sound preachy so I mentioned it lol but smoking only effects YOUR lungs and it’s something I’m sure my ancestors have done at some point

Alcohol is unnatural for Somalis and other Muslims, alchol before colonization was unknown and even after most Somalis have lived through 20000+ years of generations of sober ancestors.

Alcohol destroys your mental health, your congontive abilities, it messes up your future children and destroys your soul.

Let’s not sit here and act like the two are anywhere near comparable lol smoking doesn’t get you drunk and impaired

You said somewhere else you smoked weed and now you said you smoked cigarettes? And lived away from the family? And you also said you would divorce your husband when you get married? And you are wondering why you're unmarried? You're a bad woman. You will never get married. No man wants that. Uff calayk. Wallahi a lot of Somali girls are realizing the errors they made that their parents warned against. This is what happens when Somali women disobey their parents. Acudubillah. A woman smoking like she is in a rap video. Filthy.

 

[Zo206]

I didn’t want to sound preachy so I mentioned it lol but smoking only effects YOUR lungs and it’s something I’m sure my ancestors have done at some point

Alcohol is unnatural for Somalis and other Muslims, alchol before colonization was unknown and even after most Somalis have lived through 20000+ years of generations of sober ancestors.

Alcohol destroys your mental health, your congontive abilities, it messes up your future children and destroys your soul.

Let’s not sit here and act like the two are anywhere near comparable lol smoking doesn’t get you drunk and impaired

@Geeljire lotus >>> @Dibleyy atp rn

 

[Steve0]

Also your a hypocrite who has drank and commited zina but want an innocent girl, your sperm will mess up the child with alcohol syndrome.

Imagine being a devoted Muslim girl just to end with a zani who drinks and gave their kid issues because of his drinking problem.

alcohol syndrome occurs when alcohol in the mother's blood passes to the baby through the umbilical cord so no it has nothing to do with a man’s sperm idiot stop tryna brainwash Somali men into accepting wh*res even if he was a zaani who are you to stop him from pursuing A virgin

 

[Steve0]

You said somewhere else you smoked weed and now you said you smoked cigarettes? And lived away from the family? And you also said you would divorce your husband when you get married? And you are wondering why you're unmarried? You're a bad woman. You will never get married. No man wants that. Uff calayk. Wallahi a lot of Somali girls are realizing the errors they made that their parents warned against. This is what happens when Somali women disobey their parents. Acudubillah. A woman smoking like she is in a rap video. Filthy.

Then they go on forums to convince men to accept them and not pure clean virgin saints a woman with a dark lips, lungs and history will never be desired by anyone

 

[Dibleyy]

alcohol syndrome occurs when alcohol in the mother's blood passes to the baby through the umbilical cord so no it has nothing to do with a man’s sperm idiot stop tryna brainwash Somali men into accepting wh*res even if he was a zaani who are you to stop him from pursuing A virgin

Lol I never said anyone has to except a haram women wtf that’s his decision at the end of the day. The same way a virgin might learn about his history and might not want to marry him.

But also is religion only for women then? Last time I checked they were haram for everyone, so if she’s a whhorre for it what does that make him?

Also who’s to say he will stop committing zina after marriage? I find men who are addicted to sex never stop, they go down a rabbit hole of debauchery and after a while even trannies start to look good to them, they’ll have sex with a prostitute, and then be intimate with their wives. May god protect women from such a man

 

[Steve0]

Lol I never said anyone has to except a haram women wtf that’s his decision at the end of the day. The same way a virgin might learn about his history and might not want to marry him.

But also is religion only for women then? Last time I checked they were haram for everyone, so if she’s a for it what does that make him?

Also who’s to say he will stop committing zina after marriage, I find men who are addicted to sex never stop, they go down a rabbit hole of debauchery and after a while even trannies start to look good to them, they’ll have sex with a prostitute, and then be intimate with their wives. May god protect women from such a man

you tried to shame him for not wanting a woman who has a past when he has the right to pursue whatever he wants! Also who said he was a sex addict paying for prostitutes? Maybe he had a girlfriend but decided to change things and become halal stop tryna paint fake extreme rare scenarios.

he could always marry a second or third wife if he’s too horny

 

[Dibleyy]

You said somewhere else you smoked weed and now you said you smoked cigarettes? And lived away from the family? And you also said you would divorce your husband when you get married? And you are wondering why you're unmarried? You're a bad woman. You will never get married. No man wants that. Uff calayk. Wallahi a lot of Somali girls are realizing the errors they made that their parents warned against. This is what happens when Somali women disobey their parents. Acudubillah. A woman smoking like she is in a rap video. Filthy.

Lol what a pathetic stalker who has reading comprehension difficulty, I had to leave my family because of other conflicts and never did anything related to smoking before moving in with roommates wtf

Its literally the worst I’ve done and your comparing it to drinking and having sex out of marriage?! The two worst sins in Islam?! Last time I checked you can’t make bastards by smoking!

I’d rather have an abdi who smokes then one who acts like a kuffar.

Stop getting innocent virgin women to accept a dirty chalmydia ridden zani who goes to nightclubs and drinks and has sex with women who might be men is something 1000 times worse uuf alayk.

 

[Ozymandias]

You've never had a beer before akh?

 

[Ozymandias]

Automatically she's not relationship material, she's for the streets just baashal with her sxb pump n dump.

That is the kind of thing that you should be introducing to her if yall are not on the deen. Wine n dine her, I would only let her drink red wine, red wine is good for sex drive especially for ladies.

How can you denigrate her kind when you are a part of the problem loool. As an unchaste man I'd never be with a virgin tbf

 

[Naldos]

alcohol syndrome occurs when alcohol in the mother's blood passes to the baby through the umbilical cord so no it has nothing to do with a man’s sperm idiot stop tryna brainwash Somali men into accepting wh*res even if he was a zaani who are you to stop him from pursuing A virgin

Except he is the w%re in this situation. He has drank and is not a virgin but created this thread to gossip about a woman who isn’t much different from him. Imagine being a good muslimah your entire life only to marry someone who drinks and has slept with someone before. Yuck.

 

[Somali Saayid]

There's actually a study on the introduction of alcohol into races who aren't used to it. Native American society completely broke down when alcohol was introduced. Still to this day native American reservations are depressing hell holes with natives laying on the streets drunk and drugged outta their minds. 500 years and natives still never recovered.

That shit isnt natural. Avoid it because your not use to it. Our bodies don't react the same as caadans or AAs would.

 

[Gafgin]

I smoke weed a few times a week and drink whenever I go to parties so all this is funny to me……

i didn’t know sspot was so serious about it

or maybe you guys are putting on a act……….

 

[onthecloud]

Lol what a pathetic stalker who has reading comprehension difficulty, I had to leave my family because of other conflicts and never did anything related to smoking before moving in with roommates wtf

Its literally the worst I’ve done and your comparing it to drinking and having sex out of marriage?! The two worst sins in Islam?! Last time I checked you can’t make bastards by smoking!

I’d rather have an abdi who smokes then one who acts like a kuffar.

Stop getting innocent virgin women to accept a dirty chalmydia ridden zani who goes to nightclubs and drinks and has sex with women who might be men is something 1000 times worse uuf alayk.

So because I read your post a few weeks ago where you said you smoked weed, that makes me a stalker? Are the other people who read that public post also stalkers?

Where did I compare smoking to drinking or having zina sex in the same severity? They are all major sins.

Where did I say I am getting virgin women to accept chlamydia infected men?

This is what some Somali women do. They accuse you of something you didn't do when backed in the corner. I never said any of those things. This is likely another reason why you have no man. Imagine if this was about something very serious like Me Too and you lied about that. Men are smart to not have picked you.

You are a filthy woman smoker (cigarettes and weed). You got high. May Allah treat you the way he said he would.

 

[Khaem]

That shit isnt natural. Avoid it because your not use to it. Our bodies don't react the same as caadans or AAs would.

Yeah cadaans used to live off beer in Northern Europe and wine in Southern Europe because it was a safer alternative to water which was often dangerous. They adapted to it over thousands of years.

We somalis lived on milk and we never used alcohol, we do not react will to that shit. Look at native Americans and some Asian populations their communities get absolutely wrecked by alcohol. Somalis should stay away from it.

 

[astronaut]

So because I read your post a few weeks ago where you said you smoked weed, that makes me a stalker? Are the other people who read that public post also stalkers?

Where did I compare smoking to drinking or having zina sex in the same severity? They are all major sins.

Where did I say I am getting virgin women to accept chlamydia infected men?

This is what some Somali women do. They accuse you of something you didn't do when backed in the corner. I never said any of those things. This is likely another reason why you have no man. Imagine if this was about something very serious like Me Too and you lied about that. Men are smart to not have picked you.

You are a filthy woman smoker (cigarettes and weed). You got high. May Allah treat you the way he said he would.

Smoking cigarettes is not on the same level as drinking alcohol or having pre-martial sexual relations. The latter two everybody agrees is haram but that isn't the case with smoking. OP is the one you should be calling filthy.

 

[Dibleyy]

So because I read your post a few weeks ago where you said you smoked weed, that makes me a stalker? Are the other people who read that public post also stalkers?

Where did I compare smoking to drinking or having zina sex in the same severity? They are all major sins.

Where did I say I am getting virgin women to accept chlamydia infected men?

This is what some Somali women do. They accuse you of something you didn't do when backed in the corner. I never said any of those things. This is likely another reason why you have no man. Imagine if this was about something very serious like Me Too and you lied about that. Men are smart to not have picked you.

You are a filthy woman smoker (cigarettes and weed). You got high. May Allah treat you the way he said he would.

I would keep going but walahi you sound mentally unhinged brother seek help

 

[Riya.]

So because I read your post a few weeks ago where you said you smoked weed, that makes me a stalker? Are the other people who read that public post also stalkers?

Where did I compare smoking to drinking or having zina sex in the same severity? They are all major sins.

Where did I say I am getting virgin women to accept chlamydia infected men?

This is what some Somali women do. They accuse you of something you didn't do when backed in the corner. I never said any of those things. This is likely another reason why you have no man. Imagine if this was about something very serious like Me Too and you lied about that. Men are smart to not have picked you.

You are a filthy woman smoker (cigarettes and weed). You got high. May Allah treat you the way he said he would.

 

[onthecloud]

I would keep going but walahi you sound mentally unhinged brother seek help

Seek help yourself. Why did you lie about me saying those things? People who make up lies like that out of no where are psychopaths.

 

[Bowda-dheer]

If she drank before she’s gonna drink again so you better be ready for a bad/fight break up that involves a drank woman.